Swingers Forum - Utah moms (Mormon) TikTok drama

Curious if anyone here knew these couples? And if they knew they were swingers? Also, PSA…great you and your husband had issues don’t disclose or throw others into the limelight because your marriage failed! Definitely interesting!

https://www.popsugar.com/love/soft-swap-taylor-frankie-paul-tiktok-48840913/amp

Gitterdone wrote:

I don't know who that person is but I do know that swingers will ways throw others under the bus. It's happened to me several times mostly to get with the female I was with. Men will tattle on each other in hopes that the female will leave and run to him which never did work. Nonetheless the attempt was there. They ways tell and swingers always talk. Yet this entire time I've kept so many secrets about others and never will reveal anything. Too bad no one else does. I've been around for a long time in the lifestyle especially when I was a couple. We knew about marriages breaking up. Two of who I know personally. Actually three now that I think about it. I'll never name anyone. All I ask is the same respect and keep it to yourself.

We don’t understand it. We get misery loves company but why sink everyone around because you are jaded.

Gitterdone wrote:

I don't know who that person is but I do know that swingers will ways throw others under the bus. It's happened to me several times mostly to get with the female I was with. Men will tattle on each other in hopes that the female will leave and run to him which never did work. Nonetheless the attempt was there. They ways tell and swingers always talk. Yet this entire time I've kept so many secrets about others and never will reveal anything. Too bad no one else does. I've been around for a long time in the lifestyle especially when I was a couple. We knew about marriages breaking up. Two of who I know personally. Actually three now that I think about it. I'll never name anyone. All I ask is the same respect and keep it to yourself.

Unfortunately some people in the community get some thrill from outing others, gossip and causing chaos. That’s human nature, we suppose. Not been our thing. Guys have offered to take Mrs away and give her what they supposed she did not have. Gals have made the same offer to Mr. Again, not our thing. We’ve seen a few couples try the lifestyle as a way to “save” their relationship. If that’s what they need, it rarely works, there’s probably deeper issues at play than good playtime. We’ve had lots of fun, met really cool people, and learned so much. We’ve also had terrible (mostly comical and some tragic) times, met some creeps and assholes, and made more than a few mistakes. What consenting adults do amongst themselves is their own business. Outing others is not just bad form, but a major downer. But we’d be remiss if we didn’t admit to taking some amusement from watching them throw each other under the bus (more popcorn and a bigger bus, please!).

Utahldscouple wrote:

As entertaining as it is, just don’t! And I don’t think they know what the lifestyle is all about in reality other than they played with each other and that’s about it.

Agreed. It is not our style. But it is like seeing a train wreck, morbid curiosity.

As far as if they understand the lifestyle? Not sure we understand it. But from what we’ve seen, it is not for trifling. And if you’re going to file for divorce over a single violation of your rules, what would you have expected to happen?

Ugh... What a walking talking red flag. I'd never get involved with this woman for a second.

https://youtu.be/HKk91x0Yg7Q

sugarhouse2 wrote:

Ugh... What a walking talking red flag. I'd never get involved with this woman for a second.
https://youtu.be/HKk91x0Yg7Q

Right?

Don't think we knew them but may have run into a couple at a party. So basically she. (Taylor) appears to be what we used to call an "Attention Whore". It's all about me regardless, hence she screwed somebody when her agreement with her husband was communicate first. Well wtf did they both think would happen. I mean what's the diff? Don't understand if you are ok with soft and chemistry heat of the moment etc you go full. Shit happens. OK bummed you didn't tell me first but good for you you got some strange. Anyone that puts their life out there for everybody good for you but you mention my name and discuss my business? Here's my lawyer you piece of shit. Never in 20+ years did we have a privacy problem in the swinger world until Utah. Everywhere else you will be quickly banned and off on your own for breaching confedences.

guynextdoor wrote:

My wife and I met a couple in this friend group last year. I wouldn’t consider them swingers, as their soft swap version was mostly swimming/hot tubbing naked with the occasional “dare” kiss that would turn into making out in front of everyone else. I’ve heard of some couples sleeping around with others but I think that was more of a cheating situation than an open relationship.

This makes the most sense!

Hubbyandwife98 wrote:

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Not here but like I said responding to you EDM, single male with a new profile and no pictures from Michigan will raise every flag in the universe on here. Try the meet ups and try creating a new profile as a couple might help you.