I’ve been running into problems trying to find couples who want to play. I’ve found a couple but it seems a majority of the people here in Utah are looking for couples.
Yumm wrote:
I’ve been running into problems trying to find couples who want to play. I’ve found a couple but it seems a majority of the people here in Utah are looking for couples.
No shit? How weird that couples on a swinger site would mostly be looking for couples. That’s just the strangest thing ever that you aren’t bombarded with couples interested in your nasty cock photos … makes no sense ! 🤪
Wow 👏 👌 😍 👍
This is our favorite! Had an opportunity to know the Owner!! We felt privileged.
I wouldn’t say that I am looking for bombardment. Basically I was pondering the interest of single males on this site is all. I expected scrutiny, but to try to troll absent-mindedly was a little bland wasn’t it? 😂 someone likes to target the “low hanging fruit”
I would also like to add that there is a bit of privacy that I prefer, and not only I, but many including a majority of the couples on this site. That’s why you message and get to know someone before throwing out face pictures correct?
LinaK wrote:
This is our favorite! Had an opportunity to know the Owner!! We felt privileged.
LOL … we got the exact same message from him this morning 🤪
We would say you are correct about a majority of couples want couples and not single males. This is a lifestyle thing not a Utah thing. You have a majority of couples that want a unicorn or another couple! It’s to be expected. Are there couples that enjoy single males, yes but because they have so many options the likelihood of being selected is 1 in 1000. So limited opportunities with lots of options statistically isn’t in your favor.
This isn’t w ding but just our observation or preference. We would also say, any single male posting and complaining about how difficult it is as a single male would be eliminated if we were ever searching for one. We find confident, intelligent, in shape, funny, understand their role, and good looking males (with no dick pics in their public profile) would be our first choice. We have found very few that meet those criteria and we are ok with that. We would rather not play as we have each other already and if you want another to join it needs to be equivalent or better (in our minds as every has their likes).
Being patient, don’t flake, attend events where single males are invited, and being polite goes along way. You will eventually get your opportunity. Watch the meet up posting and respond to couples that match what you want and you are a match for. Keep in mind 1000 opportunities may end up with 3-5 actual meet ups and maybe 1 play date.
This isn’t w ding but just our observation or preference. We would also say, any single male posting and complaining about how difficult it is as a single male would be eliminated if we were ever searching for one. We find confident, intelligent, in shape, funny, understand their role, and good looking males (with no dick pics in their public profile) would be our first choice. We have found very few that meet those criteria and we are ok with that. We would rather not play as we have each other already and if you want another to join it needs to be equivalent or better (in our minds as every has their likes).
Being patient, don’t flake, attend events where single males are invited, and being polite goes along way. You will eventually get your opportunity. Watch the meet up posting and respond to couples that match what you want and you are a match for. Keep in mind 1000 opportunities may end up with 3-5 actual meet ups and maybe 1 play date.
Utahldscouple wrote:
We would say you are correct about a majority of couples want couples and not single males. This is a lifestyle thing not a Utah thing. You have a majority of couples that want a unicorn or another couple! It’s to be expected. Are there couples that enjoy single males, yes but because they have so many options the likelihood of being selected is 1 in 1000. So limited opportunities with lots of options statistically isn’t in your favor.
This isn’t w ding but just our observation or preference. We would also say, any single male posting and complaining about how difficult it is as a single male would be eliminated if we were ever searching for one. We find confident, intelligent, in shape, funny, understand their role, and good looking males (with no dick pics in their public profile) would be our first choice. We have found very few that meet those criteria and we are ok with that. We would rather not play as we have each other already and if you want another to join it needs to be equivalent or better (in our minds as every has their likes).
Being patient, don’t flake, attend events where single males are invited, and being polite goes along way. You will eventually get your opportunity. Watch the meet up posting and respond to couples that match what you want and you are a match for. Keep in mind 1000 opportunities may end up with 3-5 actual meet ups and maybe 1 play date.
Thank you for your opinion! I really appreciate your honesty and what you looking for in a single male and the reasoning why you chose the people you do. It’s refreshing to get some actual advice.
Sounds like dating in general these days.