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Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?
We throw the occasional house party in Utah County - we will be doing one in June and another in July for sure.... these are meet and greet, casual get togethers - Game Nights basically ( naughty game nights ) - Usually around 40-50 people - ( cap it at 25 couples ) so look for them and get on the guest list early when they pop up on here.
Lemondrop
Send me a message and we can talk, I'm happy to give a few pointers
Lemondrop wrote:

Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?


Where would we find the listing/invite? When I look in the party sections, the listings are old.
Lemondrop wrote:

Lemondrop wrote:

Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?

Where would we find the listing/invite? When I look in the party sections, the listings are old.


We will pst them in the party section, as well as the forums when they are about 2 weeks out. any sooner than that, and we seem to have way more "no-shows" ... first party will be around June 4th weekend, so look for a party announcement in a few weeks.
CNTRLCPL wrote:

Lemondrop wrote:

[quote=Lemondrop]Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?

Where would we find the listing/invite? When I look in the party sections, the listings are old.

We will pst them in the party section, as well as the forums when they are about 2 weeks out. any sooner than that, and we seem to have way more "no-shows" ... first party will be around June 4th weekend, so look for a party announcement in a few weeks.[/quote]

Will do, thank you.
CNTRLCPL wrote:

We throw the occasional house party in Utah County - we will be doing one in June and another in July for sure.... these are meet and greet, casual get togethers - Game Nights basically ( naughty game nights ) - Usually around 40-50 people - ( cap it at 25 couples ) so look for them and get on the guest list early when they pop up on here.


These guys throw some of the best parties. Definitely worth getting on the list.
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These guys throw some of the best parties. Definitely worth getting on the list.[/quote]

Thanks Guys! Hope to see ya here again soon! It's been a while!
CNTRLCPL wrote:

We throw the occasional house party in Utah County - we will be doing one in June and another in July for sure.... these are meet and greet, casual get togethers - Game Nights basically ( naughty game nights ) - Usually around 40-50 people - ( cap it at 25 couples ) so look for them and get on the guest list early when they pop up on here.
we definitely are interested.
Lemondrop wrote:

Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?


https://media.giphy.com/media/cAHfy7VD1uHdK/giphy.gif
New Yorker last weekend

#fidelio
What ever happened to the rabbit hole parties? We miss those!
We're also looking for parties. These seem to be a good way of meeting people.
SUENDAN wrote:

Lemondrop wrote:

Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?

https://media.giphy.com/media/cAHfy7VD1uHdK/giphy.gif
New Yorker last weekend
#fidelio
Lies because the New Yorker has been closed down for 4 weeks now due to fire code violations. Not sure when it will reopen hopefully next week.
We would love to be part of the list :)
We are actually having a party at our house in Spanish Fork on Saturday night and wouldn't be adverse to having a few more couples and a single girl or two. We have 15-20 people now. We've found that a lot of the Salt Lake crowd think we live so far away, but it's only about 45 minutes from most of Salt Lake.
Lemondrop wrote:

Hello,
The wife an I are looking to attend a life style party, but we are not sure where to start... I know that some people go to the New Yorker, but we are not sure what to expect or how to dress lol. Does anyone have any advise?
Looking to make friends as well. We been trying to get into the lifestyle more, but this site doesn't seem to be helping. Maybe we're in the wrong state ?
. Lemondrop: Check out Dr. Cari Oneal's Sex Positive Event Essentials class on what to expect at Lifestyle Parties and Events. https://drcarioneal.ck.page/spee-rs
utahcouple10178 wrote:

What ever happened to the rabbit hole parties? We miss those!


I’ve seen invites to Rabbit Hole parties still. Well, maybe like a few months ago I think. And there’s NUKE parties all the time it seems. Those are fun.
JEMBJE0707 wrote:

I’ve seen invites to Rabbit Hole parties still. Well, maybe like a few months ago I think. And there’s NUKE parties all the time it seems. Those are fun.


NUKE parties require you to have a sponsor in order to join. This is kind of a catch 22 for new people, as other parties and meet and greets seem kind of rare in Utah. So in order to join the parties you have to know someone fairly well that already attends these parties which you would normally meet at said party.
PurpleDragon8082 wrote:

JEMBJE0707 wrote:

I’ve seen invites to Rabbit Hole parties still. Well, maybe like a few months ago I think. And there’s NUKE parties all the time it seems. Those are fun.

NUKE parties require you to have a sponsor in order to join. This is kind of a catch 22 for new people, as other parties and meet and greets seem kind of rare in Utah. So in order to join the parties you have to know someone fairly well that already attends these parties which you would normally meet at said party.
There are a few meet and greets. If you go to the unspoken every Friday night there is at least 2-3 couples that are nuke attendees. One aspect we like about the nuke is it doesn’t just let everyone attend.
Utahldscouple wrote:

NUKE parties require you to have a sponsor in order to join. This is kind of a catch 22 for new people, as other parties and meet and greets seem kind of rare in Utah. So in order to join the parties you have to know someone fairly well that already attends these parties which you would normally meet at said party.
There are a few meet and greets. If you go to the unspoken every Friday night there is at least 2-3 couples that are nuke attendees. One aspect we like about the nuke is it doesn’t just let everyone attend.[/quote]

With the unspoken, how do you know which people are in the lifestyle? I'm assuming that it is open to everyone on Fridays and not just lifestyle people.
PurpleDragon8082 wrote:

With the unspoken, how do you know which people are in the lifestyle? I'm assuming that it is open to everyone on Fridays and not just lifestyle people.
It is but mostly lifestyle. And there is supposed to be a pineapple stamp for those that are in the LS and a ghost for those that are not but we have never used this. But I don't think we have seen a couple there that wasn't LS, just singles.