I was just going thru a few e-books that I've had on my device for quite a while and never quite got around to reading. One of them is the infamous "My Secret Garden" written, I believe, in the '70's by Nancy Friday and purportedly a compilation of common female sex fantasies and possibly how they may have originated in the female mind.
I haven't finished the book yet as it's a little bit ponderous with a fair amount of what I think may be outdated psychobabble, but I was wondering if anyone, especially some of the ladies here, have read this book (or any other similar one) and what they thought of it. Alternatively, perhaps some of the women here could share some of their most common sex fantasies...maybe even the ones that they really don't ever want to act out IRL.
PS- I realize that since this is a swing site that some or all of the things female swingers think about could be outside of the norm, somewhat, compared to women who aren't in the lifestyle and haven't had the opportunity to actually act out some of their fantasies.
I haven't finished the book yet as it's a little bit ponderous with a fair amount of what I think may be outdated psychobabble, but I was wondering if anyone, especially some of the ladies here, have read this book (or any other similar one) and what they thought of it. Alternatively, perhaps some of the women here could share some of their most common sex fantasies...maybe even the ones that they really don't ever want to act out IRL.
PS- I realize that since this is a swing site that some or all of the things female swingers think about could be outside of the norm, somewhat, compared to women who aren't in the lifestyle and haven't had the opportunity to actually act out some of their fantasies.
Then the horns kicked in. And my shoes started to squeak…
( You either know or you don’t. Lol )
( You either know or you don’t. Lol )
This was Harley's final and absolute fantasy on Suicide Squad.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon.
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My most common (if we’re talking daydream type fantasy when I’m feeling frisky): Masseuse (you know the one…stranger, hot guy touching the naughty bits during a legit massage). Many forms of mfm. Meeting some random dude while on vacation, and in my fantasy, since I’m sooooo irresistible, he wield me away to bang the ever living hell outta me. Mine (at least the ones I’m willing to publicly admit) are along those lines.
My most common (if we’re talking daydream type fantasy when I’m feeling frisky): Masseuse (you know the one…stranger, hot guy touching the naughty bits during a legit massage). Many forms of mfm. Meeting some random dude while on vacation, and in my fantasy, since I’m sooooo irresistible, he wield me away to bang the ever living hell outta me. Mine (at least the ones I’m willing to publicly admit) are along those lines.
Wisks*. I also fantasize about autocorrect not being a d-bag
Check out "Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage and Why We Stray" by Helen Fisher, PhD. Fisher was an anthropologist at Rutgers when she wrote the first edition and pretty much explains it all. I don't remember her talking about sexual fantasies, but she explains what men and women want and why, and people will become transparent to you after you read it. I know, I know, not the original question, but I was reminded of the book by Suedan's response. He's mostly correct and Fisher explains why. Cheers.
SUENDAN wrote:
This was Harley's final and absolute fantasy on Suicide Squad.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon.
We may have to agree to disagree here. We've been in the lifestyle for almost 3 decades and have talked to countless people (yes, many of them even women-haha) who have talked openly about the fantasies they have and have had and sometimes, sadly, how often those fantasies were stifled to some degree or another by societal expectations and repression as well as suppressed by how they were raised by their parents (especially their mothers..."Good girls don't do/say/think things like that."). I guess we'll let this thread play out and hopefully the ladies of Swingular will chime in and help us get to the bottom of this. So, what say you, ladies? Do you often or only rarely (or never?) fantasize? Or do you only do so when a man plants the seeds of fantasy?
Edit: The more I think about that assertion, that men plant the seeds of fantasy for women, the more it sticks in my craw (as my grandpa used to say). It seems more than just a little condescending and even a little bit misogynistic.
EVILDOERS wrote:
We may have to agree to disagree here. We've been in the lifestyle for almost 3 decades and have talked to countless people (yes, many of them even women-haha) who have talked openly about the fantasies they have and have had and sometimes, sadly, how often those fantasies were stifled to some degree or another by societal expectations and repression as well as suppressed by how they were raised by their parents (especially their mothers..."Good girls don't do/say/think things like that.").
