Swingers Forum - Too old ????

There is only one poor picture of him, we play as a team and both of us have to have some attraction to hook up and that one poor picture just doesn't cut it.

Or at least that's our two cents. Good luck.

Hmm we have a break for personal reasons but never been outed and had our profile shared that’s a horrible person that would do that. I agree a few more pictures would help bring in couples. I will pass over members that have one picture and block the ones that have no pictures

Get out there to meet and greets or house parties that’s the only way to get to know different groups

Not everyone is a fit we have found that but we have also found several regular couples that have become friends over the years and great playmates

The person(s) who outed you obviously has a profile themselves, otherwise they would not be able to see your profile. And if they can see any of your photos other than the first cover photo, then they have a paid membership. So by outing you, they have also outed themselves.

I agree with what everyone else has said. Consider what you like to see in the profiles of couples you may want to meet and try to mimic their poses in pics and narrative. At our age very few of us resemble Ken and Barbie. Just remember it’s a numbers game. The more people you reach out to the better the chance of meeting that next great couple. Good luck and good swinging.

I am calling it the way we have seen it. We both started playing around in lifestyles just under 40 years ago. The computer and internet wasn't that big a help, you had to find people at bars and clubs and places couples were known to hang out. You really walked gently then but word didn't travel as fast so you could maintain anonymity much easier. With chat rooms on the net and websites just for lifestyles, it became easier to meet people but also required more caution. We had a blast meeting couples, making friends and exploring all kinds of lifestyle activities. Cyn was a doll and always being chased. I guess I wasn't too bad either since I was never left out. Under 10 years ago we took a break. During that time most of our favorite clubs went away, the news media made big issues about swingers, alot of our friends moved, died or divorced. We decided to try getting back in because we missed the friendships with a more open feeling, not necessarily the sex. We came back in our early 60's, just a few years ago. We changed physically, gained a little weight, went grey, lost some hair... most of the things that happen about now. We posted some nice current pics, updated our profile honestly and waited. A few nice gentlemen responded to Cyn, but even then, it was lean pickings. My opinion is that we are all selfish animals, including Cyn and I. There is nothing more exciting than a hot, tight young body. The physical attraction fades as we wrinkle, expand and change. Finding other couples becomes difficult and very selective. Putting up those bigger numbers on our age does not help. Posting honest pics is a double-edged sword. While it's good to be honest it also deters people away. We have found meeting people whenever possible makes the best connection, the way it was in the beginning. When you let people meet you, learn what they are really like and they see what you really are, the relationship seems to solidify quicker and without having to fake it in any way. Its hard, miserable and frustrating after all the fun we had in younger years, but our bodies aged, not our minds.
Good luck.. a good friendship is worth the effort.

We find that many people here are pretty passive. I make an effort to contact people that we might find interesting and see what they say. Most are happy to communicate, but are still passive and I need to keep checking back about meeting. Get out there and chase down the couples you find interesting.

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