We've been out enjoying the night together, and Ms Curious will ask to go to a bar to scout for attractive strangers (likely men, but could be women) that might be interested in coming back to our place with us. It feels like scouting more than a hunt because we end up having a ton fun even though we don't find anyone that fits the bill. Not looking for just anybody, but someone discreet and respectful who is up for as little or as much as the situation invites.
Where is the best place to scout?
Where do you find quality/respectful/discreet applicants?
Where is the best place to scout?
Where do you find quality/respectful/discreet applicants?
The new yorker
In your neighborhood, at the club (Kaysville VASA), the New Yorker, Lake effect, redemption, unspoken, the list is plentiful.
We like the idea of the New Yorker. We have gone several times but stopped because in continually felt so predatory. We hope it is successful but the vibe is super off for us when we have gone.
CURIOUSCOUPL wrote:Some nights can be that way. Some themes can create that as well. But timing is everything 😀!
We like the idea of the New Yorker. We have gone several times but stopped because in continually felt so predatory. We hope it is successful but the vibe is super off for us when we have gone.
Lake effect
Gyms are great. I like EOS.
Utahldscouple wrote:CURIOUSCOUPL wrote:Some nights can be that way. Some themes can create that as well. But timing is everything 😀!
We like the idea of the New Yorker. We have gone several times but stopped because in continually felt so predatory. We hope it is successful but the vibe is super off for us when we have gone.
We quit going because of that, and it was just too loud to socialize with people.
BareSUPers wrote:Just have to know where to socialize. Some people aren’t club people and that’s ok. But it would be the top of my list to “hunt”, beats going to the store looking for upside down pineapples.
We quit going because of that, and it was just too loud to socialize with people.
Utahldscouple wrote:
But it would be the top of my list to “hunt”, beats going to the store looking for upside down pineapples.
No need to look for upside-down pineapples if the wife is looking for someone to bang as per the OP. A large number of single guys have no issues with banging a hot wife. The hotter the wife the few with issues. YMMV
MoreFun4U wrote:First of all it does say quality. Easy to find douchebags. Also, says could be women so...back to the op eds question. Where to find good quality hunting grounds.Utahldscouple wrote:
But it would be the top of my list to “hunt”, beats going to the store looking for upside down pineapples.
No need to look for upside-down pineapples if the wife is looking for someone to bang as per the OP. A large number of single guys have no issues with banging a hot wife. The hotter the wife the few with issues. YMMV
Utahldscouple wrote:First of all it does say quality. Easy to find douchebags. Also, says could be women so...back to the op eds question. Where to find good quality hunting grounds.[/quote]
No need to look for upside-down pineapples if the wife is looking for someone to bang as per the OP. A large number of single guys have no issues with banging a hot wife. The hotter the wife the few with issues. YMMV
Well said!
I realize that the OP is primarily interested in finding places in Utah. However, if you ever come to Las Vegas, I just wanted to offer some options that have worked well for us. Especially during convention season (January - April), scouting in some of our classier resorts may yield a large bounty of quality, respectful, discreet candidates. We recommend The Cosmopolitan, The Venetian, Wynn, The Bellagio, Aria, Caesars Palace, MGM Grand and Mandalay Bay.
Utahldscouple wrote:
First of all it does say quality. Easy to find douchebags. Also, says could be women so...back to the op eds question. Where to find good quality hunting grounds.
If the OP said quality than why are you recommending bars... LMAO... Obviously our ideas of quality and douchebag differ greatly...
MoreFun4U wrote:Says the person that thinks lava hotels are classy and upscale. Speaking of douchebags that continue to high jack other peoples post.Utahldscouple wrote:
First of all it does say quality. Easy to find douchebags. Also, says could be women so...back to the op eds question. Where to find good quality hunting grounds.
If the OP said quality than why are you recommending bars... LMAO... Obviously our ideas of quality and douchebag differ greatly...
You obvisouly haven't been to the those bars. Now back to the OP request. If you have a recommendation make it otherwise keep your comments to yourself no one wants to hear them.
PARTYINLV wrote:Agreed all of those places are great places to hunt. You can add in there Playhouse and Flirts too
I realize that the OP is primarily interested in finding places in Utah. However, if you ever come to Las Vegas, I just wanted to offer some options that have worked well for us. Especially during convention season (January - April), scouting in some of our classier resorts may yield a large bounty of quality, respectful, discreet candidates. We recommend The Cosmopolitan, The Venetian, Wynn, The Bellagio, Aria, Caesars Palace, MGM Grand and Mandalay Bay.
