We understand you need to get on their Facebook page to get into the new yorker, how can we get on this?
Try saying hi we are a couple and would love to come to your party?? That should be more than enough for them to extend you an invite with instructions. Do not fall into the trap of having a single male vouch for you or get you in, you guys don't need that.
Hi, Did you ever find out how to get to the New Yorker group?
Hubby and I are looking to go in February.
Hubby and I are looking to go in February.
The NYer Facebook group is a private / hidden group so you can't search for it. You must have a Facebook friend that is a member and they can invite you and vouch for you.
There are a few couples in this forum that go there. Try doing a search.
Before they closed for covid we never had any trouble getting in....has something changed?
1EZ2 wrote:Yeah, they got in a lot of trouble for questionable things happening, and constant reports of non-consensual issues. They had to tighten it up.
Before they closed for covid we never had any trouble getting in....has something changed?
This is why no one responds to or invites people they don't know... there are rules.
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It’s a great group to be in but you have to know someone in there to get in. If they invite random people they run the risk of being bitter and not being able to go anymore
We was in the group a year or so ago and we dropped it because the wife didn't want people seeing we are in the group. She has slowly lost that fear, but now we can't get invited back. We know several people who are in the group who have said they've tried to vouch for us but still no invites.
I just wanted to throw this out there as it seems this question comes up most weekends. I do totally understand the need to screen and regulate those that are able attend the New Yorker (we had a horrible club experience as well) but for us, something as public and personal as Facebook is a non starter. Facebook has our personal information and pictures of our children, family and friends and knows where we work or live. I personally feel it's a recipe for trouble. It looks like you can lock down some of the visibility on Facebook (see posts above) but we are very private about this and don't really trust Zuckerberg 🤣 and his app and would prefer our play partners are not able to access pictures, posts about the Jazz game with my parents or know about the wedding I just attended. Those things I would like to keep seperate.
Perhaps creating aprivate group on Swingular could work? Can't the Swingular group function be invite only? Plus they have the added screening of Swingular. What about Discord groups? We.use a few of those as well and they seem secure and could actually serve the same purpose.
Anyway, it's not my group, but thought I would share. Just a thought.
Perhaps creating aprivate group on Swingular could work? Can't the Swingular group function be invite only? Plus they have the added screening of Swingular. What about Discord groups? We.use a few of those as well and they seem secure and could actually serve the same purpose.
Anyway, it's not my group, but thought I would share. Just a thought.
Also, my apologies if I have offended anyone so I will sign off for now and let "SUENDAN" start a keyboard war with "Looking4couples"! Can't wait!!🍿
acecouple wrote:
I just wanted to throw this out there as it seems this question comes up most weekends. I do totally understand the need to screen and regulate those that are able attend the New Yorker (we had a horrible club experience as well) but for us, something as public and personal as Facebook is a non starter. Facebook has our personal information and pictures of our children, family and friends and knows where we work or live. I personally feel it's a recipe for trouble. It looks like you can lock down some of the visibility on Facebook (see posts above) but we are very private about this and don't really trust Zuckerberg 🤣 and his app and would prefer our play partners are not able to access pictures, posts about the Jazz game with my parents or know about the wedding I just attended. Those things I would like to keep seperate.
Perhaps creating aprivate group on Swingular could work? Can't the Swingular group function be invite only? Plus they have the added screening of Swingular. What about Discord groups? We.use a few of those as well and they seem secure and could actually serve the same purpose.
Anyway, it's not my group, but thought I would share. Just a thought.
100% agree, I don't have a FB account and my wife does but like you said her account is full of private family information and we don't want to share that with the LS community. Nor do we want to create a completely separate profile on FB for the LS. It seems like Swingular is just a lobby to meet other LS members. Once you're here it's join our FB group, telegram, discord, snapchat, kik etc in order to chat with us.
acecouple wrote:Create an LS only account. Lots of people do it!
I just wanted to throw this out there as it seems this question comes up most weekends. I do totally understand the need to screen and regulate those that are able attend the New Yorker (we had a horrible club experience as well) but for us, something as public and personal as Facebook is a non starter. Facebook has our personal information and pictures of our children, family and friends and knows where we work or live. I personally feel it's a recipe for trouble. It looks like you can lock down some of the visibility on Facebook (see posts above) but we are very private about this and don't really trust Zuckerberg 🤣 and his app and would prefer our play partners are not able to access pictures, posts about the Jazz game with my parents or know about the wedding I just attended. Those things I would like to keep seperate.
Perhaps creating aprivate group on Swingular could work? Can't the Swingular group function be invite only? Plus they have the added screening of Swingular. What about Discord groups? We.use a few of those as well and they seem secure and could actually serve the same purpose.
Anyway, it's not my group, but thought I would share. Just a thought.
You have to be a member now or have a member take you until your approved.
Your best bet is to get to know others who have New Yorker membership and make friends with them so they trust you and will vouch for you. We are very picky about who we will take there because we’re not willing to risk getting booted over someone else not acting right.
Is there a theme tonight/would we be allowed in without being in the FB group?
Wife and I would like to meet up with a couple so we could get an invite to the FB group. Looking to possibly go to the New Yorker this weekend.
We were vouched for and met the owner in person. He said he would add us. He never did.
Most regulars on here are A-holes! Thinking they wrote the book on swinging. They crap on singles, bully people and talk crap to anyone or everyone trying to figure this space out. Truth is you can find your way in to any of these groups. All the fb groups are kind and accepting of newcomers. I personally am a member of many of these group’s. And trust me, y’all looking for fun and good times can find it better than anywhere Swingular has to offer.