This is just anecdotal and you are failing to realize that you are talking to them in a LS scenario where everyone wants to be the super open and cool movie star-like swingers. Same reason all SM's in the LS are respectful, kind and the Good Lord's gift to couples seeking MFM or even the ones that are not. We all play The Imitation Game. They will talk to you openly, honestly, will tell you how much they enjoy it, how healthy for their relationship is. It almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. But, unless you were raised in a far away land where the LS was a norm and that we all know it has never existed, these confessions are an integral part of the illusion. And, if you take all that at face value, you are lying to yourself and even worst, believing it.
EVILDOERS wrote:
It seems more than just a little condescending and even a little bit misogynistic.
I've been called worst lol.
It's just biology, we think we are this almighty superior species, key to the universe, chosen to be sovereigns of all when all we are is just mammals with an unusually large brain victims of our own imagination and gullibility for the most part.
And yes, imagination is sometimes good, that's how we got to the moon. But that's also why when you go to an Indian casino, you only see pictures last dozen big winners from last year but you don't see the thousands of losers of this week. Most of us are trapped in a dream and think we can make our own reality.
"What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." -Ecclesiastes 1:9
Waikiki wrote:
Check out "Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage and Why We Stray" by Helen Fisher, PhD. Fisher was an anthropologist at Rutgers when she wrote the first edition and pretty much explains it all. I don't remember her talking about sexual fantasies, but she explains what men and women want and why, and people will become transparent to you after you read it. I know, I know, not the original question, but I was reminded of the book by Suedan's response. He's mostly correct and Fisher explains why. Cheers.
Contrary to fiction, this books support most if not all of my points. I read it's revised version during the pandemic. It does fail to talk about the depth of the LS but I think it does not need to as the LS is nothing out of the ordinary. LS couples are not innovators, not pioneers nor anything special, just couples managing their own (yet independent to M and F) biological impulses with a simple goal of inconsequential enjoyment (mostly for the male) while keeping the household together (mostly for the female).
Not from a woman on Swingular but we found it interesting none-the-less: https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28697121/sexual-fantasies/
Canvas wrote:
Not from a woman on Swingular but we found it interesting none-the-less: https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28697121/sexual-fantasies/
Okay, let's see what subject matter expert Oprah Winfrey has to say:
An example of altered information to make you believe whatever they want and make it interesting. They grossly and intentionally doctored the information by omitting the amount of females versus males. The true number are: 87.6% males want a threesome, 3.2% females want a threesome with 82.2% of women finding it horrendously gross.
SUENDAN wrote:Canvas wrote:
Not from a woman on Swingular but we found it interesting none-the-less: https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28697121/sexual-fantasies/
Okay, let's see what subject matter expert Oprah Winfrey has to say:
An example of altered information to make you believe whatever they want and make it interesting. They grossly and intentionally doctored the information by omitting the amount of females versus males. The true number are: 87.6% males want a threesome, 3.2% females want a threesome with 82.2% of women finding it horrendously gross.
Good point! Can you post a link to the numbers you provided?
Canvas wrote:SUENDAN wrote:
[quote=Canvas]Not from a woman on Swingular but we found it interesting none-the-less: https://www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a28697121/sexual-fantasies/
Okay, let's see what subject matter expert Oprah Winfrey has to say:
An example of altered information to make you believe whatever they want and make it interesting. They grossly and intentionally doctored the information by omitting the amount of females versus males. The true number are: 87.6% males want a threesome, 3.2% females want a threesome with 82.2% of women finding it horrendously gross.
Canvas wrote:
Good point! Can you post a link to the numbers you provided?
