it's funny to me there's an option to turn of single dudes but not woment lol. just funny cuz it's exactly what we're looking for but because dudes are insecure creeps, they've ruined tryna swing somehow. In my mind, the term swing has been blasted with negativity because you nearly can't even say the word lol. Yet most swingers i've met, shouldn't be swinging which makes question the entire thine realizing theres a lot of differences between swingers and me. I feel as if swingers still have rule & since I don't, what am I. I guess I'm a liver. A liver is a person who just likes living and if a moment as it presents itself in time where if she or he is attracted you trust her as a grown adult being safe. So in my mind, a swinger could never be with a liver. Basically, if you have rules, you're a swinger, if you don't, you're a liver—what are you? To me, swingers need to grow up because it's a fact from the livers i've met, we're always with the finest women.
Swingers here, our rules are really around our likes or dislikes. Not everyone likes everything or everyone! For example, we hate liver especially with onions, brings back PTSD 😂!!!
Sheesh.. first off- your newly coined term “liver” has a lot of problems.. first being it sounds like you’re talking about the body part… second.. things in life aren’t binary. The word AND is important.. you can be one thing AND another thing.. to try to act like “swingers” are somehow all easily placed in a passive aggressively titled box denoting they don’t know how to “live” is very logically, emotionally, philosophically false.
Also, if your definition of a “liver” is that you “don’t have rules”… then why Also, if your definition of a “liver” is that you “don’t have rules”… then why does your profile have so many rules?? Such as “no no guys”? And then also making an awkward racial reference and promoting violence (real or perceived) … it sounds like to us you must be a “swinger” and not a “liver” based on your definitions…you’ll look back at this and feel really stupid one day… hopefully sooner rather than later.
Would "Ethical Non Monogamy" sound better to you. What we are talking about here is leaving the external societal rules behind and doing what we feel good with, sometimes that means we set our own rules. I'm sure that you have your own rules too, of one sort or anther. The Reason we Swingers have rules is that we enter this lifestyle with our own needs and wants and the needs and wants of our mates. We need to balance both while rejecting the conventional norm. Our sex life is like something out of an erotic novel that most people can't imagine is real, but we love it, rules and all.
That gave me a headache.
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
That gave me a headache.
LOL
perfect
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
That gave me a headache.
No kidding and so confused 🫤
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
That gave me a headache.
😂. After reading, I assumed it was a late night/early morning drunk conversation starter.
I’m not sure what any of that even meant … too many words and punctuation missing 🤣
I'm definitely chopped liver
DOM1NATION wrote:
it's funny to me there's an option to turn of single dudes but not woment lol. just funny cuz it's exactly what we're looking for but because dudes are insecure creeps, they've ruined tryna swing somehow. In my mind, the term swing has been blasted with negativity because you nearly can't even say the word lol. Yet most swingers i've met, shouldn't be swinging which makes question the entire thine realizing theres a lot of differences between swingers and me. I feel as if swingers still have rule & since I don't, what am I. I guess I'm a liver. A liver is a person who just likes living and if a moment as it presents itself in time where if she or he is attracted you trust her as a grown adult being safe. So in my mind, a swinger could never be with a liver. Basically, if you have rules, you're a swinger, if you don't, you're a liver—what are you? To me, swingers need to grow up because it's a fact from the livers i've met, we're always with the finest women.
Tells swingers to grow up on his post.
Says his swinging level is "Super Saiyan" on his profile.
Drunk forum posting?
Lmao 😂 wow!! This post…. The problem your having isn’t that your lifestyle as a “liver” is wrong, it’s the fact that you are contradicting yourself . You can’t expect others to not have have rules but have them yourself. It’s not single males that are the issue either, rather the lack of respect/socialization. Everyone is here to have a good time and not everyone is going to be your cup of tea. A lot of swingers I know are mature, respectful and want the same thing in return. Maybe just your experience and what your looking for is the problem.
I consider myself a swinger with a liver........
I also have kidneys and several other important organs.
I also have kidneys and several other important organs.
Not today Al-Qaeda
Is this another Biden speech gone wrong?
RECON wrote:
Not today Al-Qaeda
Right!
Well damn, I was hoping someone would have translated that, I guess we're all confused 😂🤣😂
JULESVERNE wrote:
Would "Ethical Non Monogamy" sound better to you. What we are talking about here is leaving the external societal rules behind and doing what we feel good with, sometimes that means we set our own rules. I'm sure that you have your own rules too, of one sort or anther. The Reason we Swingers have rules is that we enter this lifestyle with our own needs and wants and the needs and wants of our mates. We need to balance both while rejecting the conventional norm. Our sex life is like something out of an erotic novel that most people can't imagine is real, but we love it, rules and all.
What they said.
Swingers allow many people, singles and couples to play as they choose with that those that want to swing, play or whatever they agree on.
It's all about enjoyment and respect towards a lifestyle we choose to become a part of.
Inviting those to have a good experience with and having trust and respect for each other. With those things in mind, it's a lavish lifestyle that we all are welcome to share. It shouldn't be complicated.
Inviting those to have a good experience with and having trust and respect for each other. With those things in mind, it's a lavish lifestyle that we all are welcome to share. It shouldn't be complicated.
Everyone is different.
Imagine of Biden came "sniffing " around in this forum. I don't think anyone of us are young enough for him.