I keep seeing Drama Free and We don’t do Drama.
Can I get an example please? Is it bitching and complaining? Playing I’m so miserable because, …
Saying let’s meet then not showing?
Just Curious.
Can I get an example please? Is it bitching and complaining? Playing I’m so miserable because, …
Saying let’s meet then not showing?
Just Curious.
We think there are various forms of drama.
We don’t like “coaching” newbies anymore. I’d say that’s us not “doing drama”. Most couples out there are playing out fantasies online, and when it comes to them actually reconciling that there may be something real that comes of their fantasy they bail. We’ve had lots of meets and second meets where the couple will just drop off the face of the earth for a couple months, then we’ll get a message saying one of them struggled with this or that, but now they’re ready to continue. Everyone takes a break once in awhile (this is not that). Some couples have involved us in those struggles, some haven’t. That, is drama imo.
Other times it can happen in person where someone gets visibly upset for one reason or another having to do with their partner’s behavior, or something they were uncomfortable with. That’s drama, and can happen with experienced couples as well as less experienced people. We haven’t really seen that as a couple, but I definitely have seen it.
Also, I think it can do with gossip. Talking about other people that are, or aren’t mutual friends. We never mention names when talking about funny or hot experiences with other couples. We value those friends that share the same meaning of discretion in the LS… it doesn’t just mean avoiding family and friends finding out about our sex lives. To us, it means no kissing and telling unless there’s group play, or some sort of party where others are actually involved. We don’t share who we’ve fucked with other couples, and we think it’s a turn off when other people do. Gossip is drama.
We don’t like “coaching” newbies anymore. I’d say that’s us not “doing drama”. Most couples out there are playing out fantasies online, and when it comes to them actually reconciling that there may be something real that comes of their fantasy they bail. We’ve had lots of meets and second meets where the couple will just drop off the face of the earth for a couple months, then we’ll get a message saying one of them struggled with this or that, but now they’re ready to continue. Everyone takes a break once in awhile (this is not that). Some couples have involved us in those struggles, some haven’t. That, is drama imo.
Other times it can happen in person where someone gets visibly upset for one reason or another having to do with their partner’s behavior, or something they were uncomfortable with. That’s drama, and can happen with experienced couples as well as less experienced people. We haven’t really seen that as a couple, but I definitely have seen it.
Also, I think it can do with gossip. Talking about other people that are, or aren’t mutual friends. We never mention names when talking about funny or hot experiences with other couples. We value those friends that share the same meaning of discretion in the LS… it doesn’t just mean avoiding family and friends finding out about our sex lives. To us, it means no kissing and telling unless there’s group play, or some sort of party where others are actually involved. We don’t share who we’ve fucked with other couples, and we think it’s a turn off when other people do. Gossip is drama.
Got it. And seems quite clear. Thank you for taking the time.