Absolutely! The numbers are on a meta study published by the Journal of Sex Research during the Height of the Swinging Craze (Mid to Late 2000's). PM for a link to the article or I can send it to you on a PDF if you don't have access to EBSCO Host.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
We were married for decades before we became non-monogamous. Our kids were no longer small children, and it was obvious that both of us were more committed to our relationship and the family more than any potentialities the lifestyle might afford us. To this day, swinging, is way less important, to both of us than our time together, or with our family. As for fantasies. Back when the kids were small, and we didn't really even consider swinging, we did, enjoy a very active sex life together. Sometimes we looked at pornography together, and feeling extremely comfortable, sexually, around each other, we were pretty honest about what we found exciting. Once all our kids were older and spending more time out of the house with their friends, we decided to give it a try. I'm by nature, a bit more relaxed, maybe confident, and I did have quite a bit of experience prior to marriage. Mrs. Delicious, was less experienced, than me, albeit a multi orgasmic sexual natural. So, she wanted me to take the lead, and in doing so, I focused my attention on her fantasies, which, of course excited me too. Years later, our family life once again, takes up most of our free time. Most of our kids now have kids, and we enjoy the grandparent gig. In the beginnings, we played almost ever week, often two to three times a week. We no longer hook up every week, or even every month. I still follow her lead. If she tells me she is fantasing about something, I am happy to make it happen. As for what are her fantasies....they switch up, but there are a few strong reoccurring themes. Those are for her to share should she care to.
Sounds like you guys beautifully managed and prioritized your LS experience and it turned out to be a fun and entertaining part of your life. In fact, you guys still indulge occasionally but your priorities are very well defined. You guys always been a very clean, respectful and law abiding proud monogamous couple. Don't give the LS the credit it doesn't deserve. The LS has not corrupted you guys in any way. The fantasies were just fantasies and even if they became real for a second, they went back to their realm and nothing changed.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
Admittedly I have not read the texts that you and evil speak of. I am not sure what percentage of women rarely fantasize or what percentage dream of the other group starting with protection. Nor am I interested in a PDF of the article or text. Personally it doesn’t matter to me one way or the other what the percentages are or the motives behind them. I will grant you that a lot of what we hear here is male generated fantasies. I do think there are many women that do have fantasies as I do. None of us trying to play the imitation game or cool movie star like swingers as you report. It seems a lot of your responses are your opinion to the text, I am doubting whomever said imagination is good, that’s how we got to the moon, or the correlation to Native American casinos. My imagination makes my mind wander wether it be sex based fantasies or spiritual fantasies. My imagination also is a component of my career that assists me greatly. Just my bent.
Admittedly I have not read the texts that you and evil speak of. I am not sure what percentage of women rarely fantasize or what percentage dream of the other group starting with protection. Nor am I interested in a PDF of the article or text. Personally it doesn’t matter to me one way or the other what the percentages are or the motives behind them. I will grant you that a lot of what we hear here is male generated fantasies. I do think there are many women that do have fantasies as I do. None of us trying to play the imitation game or cool movie star like swingers as you report. It seems a lot of your responses are your opinion to the text, I am doubting whomever said imagination is good, that’s how we got to the moon, or the correlation to Native American casinos. My imagination makes my mind wander wether it be sex based fantasies or spiritual fantasies. My imagination also is a component of my career that assists me greatly. Just my bent.
DEEPMOAN wrote:
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
Admittedly I have not read the texts that you and evil speak of. I am not sure what percentage of women rarely fantasize or what percentage dream of the other group starting with protection. Nor am I interested in a PDF of the article or text. Personally it doesn’t matter to me one way or the other what the percentages are or the motives behind them. I will grant you that a lot of what we hear here is male generated fantasies. I do think there are many women that do have fantasies as I do. None of us trying to play the imitation game or cool movie star like swingers as you report. It seems a lot of your responses are your opinion to the text, I am doubting whomever said imagination is good, that’s how we got to the moon, or the correlation to Native American casinos. My imagination makes my mind wander wether it be sex based fantasies or spiritual fantasies. My imagination also is a component of my career that assists me greatly. Just my bent.
Perfectly OK to call them Indians. US based tribes designed and approved this current logo of the IHS. Please go to ihs.gov if you wish to investigate further.
