We have been together for 13 years and have kids together. We have been around the lifestyle for about 8 years but still have not had our first soft swap experience with another couple… Now we are ready to try it and maybe even work up to more!
We have had lengthy talks about how we want to move forward. Ideally, we would really like to meet a couple that would like to meet up more than just once so we can share each of our first experiences with the same people and grow more comfortable with them over time. We would like to move slow, maybe go a little farther each time we get together. Is that even reasonable nowadays?
If you are a couple that is ok with moving at that speed we would love to have you introduce yourselves to us!
We don’t claim to be Ken and Barbie but we are in decent shape and hope to find a similar couple. We have never paid attention to people who just send blind friend request, we like the personal touch. 😁 We can’t wait to get to know you!
We have had lengthy talks about how we want to move forward. Ideally, we would really like to meet a couple that would like to meet up more than just once so we can share each of our first experiences with the same people and grow more comfortable with them over time. We would like to move slow, maybe go a little farther each time we get together. Is that even reasonable nowadays?
If you are a couple that is ok with moving at that speed we would love to have you introduce yourselves to us!
We don’t claim to be Ken and Barbie but we are in decent shape and hope to find a similar couple. We have never paid attention to people who just send blind friend request, we like the personal touch. 😁 We can’t wait to get to know you!
When we first started out we were the same way, we wanted to establish a good connection and friendship before we ever jumped into bed. Fast forward 10 plus years of being active in the LS we still are the same way but have made some amazing friends and had some amazing and fun experience along the way. I always recommend going at whatever pace you feel comfortable with and the naughty fun will follow it.
We may not be in Northern Utah, but this sounds like our speed as well. xoxo
Getting to know people first is all part of the experience. Conversations, flirting, ect. We always love meeting someone new, even if it doesn't progress into anything besides a few dinners.
We would probably be down
We started out this way. It took us a long time to find couples willing to go at our speed and that we were attracted to as well. Takes a lot of patience. Give it time and have an open mind and be willing to meet up with people that may not be “perfect”.
Jetset4play wrote:
Ideally, we would really like to meet a couple that would like to meet up more than just once so we can share each of our first experiences with the same people and grow more comfortable with them over time. We would like to move slow, maybe go a little farther each time we get together. Is that even reasonable nowadays?
That's us, more or less. We've been so bogged down with a work project though that we haven't pursued the idea in a year or more. For us, it has felt a bit like looking for a needle in a haystack. There are people out there with similar desires but, our location adds to the challenge.
you are not alone. we are in southern Utah at your'e exact same pace and same expectations...
We are game of interested.
Soft swap can be so much fun with the right people. I am in Logan and we would definitely be interested!