Not sure how many other couples we have had to turn down because they basically have little to no pictures or information in their profile to go from, but it’s quite a few. What up with that?
We get the whole discretion thing and not wanting to show face pics, but how would we have any clue if we would possibly be attracted to another couple without anything to go from? Pictures of feet, rocks/trees, only cleavage or for hell’s sake just a dic pic! Privacy and discretion is a concern for us as well, but is it too much to ask to see a full length body pic of the front and back? And we’re not talking about those distorted, angled, laying down, blurry pics either.
Talk about a blind date. This online meeting thing is already a leap of faith...it’s even more so without pictures. Come on people…we think many of you can do better than that. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
We get the whole discretion thing and not wanting to show face pics, but how would we have any clue if we would possibly be attracted to another couple without anything to go from? Pictures of feet, rocks/trees, only cleavage or for hell’s sake just a dic pic! Privacy and discretion is a concern for us as well, but is it too much to ask to see a full length body pic of the front and back? And we’re not talking about those distorted, angled, laying down, blurry pics either.
Talk about a blind date. This online meeting thing is already a leap of faith...it’s even more so without pictures. Come on people…we think many of you can do better than that. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Agreed! PS great body
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:
Not sure how many other couples we have had to turn down because they basically have little to no pictures or information in their profile to go from, but it’s quite a few. What up with that?
We get the whole discretion thing and not wanting to show face pics, but how would we have any clue if we would possibly be attracted to another couple without anything to go from? Pictures of feet, rocks/trees, only cleavage or for hell’s sake just a dic pic! Privacy and discretion is a concern for us as well, but is it too much to ask to see a full length body pic of the front and back? And we’re not talking about those distorted, angled, laying down, blurry pics either.
Talk about a blind date. This online meeting thing is already a leap of faith...it’s even more so without pictures. Come on people…we think many of you can do better than that. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
SOMEWHERENTIME wrote:
Not sure how many other couples we have had to turn down because they basically have little to no pictures or information in their profile to go from, but it’s quite a few. What up with that?
We consider that a red flag and will pass on a meet up. Just not worth the effort and forget about wondering why. It’s the surprise we are not interested in…LOL
PULLMAN wrote:
we found that couples with no pics are either single males trying to sneek in or 300 pound peeps with a wooden leg and bad hair
^^^This about sums it up.
Interesting! Now that we are understanding this a little more I was going to add some pics and change our profile to be more specific. I had not thought a full body picture was something people wanted though.
Other than just a random full body pic what additional details would you recommend for the profile?
We are still trying to figure this whole thing out ... lol
Other than just a random full body pic what additional details would you recommend for the profile?
We are still trying to figure this whole thing out ... lol
As we don't care to see just body parts, we prefer to see full body pics. It doesn't matter if your face is not showing and it does not matter if you have clothes on. Also, we like photos of people doing activities. We want to see if we have things in common. Profiles that have primarily bathroom selfies suck.
Finally, we can't understand profiles that have several pics of wife only or just one terrible pic of the husband. When my wife is looking at profiles for us to find a date, she just skips the profiles that have no pics of the husband. So, to all of you who do this, you are missing opportunities.
Finally, we can't understand profiles that have several pics of wife only or just one terrible pic of the husband. When my wife is looking at profiles for us to find a date, she just skips the profiles that have no pics of the husband. So, to all of you who do this, you are missing opportunities.
We always put a mixture of us on the main page with no face pics. I usually only except friend requests after chatting and determining whether we have something in common.
Oh and the people that post In hookups that do it anonymously ARE You f…ing serious does anyone respond to those?
Those are absolutely tasteless in our opinion
Oh and the people that post In hookups that do it anonymously ARE You f…ing serious does anyone respond to those?
Those are absolutely tasteless in our opinion
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
Oh and the people that post In hookups that do it anonymously ARE You f…ing serious does anyone respond to those?
Those are absolutely tasteless in our opinion
What?!? You mean you don't want your ass licked by an anonymous 59 y/o man that is afraid to show what he looks like but demands "no fat chicks"? ROFLMAO
FunCouple84020 wrote:Whiskey_Girl wrote:
Oh and the people that post In hookups that do it anonymously ARE You f…ing serious does anyone respond to those?
Those are absolutely tasteless in our opinion
What?!? You mean you don't want your ass licked by an anonymous 59 y/o man that is afraid to show what he looks like but demands "no fat chicks"? ROFLMAO
Exactly or offers you a ride in his panel van
Hell, even with pictures it can be a crap shoot, especially with all of the people posting 10-20 year old pictures. I love it when a profile was last updated in 2009. LOL
I suspect that people with no information and no pictures get exactly what you would expect: zero action.