Fantastic narrative about your imagination and your openness. Glad is working out for you not only on your personal life but also fueling your career. Your bent is reasonable and more power to you. I was not offering you a PDF. Someone else wanted to see the scientific reasoning behind all this so I offered. Remember, masks worked, vaccines worked, lockdowns worked, covid is on decline; long live comprehensive and unbiased scientific research and the sound conclusions (truths) we obtain from it.
OMG !!!! I’m just totally cracking up over here reading the posts … BY MEN … who think they know what women do or don’t fantasize about and why … please continue , this is quite entertaining. 😂 As you have probably guessed, I don’t agree, and I certainly don’t fall into the portrayed stereotype of a woman who doesn't fantasize sexually, and only does what a man wants me to do sexually … LOL
FunKinkyDuo wrote:
OMG !!!! I’m just totally cracking up over here reading the posts … BY MEN … who think they know what women do or don’t fantasize about and why … please continue , this is quite entertaining. 😂 As you have probably guessed, I don’t agree, and I certainly don’t fall into the portrayed stereotype of a woman who doesn't fantasize sexually, and only does what a man wants me to do sexually … LOL
C'mon, Fun. Tell us the truth. What seeds does your partner sow in your mind that allows you, as a woman, to have sexual fantasies?
(And yes, I'm being extremely sarcastic.)EVILDOERS wrote:
C'mon, Fun. Tell us the truth. What seeds does your partner sow in your mind that allows you, as a woman, to have sexual fantasies?
Well Evil … my depraved erotic fantasies started long before I even had a man to plant any seeds, which debunks @SUENDAN’s theory completely hehe. My earliest fantasies, and even acting on some of them in my teens, might even traumatize this crowd lol.
FunKinkyDuo wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
C'mon, Fun. Tell us the truth. What seeds does your partner sow in your mind that allows you, as a woman, to have sexual fantasies?
Well Evil … my depraved erotic fantasies started long before I even had a man to plant any seeds, which debunks @SUENDAN’s theory completely hehe. My earliest fantasies, and even acting on some of them in my teens, might even traumatize this crowd lol.
Yup. My (significantly) better half, rather early on in our marriage, confided some rather kinky fantasies to me that would fly in the face of her extremely orthodox Mormon upbringing (as well as SUENDAN's assertion). You might even say that SHE planted some seeds for fantasy for ME! Haha Actually sharing fantasies very early on in our marriage was what eventually led us to swinging. And I seriously doubt you would shock or traumatize anyone here but you have every right to keep them to yourself if you wish.
Without going into too much detail (since I don't explicitly have her permission at the moment), my beautiful wife thought about same-sex dalliances as a teenager as well as some things involving more than one person at a time and even a little bit of CNC...which kind of shocked me, tbh, since I hadn't really ever thought about anything like that before since I was ostensibly a good little Mormon boy.
Well Evil, I was doing more than just thinking about same sex playing in my teens , I was down and dirty playing with girls by 15 yrs old … which wasn’t exactly something you wanted to get around growing up as the daughter of a big cattle rancher family in the middle of nowhere USA hehe …. Oh, And then there was that “fantasy” of sucking off as many guys at a house party as I could lol …. Hmmm 😜
FunKinkyDuo wrote:
Well Evil, I was doing more than just thinking about same sex playing in my teens , I was down and dirty playing with girls by 15 yrs old … which wasn’t exactly something you wanted to get around growing up as the daughter of a big cattle rancher family in the middle of nowhere USA hehe …. Oh, And then there was that “fantasy” of sucking off as many guys at a house party as I could lol …. Hmmm 😜
I can relate to the remote ranching thing! For me, my mind was working overtime with sexual thoughts due to the dirty mags the seasonal workers would leave behind. I started flipping through raunchy pages from around kindergarten age which gave me all sorts of ideas. Did you have a similar experience, or did your ideas come about on their own?
