So we all have friends lists here, and we all periodically clean them out. Sometimes we find that we have been cleaned out of others lists. What should we think? is this just routine housecleaning? Is it a technical glitch? Or is it a passive aggressive way of telling you something?
For us we look at our list to see who hasn't been on in a long time, deleted all of their pictures as if to signify they are done, have moved out of state or just couples we never could get to meet and delete them. Nothing personal just periotic maintenance to keep out list up to date and relevant.
SWINGSETS wrote:
For us we look at our list to see who hasn't been on in a long time, deleted all of their pictures as if to signify they are done, have moved out of state or just couples we never could get to meet and delete them. Nothing personal just periotic maintenance to keep out list up to date and relevant.
We do the same. Check to see if they're still around in case they are out of town and might want to reconnect and see what their profile says for any updates whether bad or good. TO answer Julesvernes question probably the only passive-aggressive thing we do is block profiles that keep making friend requests without a message or just people outside of our demographic after we already messaged back saying no.
I accept it as part of the process in meeting and getting to know people to see if they are a good fit. Some people send/accept friend requests just to see more pictures.
In general, if they don't start up a conversation after that, or respond to a couple of messages I just assume that they are not seriously interested. I usually keep them on my friends list for a couple of months in case they were just busy or unsure, and then I delete them.
In general, if they don't start up a conversation after that, or respond to a couple of messages I just assume that they are not seriously interested. I usually keep them on my friends list for a couple of months in case they were just busy or unsure, and then I delete them.
The entire friends thing is ridiculous. The feature should be unavailable if there isn't a message history between the parties.
We have 103 pending friend requests, all from Utah (2000+ miles away) and we have never received any messages from any of the requesters. They just want access to our private album. But this site is HEAVY with people trolling for pics. That's why the routine in the forum section is Milf Mania Monday, Titty Tuesday, Hump Day, Thong Thursday, Fanny Friday, etc.
We have 103 pending friend requests, all from Utah (2000+ miles away) and we have never received any messages from any of the requesters. They just want access to our private album. But this site is HEAVY with people trolling for pics. That's why the routine in the forum section is Milf Mania Monday, Titty Tuesday, Hump Day, Thong Thursday, Fanny Friday, etc.
We clean out our friends list periodically and we have no mal-intent. Generally, we'll stay friends forever if we've met you, played with you, or maintained a dialogue. The 'friends' we clear out are those where we believe there is very little chance of meeting in real life. If that changes - we are happy to re-instate. Just not interested in having our private pics circulating with people who have no intention on meeting us. Definitely not personal . . . and easy to change.
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
...this site is HEAVY with people trolling for pics. That's why the routine in the forum section is Milf Mania Monday, Titty Tuesday, Hump Day, Thong Thursday, Fanny Friday, etc.
Unfortunately true.
Couples with staying power on our list we have at least met. Maybe only once or we may cross paths only periodically, but both are verified genuine. People making excuses not to meet never last long.
Granting access to picture folders should be a separate feature from maintaining a friends list. Other sites do it that way.
SexyPowSkiers wrote:
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Granting access to picture folders should be a separate feature from maintaining a friends list. Other sites do it that way.
T H I S. Couldn't agree more!
We do a sweep through our friends list about once a year. We remove friends from our list if we haven’t had any communication with them in the past year. Otherwise it just feels like we are only “friends” so they have access to our private pics and we theirs. So if someone gets unfriended, we mean no disrespect.
I would be friends with you. 🔥😊
SouthJordanCouple wrote:
We do a sweep through our friends list about once a year. We remove friends from our list if we haven’t had any communication with them in the past year. Otherwise it just feels like we are only “friends” so they have access to our private pics and we theirs. So if someone gets unfriended, we mean no disrespect.
This is pretty much how we do it as well. If we reconnect then it's still just as grand.
For us, it has been nothing personal at all, with anyone. In fact, we were always hesitant to clean out our lists thinking that those we removed may be hurt or wonder what they had done or didn't do. We've done this with some seemingly very cool people. Typically, we cleaned because we didn't think we were going to meet, whether the couple split, or for other reasons. In a few cases, we accepted random requests from those who clearly didn't read our profile, so we could see their private pics, then quickly cleaned. Not sure what to think of that practice...