!I Just saw this post.. I would like to meet you guys sometime.. maybe go for a coffee or something quick.. see if there is chemistry?! go from there? Take a look to my profile and let me know. Have a great day!
feloelshileno wrote:See we told you, neighborhood. There are several couples and singles in ours.
I Just saw this post.. I would like to meet you guys sometime.. maybe go for a coffee or something quick.. see if there is chemistry?! go from there? Take a look to my profile and let me know. Have a great day!
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Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
HOYNY wrote:
Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
This I great question and I’d like to see some answers
HOYNY wrote:
Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
Single males are not in the lifestyle. Single males are aids used by couples in the lifestyle. That's the first item single males need to understand.
HOYNY wrote:For the most part we think most single men (LS or not) would be interested if the Mrs picked up on them at a bar, so LS vibe doesn't really matter. Now couples or single females would be a different story. The bigger question for you would be how to pick up on the LS vibe from couples so you can show interest without causing problems.
Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
Utahldscouple wrote:
For the most part we think most single men (LS or not) would be interested if the Mrs picked up on them at a bar, so LS vibe doesn't really matter. Now couples or single females would be a different story. The bigger question for you would be how to pick up on the LS vibe from couples so you can show interest without causing problems.
Yesss!!
FunCouple84020 wrote:HOYNY wrote:
Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
Single males are not in the lifestyle. Single males are aids used by couples in the lifestyle. That's the first item single males need to understand.
Do you also believe that single females are not in the lifestyle too?
Upside down pineapples? Is that a thing?? No wonder I’ve never gotten hit on in a grocery store. I thought that wearing a short skirt, thigh high stockings, and no panties was the way to go! I wish somebody would write all these rules down! Just saying
Tabatha wrote:We are sending so many swinger vibes to our neighbors lol!
Upside down pineapples? Is that a thing?? No wonder I’ve never gotten hit on in a grocery store. I thought that wearing a short skirt, thigh high stockings, and no panties was the way to go! I wish somebody would write all these rules down! Just saying
https://www.swinger-symbol.com/blog/secret-swinger-signs-and-symbols
Tabatha wrote:
Upside down pineapples? Is that a thing?? No wonder I’ve never gotten hit on in a grocery store. I thought that wearing a short skirt, thigh high stockings, and no panties was the way to go! I wish somebody would write all these rules down! Just saying
The short skirt and no panties approach always works on us... that's certainly a time honored favorite. But the one item we do watch for when in a vanilla environment is the upside-down pineapple. Women have it easier as there is a lot of discreet jewelry with upside-down pineapples available for purchase. We have also met couples who were wearing black rings.
RedHedandHusband wrote:
At the New Yorker you hunt, kill, fielders, and devour all in the same location!
And amidst predators! Partially kidding, but our experience has felt that way even though many love it. Screening didn’t seem very thorough.
HOYNY wrote:
Couples: what clues you in that a single male might be in the LS? I’m interested in giving off that ‘vibe’ but have no clue how!
When a man eye fucks you as you are with your husband.
Agree with this list. NY is a can be a miss or hit with quality. Lake Effect (Rabbit Hole) has been a great place to meet single ladies that are adult about everything. We live out by Redemption so that has been a great venue. 🤙🏽
Sweeter2gthr wrote:The key for hte New Yorker is never go by yourself. Always go with at least one other couple. We always have a good time but again we always have a good time where ever we go because we have each other.
Agree with this list. NY is a can be a miss or hit with quality. Lake Effect (Rabbit Hole) has been a great place to meet single ladies that are adult about everything. We live out by Redemption so that has been a great venue. 🤙🏽
Utahldscouple wrote:Sweeter2gthr wrote:The key for hte New Yorker is never go by yourself. Always go with at least one other couple. We always have a good time but again we always have a good time where ever we go because we have each other.
Agree with this list. NY is a can be a miss or hit with quality. Lake Effect (Rabbit Hole) has been a great place to meet single ladies that are adult about everything. We live out by Redemption so that has been a great venue. 🤙🏽
The crowd has just gotten so young at the NYer. Super loud, difficult to socialize. We were just vetted for Rabbit Hole, anxious to check that out.
BareSUPers wrote:We have done the Rabbit Hole, it is nice and definitely lots of opportunities to socialize. We usually go to the back room of the New Yorker to socialize as it's quieter. We also, get a booth to the side which helps reduce noise. Again, going with the right people to help navigate makes a world of a difference and this is with any venue.
The crowd has just gotten so young at the NYer. Super loud, difficult to socialize. We were just vetted for Rabbit Hole, anxious to check that out.