Canvas wrote:
I can relate to the remote ranching thing! For me, my mind was working overtime with sexual thoughts due to the dirty mags the seasonal workers would leave behind. I started flipping through raunchy pages from around kindergarten age which gave me all sorts of ideas. Did you have a similar experience, or did your ideas come about on their own?
Hmmm, I did sneak magazines from my brother, and I liked reading the stories, but I don’t think that’s what made me slutty hehe. It might have helped a little with my fantasizing, but at 15 I started acting on them. There was no male influence putting ideas in head that made me want to be on my knees for the boys at parties 😮
Considering the few responses from women maybe I’m a rare breed haha 😂
Paloma wrote:
You and me fucking both. But men mostly speak for women here. How many of the females halves speak. Not many from what I’ve seen.
Oh that’s for sure. I’d say 90% of “couples” that contact us are 100% the guy doing all the chatting. And most of them have lame excuses why the wife/gf can’t chat, and that’s when we eject from the conversation. Seems to be a lot of posers in here.
kinkinsandy wrote:
Wisks*. I also fantasize about autocorrect not being a d-bag
Sadly, I think this is a fantasy many have, which will never be fulfilled. 😆
I fantasize about freedom. Pretty much any situation where I have freedom to date, be naked, fuck-/whatever. I have a supportive husband who lives similarly. We are crazy about each other and we always come back. Sex is very freeing for us and we enjoy a fulfilling life together.
SUENDAN wrote:
This was Harley's final and absolute fantasy on Suicide Squad.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon.
Same energy.
This tells us SOOOO much about Brad and none of it good. Just goes to show that despite what science claims, Neanderthals aren't entirely extinct after all.
SuenDan writes,
"It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested."
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. However, we totally disagree with this hypothesis. My wife rolled her eyes and said "that's crazy".
"It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested."
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. However, we totally disagree with this hypothesis. My wife rolled her eyes and said "that's crazy".
I’ve got to say that I had a lot of fantasies and ideas that were not generated by my bf.or any other man in my life Most of them I didn’t act on, but definitely thought about over the years. Now I’m free to act on all my fantasies that I’ve had. And I love it!
I know my wife has fantasies but she never shares them.
She says if she tells me then they don't add that component she wants to the sexual experience...having good orgasims. It's not a problem for me.
She says if she tells me then they don't add that component she wants to the sexual experience...having good orgasims. It's not a problem for me.
I enjoy writing erotica, and thought you folks might enjoy this story. I have tons! Sorry about the formatting. Apparently Swingular doesn't like WORD files...
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Man, this new car was NICE. Leather, sunroof, all the gadgets. I agreed to a price and the salesman filled out the paperwork, then handed it over to the business manager. It had been a long day of shopping but at least I was almost done!
Saturdays are always a zoo and by the time my turn came to sign the final documents everyone had gone home. It was just the two of us left.
Cory was CUTE, funny, and flirted mercilessly. We were almost done when we got back to the service contract he’d offered earlier.
“So, what do you think? Is that of interest to you?” He asked.
“I know it is a good deal, but I just can’t afford that right now. I’d have to fuck somebody rich to come up with that kind of cash!”
After a moment of stunned silence, he said slowly, “Well, we might be able to work out an arrangement! Hell,” he said jokingly. “I’d do you right over this desk!”
He looked at me strangely, not sure if I was seriously saying what he thought I was saying.
Before he could say anything else, I stood up and took off my business jacket and vest, then ran my hands over my boobs for him. My silk blouse left no doubt that my nipples were standing at attention. I worked my hands down onto my hips which I gyrated in slow circles.
“Would you like to inspect the merchandise?” I said cautiously, taking off my glasses and sucking seductively on the temple.
“Um, I’m not sure this is such a good idea,” he squawked nervously.
“Come on big boy, put up or shut up. Who’s gonna find out? Tell them I’m a bitch and you had to throw it in to save the deal.”
