Is the thought of a some lady’s are at home wanting a visit super fake or it does happen? I see the post on encounters and see mostly the same people posting. Does that work? We’ve experienced most with random (gym, neighborhood bbq) link ups, but want to see where/how we can connect. Stories, suggestions, experiences….
I’ll let you know later this week. I’m as curious as you and supposedly I’m to rendezvous with someone on swingular later this week.
Oh it can be real, but there are a lot of flaky people now. 5 years ago if you arranged a play date they always came through
Well after you weed through the 100 responses and filter out the real ones, then filter out the not a good fit ones, you are left with 3-5 options. Of those pick wisely because maybe one will actually show up!
Utahldscouple wrote:
Well after you weed through the 100 responses and filter out the real ones, then filter out the not a good fit ones, you are left with 3-5 options. Of those pick wisely because maybe one will actually show up!
Seems to be the new trend!
Do you want to test out your theory?
Sweeter2gthr wrote:
Is the thought of a some lady’s are at home wanting a visit super fake or it does happen? I see the post on encounters and see mostly the same people posting. Does that work? We’ve experienced most with random (gym, neighborhood bbq) link ups, but want to see where/how we can connect. Stories, suggestions, experiences….
You asked for a suggestion …I’d think twice if it’s one of the many that post all the time … ewww 🤦🏼♀️
So, after several months here's my results. Connecting through swingular mail after CLOSELY reading a couples profile does lead to results BUT only if after a few email exchanges, including a friend request, leads to an exchange of phone numbers. Success has been only through connecting with husband who screens for wife. Switching over to another email server like gmail at the request of the couple is a waste of time. Just and endless stream of BS. I presume the long string is not accessible by swingular, who knows. Also, couples (male half) has read my profile and connected directly. Same thing a quick exchange of phone numbers. Meet ups this way have all be positive with satisfaction all around.
Lastly, I want to thank those couples who have replied back, even when the reply is "no you're not a fit" this is respectful and what I would expect from serious swingers.
Cheers,
Lastly, I want to thank those couples who have replied back, even when the reply is "no you're not a fit" this is respectful and what I would expect from serious swingers.
Cheers,
breeze30 wrote:
So, after several months here's my results. Connecting through swingular mail after CLOSELY reading a couples profile does lead to results BUT only if after a few email exchanges, including a friend request, leads to an exchange of phone numbers. Success has been only through connecting with husband who screens for wife. Switching over to another email server like gmail at the request of the couple is a waste of time. Just and endless stream of BS. I presume the long string is not accessible by swingular, who knows. Also, couples (male half) has read my profile and connected directly. Same thing a quick exchange of phone numbers. Meet ups this way have all be positive with satisfaction all around.
Lastly, I want to thank those couples who have replied back, even when the reply is "no you're not a fit" this is respectful and what I would expect from serious swingers.
Cheers,
We usually start out with kik because it’s easier to chat back and forth that dm on the site. If we hit it off on kik then we exchange phone numbers
A country went into lock down.
We are slowly coming out of hiding still. Trying to balance he'll on earth, and the people ate here reading these post. I promise!
We are slowly coming out of hiding still. Trying to balance he'll on earth, and the people ate here reading these post. I promise!
BeardedBaron wrote:
[quote=HOTFIRELOVERS]A country went into lock down.
This is basically the answer I expected, but it still surprises me.[/q
BeardedBaron wrote:
[quote=HOTFIRELOVERS]A country went into lock down.
This is basically the answer I expected, but it still surprises me.[/quote
I been here since 2008.
They are here. Just like I said, just starting to cone out. Plus safety is essential.
Most of the singles we knew intimately in the lifestyle, male or female, ended up in committed vanilla relationships during the pandemic. Most of the swinger couples we knew intimately prior to the pandemic, including the two of us, returned to monogamy during the pandemic, and some moved due to employment opportunities. As for us, our extended family grew. We have five adult kids, all either married or in relationships, and we have nine grandchildren. Family life, joyfully, occupies almost all of our social life. We both work, usually three days a week. So, as for your question, most of the people in this lifestyle, like the two of us, that enjoy extra marital sex, aren't building their lives around it, and really just try and fit it in when and where we can. So, yes, for most of us, regular on call availability is a myth. With that said, sex with the right fuck buddies, even infrequent sex, can be pretty fucking epic! OP, we hope you find the right South End Lady, at home waiting for your call!