I suspect that people with no information and no pictures get exactly what you would expect: zero action.
I feel the sentiment as a single Male, I have had the same here. Finding a Vixen, Hotwife or even couples willing to play let alone a single female is a fucking education in insanity, before you even have to make a connection visualy and mentaly. Its not a guessing game.
Me:Hey, I want to help you here, believe me, but you have to help me, half way, to play.
Kind compationate and genererosity in lovemaking is great. A connection on any scale is important, without sounding like a callous shit. I have made rookie mistakes "years ago" like most of us and waked into the house of hell. House full of kids, and dogs, a slight sent of get the fuck out of here in the air.
If you cant host then I suggest a play party that you can get your face or kink(that you are willing to show)out there, and let the shit-show find you. It takes time but the wait is worth it. Let them stay home and watch an eppisode of the unfuckables. If you want to play then pay/show like the rest of us. I Always keep a well fed public photo-booth that might not have all the pic's you want, but plenty of other options to pick from.
Me:Hey, I want to help you here, believe me, but you have to help me, half way, to play.
Kind compationate and genererosity in lovemaking is great. A connection on any scale is important, without sounding like a callous shit. I have made rookie mistakes "years ago" like most of us and waked into the house of hell. House full of kids, and dogs, a slight sent of get the fuck out of here in the air.
If you cant host then I suggest a play party that you can get your face or kink(that you are willing to show)out there, and let the shit-show find you. It takes time but the wait is worth it. Let them stay home and watch an eppisode of the unfuckables. If you want to play then pay/show like the rest of us. I Always keep a well fed public photo-booth that might not have all the pic's you want, but plenty of other options to pick from.
Here’s a guide to picture status:
No private or public pictures - aren’t a real couple or aren’t serious
Only private pictures - thinks they are the only ones that need discretion
Only body pics and no face pics - great bodies but not attractive
Only face pics - have pretty faces and usually bigger bodies
Only pics of him - he is playing without her or she is not attractive (usually not the latter)
Only pics of her - she is attractive and he is a troll
Full pics of both of them - in the lifestyle and understand not everyone is attracted to everyone, also are comfortable with themselves.
Just our observations and not fool proof but a general guideline.
No private or public pictures - aren’t a real couple or aren’t serious
Only private pictures - thinks they are the only ones that need discretion
Only body pics and no face pics - great bodies but not attractive
Only face pics - have pretty faces and usually bigger bodies
Only pics of him - he is playing without her or she is not attractive (usually not the latter)
Only pics of her - she is attractive and he is a troll
Full pics of both of them - in the lifestyle and understand not everyone is attracted to everyone, also are comfortable with themselves.
Just our observations and not fool proof but a general guideline.
My wife and I both have jobs we need to protect. Which is why this site will probably never work for connections. But it does let us learn of events we can attend. At least if we run into someone we know there, chances are they have a secret to keep too. We understand 95% of the people here will pass on our profile, and we have excepted it.
D_J_UT72 wrote:If someone is on this site isn’t that the same as seeing you at an event?
My wife and I both have jobs we need to protect. Which is why this site will probably never work for connections. But it does let us learn of events we can attend. At least if we run into someone we know there, chances are they have a secret to keep too. We understand 95% of the people here will pass on our profile, and we have excepted it.
We've met people at meet and greets whose profiles aren't all that compelling that face to face were intelligent attractive people. Profiles are advertising. Some people want a profile just so they stay connected and see what's happening and see who's out there. They aren't comfortable openly advertising.
A bit off topic, but who are guest and trial members? Bronze and Gold members, who are they? The desk top site suggest we can set up private photo and video albums and block guest and trial members. The site suggest that you can also grant permission to see your private albums to whoever you want. Does that actually work? If so it’s a way members can hold their cards close their chest with most of the members and reveal more to others.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
A bit off topic, but who are guest and trial members? Bronze and Gold members, who are they? The desk top site suggest we can set up private photo and video albums and block guest and trial members. The site suggest that you can also grant permission to see your private albums to whoever you want. Does that actually work? If so it’s a way members can hold their cards close their chest with most of the members and reveal more to others.
Yes, it does work from the desktop
Nakkidfun wrote:
Yes, it does work from the desktop
Cool
Utahldscouple wrote:Not if said person is just here with a fake profile to collect pictures or also has a profile with no faces. It's a little harder for them to hide their identity in person, pretty easy to do online.
If someone is on this site isn’t that the same as seeing you at an event?