I walked around to his side of the desk and sat on it, pulling one knee up and laying my thigh across his pile of papers. There was no doubt he had full view of my slowly simmering sex, covered only by a thin strip of lacy white thong. It was wet enough he could see I was completely shaved.
He suddenly stood up and put his arms around me, pulling me close and kissing me hungrily. He wasn’t great, but enthusiasm goes a long way.
Cory fumbled with his pants, but I grabbed his hand.
“Oh no you don’t. You have to make sure I’m ready. I think you’d better sit back down for a bit.”
With that I pushed him down into his seat, then grabbed his head and pulled his face between my thighs. His hot breath on my lace-covered clit set me on fire. I pulled my thong aside for him and he dove into my slit like a man possessed. His tongue flew over my lips and clit, several fingers ended up inside me and when he brushed my g-spot I came on his face, flooding his mouth with my juices.
Without warning he stood up (naked! Must have gotten his pants unzipped when I was coming my brains out) and sank a HUGE dick balls deep into me in one thrust.
“UUUGGGHHHH!” I moaned. “Jesus dude, you gotta warn a lady before you impale her like that! Fuck you’re a big boy!”
He grinned and plowed me again, this time grabbing my ass and pulling me to the edge of his desk. I fell back over his papers and while I was trying to sit up again, he lifted my ankles and threw them over his shoulders. With no control (not that I cared to stop him) he banged at my aching sex, grabbing my hips and pummeling me into another orgasm. And another. I was seriously beginning to wonder if he was going to hurt me when he bellowed and came, pulling me all the way onto his meat which spasmed deep inside me. I lay there for a minute, catching my breath. He fished for a few napkins from his lunchbox, but his huge load had already seeped out of me onto his contracts.
I looked at the mess and laughed. “Do you want me to resign these?” I asked.
“Naw, let the bank have a permanent testimony to how hard I work for their business.”
We both laughed and said our goodbyes, but we see each other on a regular basis. The car was a total piece of crap and I’m in the service center all the time. But if Cory is there, we usually find a way to sneak off so I can avoid paying the deductibles!
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Man, this new car was NICE. Leather, sunroof, all the gadgets. I agreed to a price and the salesman filled out the paperwork, then handed it over to the business manager. It had been a long day of shopping but at least I was almost done!
Saturdays are always a zoo and by the time my turn came to sign the final documents everyone had gone home. It was just the two of us left.
Cory was CUTE, funny, and flirted mercilessly. We were almost done when we got back to the service contract he’d offered earlier.
“So, what do you think? Is that of interest to you?” He asked.
“I know it is a good deal, but I just can’t afford that right now. I’d have to fuck somebody rich to come up with that kind of cash!”
After a moment of stunned silence, he said slowly, “Well, we might be able to work out an arrangement! Hell,” he said jokingly. “I’d do you right over this desk!”
He looked at me strangely, not sure if I was seriously saying what he thought I was saying.
Before he could say anything else, I stood up and took off my business jacket and vest, then ran my hands over my boobs for him. My silk blouse left no doubt that my nipples were standing at attention. I worked my hands down onto my hips which I gyrated in slow circles.
“Would you like to inspect the merchandise?” I said cautiously, taking off my glasses and sucking seductively on the temple.
“Um, I’m not sure this is such a good idea,” he squawked nervously.
“Come on big boy, put up or shut up. Who’s gonna find out? Tell them I’m a bitch and you had to throw it in to save the deal.”
I walked around to his side of the desk and sat on it, pulling one knee up and laying my thigh across his pile of papers. There was no doubt he had full view of my slowly simmering sex, covered only by a thin strip of lacy white thong. It was wet enough he could see I was completely shaved.
He suddenly stood up and put his arms around me, pulling me close and kissing me hungrily. He wasn’t great, but enthusiasm goes a long way.
Cory fumbled with his pants, but I grabbed his hand.
“Oh no you don’t. You have to make sure I’m ready. I think you’d better sit back down for a bit.”
