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Me and my wife have heard of the New Yorker but never been! Would anyone be able to help us and explain the process??
Sure, send us whatever questions you have. We've taken a few new couples there.
You’re welcome to message us with questions
It’s open every Saturday and doors open at 9:00 PM most don’t get there until after 10:00 PM, closes at 2:00 AM.

It’s bring your own alcohol and they provide the mixers and pour for you (tip the bartenders!). There is a cover charge ($50 for couples).

Dress is pretty much what you want but would suggest dressing like you would for a typical club, some come dressed and strip down to lingerie or less. There are theme nights which are advertised on the Facebook page. There are a few hotels close by, we would say most stay at the Hilton.

There is a private/hidden Facebook page that you must be Facebook friends with someone that is a member before you can be invited, if we haven’t met you we will not invite you (sorry). You need to be a member of the Facebook group to attend the New Yorker or accompany someone that is or is a known regular. You can risk it but have had several people we invited stopped at the door.

Lastly and most important, don’t be shy and have fun!
WEJOFirecouple wrote:

You’re welcome to message us with questions


Thank you! Sent you a message
Utahldscouple wrote:

It’s open every Saturday and doors open at 9:00 PM most don’t get there until after 10:00 PM, closes at 2:00 AM.
It’s bring your own alcohol and they provide the mixers and pour for you (tip the bartenders!). There is a cover charge ($50 for couples).
Dress is pretty much what you want but would suggest dressing like you would for a typical club, some come dressed and strip down to lingerie or less. There are theme nights which are advertised on the Facebook page. There are a few hotels close by, we would say most stay at the Hilton.
There is a private/hidden Facebook page that you must be Facebook friends with someone that is a member before you can be invited, if we haven’t met you we will not invite you (sorry). You need to be a member of the Facebook group to attend the New Yorker or accompany someone that is or is a known regular. You can risk it but have had several people we invited stopped at the door.
Lastly and most important, don’t be shy and have fun!


Thank you for the information! I completely understand you not sending us an invite since we've never met. Part of the appeal is that it's more private which is a good thing! We would just like to figure out how to make it happen
Is it 18+ or 21+? My girlfriend (almost 19) and I want to go there.
Fun4OlderMen wrote:

Is it 18+ or 21+? My girlfriend (almost 19) and I want to go there.
There is alcohol involved so over 21.
OBLooking4fun wrote:

Utahldscouple wrote:

It’s open every Saturday and doors open at 9:00 PM most don’t get there until after 10:00 PM, closes at 2:00 AM.
It’s bring your own alcohol and they provide the mixers and pour for you (tip the bartenders!). There is a cover charge ($50 for couples).
Dress is pretty much what you want but would suggest dressing like you would for a typical club, some come dressed and strip down to lingerie or less. There are theme nights which are advertised on the Facebook page. There are a few hotels close by, we would say most stay at the Hilton.
There is a private/hidden Facebook page that you must be Facebook friends with someone that is a member before you can be invited, if we haven’t met you we will not invite you (sorry). You need to be a member of the Facebook group to attend the New Yorker or accompany someone that is or is a known regular. You can risk it but have had several people we invited stopped at the door.
Lastly and most important, don’t be shy and have fun!

Thank you for the information! I completely understand you not sending us an invite since we've never met. Part of the appeal is that it's more private which is a good thing! We would just like to figure out how to make it happen
Most people are always open to meeting you there. We are always open to meeting couples there when we are going. Once you are there you can ask to be added to the facebook page.
Sounds very interesting! It does sound like it is complicated to get in the first time at least. I have been to the Scarlet Ranch in Denver and several clubs in Las Vegas but Utah has its own ways of doing things. I'm pretty amazed that the entire process revolves around a Facebook group, considering how many people don't have Facebook.
I think we would really enjoy going and meeting new people to play with, but it sounds like a pain in the ass to jump through the hoops.
Good to know that being part of the Facebook group is required for entry now!
I attended once for the Unicorn party and had a wonderful time. (This was at least over a year ago)
Glad I saw the updates in place before attempting to go again.
Spare myself the embarrassment of being turned away. 🤣
MountainFantasy wrote:

Sounds very interesting! It does sound like it is complicated to get in the first time at least. I have been to the Scarlet Ranch in Denver and several clubs in Las Vegas but Utah has its own ways of doing things. I'm pretty amazed that the entire process revolves around a Facebook group, considering how many people don't have Facebook.
I think we would really enjoy going and meeting new people to play with, but it sounds like a pain in the ass to jump through the hoops.
Well if Utah wasn’t so uptight about it, it wouldn’t have to be that way. Otherwise they will get closed down!
LadyXena wrote:

Good to know that being part of the Facebook group is required for entry now!
I attended once for the Unicorn party and had a wonderful time. (This was at least over a year ago)
Glad I saw the updates in place before attempting to go again.
Spare myself the embarrassment of being turned away. 🤣
Single women seem to be the exception.
We would like to attend those parties. How do I become a member so I can attend.
ALEXVANE222 wrote:

We would like to attend those parties. How do I become a member so I can attend.


The answer is above 👆🏼
🤣
I don't understand the Facebook thing at all. I am on Facebook and don't want others to know. Yes I know it's very secure....right
Plus we have been there at least 3 times and never been asked for whatever the security questions
1EZ2 wrote:

I don't understand the Facebook thing at all. I am on Facebook and don't want others to know. Yes I know it's very secure....right
Plus we have been there at least 3 times and never been asked for whatever the security questions
A lot of people will create accounts for LS pages. Also, the page is hidden and unless you are a member no one sees. All it takes is the one time for them to ask to see the Facebook page to change that. Like we said we have had several stopped at the door and we had to come let them in. But you can always risk it.
We were there a few weeks ago and two single women got turned away at the door. The Facebook policy has been strongly enforced since we started going.
We have been a few times. But are not on the face book page. Will we get turned away?