With that I pushed him down into his seat, then grabbed his head and pulled his face between my thighs. His hot breath on my lace-covered clit set me on fire. I pulled my thong aside for him and he dove into my slit like a man possessed. His tongue flew over my lips and clit, several fingers ended up inside me and when he brushed my g-spot I came on his face, flooding his mouth with my juices.
Without warning he stood up (naked! Must have gotten his pants unzipped when I was coming my brains out) and sank a HUGE dick balls deep into me in one thrust.
“UUUGGGHHHH!” I moaned. “Jesus dude, you gotta warn a lady before you impale her like that! Fuck you’re a big boy!”
He grinned and plowed me again, this time grabbing my ass and pulling me to the edge of his desk. I fell back over his papers and while I was trying to sit up again, he lifted my ankles and threw them over his shoulders. With no control (not that I cared to stop him) he banged at my aching sex, grabbing my hips and pummeling me into another orgasm. And another. I was seriously beginning to wonder if he was going to hurt me when he bellowed and came, pulling me all the way onto his meat which spasmed deep inside me. I lay there for a minute, catching my breath. He fished for a few napkins from his lunchbox, but his huge load had already seeped out of me onto his contracts.
I looked at the mess and laughed. “Do you want me to resign these?” I asked.
“Naw, let the bank have a permanent testimony to how hard I work for their business.”
We both laughed and said our goodbyes, but we see each other on a regular basis. The car was a total piece of crap and I’m in the service center all the time. But if Cory is there, we usually find a way to sneak off so I can avoid paying the deductibles!
SUENDAN wrote:
This was Harley's final and absolute fantasy on Suicide Squad.
Women rarely fantasize about the carnal and brutal side of sex men obsess about 24/7. Women dream about protection, stability, health, family life, abundance of resources, being respected and being married to a nice guy, good provider and overall, happiness.
It is us men who plant those seeds of complex, open and spicy sexual relations of them. And 99% play along initially out of fear of abandonment by her man. Women are hardwired to have their men interested in her by often providing recreational sexual activity. That's why they usually go along with swinging and that's why they tolerate and sometimes welcome men's extra-curricular activities of him fucking a FWB, hallpassing him or allowing him to shred his cock into pieces to online porn. She feels safe he will not leave her while getting him off her hair for a bit while she runs the household and relaxes. Is a win-win situation for her.
Women are often advised to "spice up their loivelife/marriage" to keep her man interested. Men are always advised to take care of his wife/family or face consequences.
In conclusion, women do not fantasize about sex the same way men do. They rarely fantasize unless the seeds have been planted by a male. Same way heroin will cause you an immense pleasure the first time you try it but we all know we rather don't try it. Women just want to have a long, relax and beautiful life surrounded by abundance and a loving family.
So, Mr. EvilDoers, the purpose of those interesting books you are reading were just to be sold and to make money for the author. The author simply found inspiration on a supposed ideal yet fictitious reality. Not everyone likes them, not everyone agrees. But the actual truth too far from it the same way we'll never see the Death Star opaquing our moon.
Sorry,
I call out your bullshit theory on women. Women do want that but, not all swinging women do swinging because of feeling insecure. There are numerous types of swingers, and exhibitionist. All wanting to explore themselves in open world. To assume swinging is forced upon by the man for the women is also one sited. I think this man asked a great question about what do women think?
I think this will be a fun topic to see. Instead of side tracking what he asked to hear about. You went on to assume he was not understanding his own question. His question was simple. He asked what do women want? What do they think about sexually? He did not ask what you thought of any books. Just an idea of what is in your secret garden. Let the women talk!!!
Sorry if offended but, I want to know what women do think of? I for one am a women.
Sex is natural for us. We reap with it. But, for men it is different. Way different.
I wanna hear you women ROAR!!!!
For some reason I read this hole article which I normally don’t do, but this was captivating and it got my interest. I strongly agree to the context of this article.
Thanks for the work and love put into this.
I now have a different perspective on how to treat women.
Thanks for the work and love put into this.
I now have a different perspective on how to treat women.