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So it seems to have gotten more challenging finding a man for her that meets some basic criteria. Are there any hot wives out there that could refer a single male or attached male with a hall pass, to us that have already experienced them as being the real deal and legit? We’ve been looking. Please read our profile if you are an available male before messaging us. It spells out a couple requirements. Ladies? We promise we won’t keep him. 😁
I'm a single man... and fit your criteria. Check out my profile. Cheers!
Sent you a message. 😉
I'm looking for a hot sexy man.
I know he is here.
I will find you...hahaha
Yummy!
We love the self referrals 😂! We have one who lives in Philly but worth the price of a ticket to fly him out!
Totally agree we like MFM hot wife and it’s hard no pun intended to find a gentleman long term connection. We have had some in the past but they have moved away
Utahldscouple wrote:

We love the self referrals 😂! We have one who lives in Philly but worth the price of a ticket to fly him out!


hahaha, I'm with JP.... new to the area and gotta get the name out there. Signing-off ;)
We’re looking for the same here… hopefully something cums up.
SenorLobo88 wrote:

Utahldscouple wrote:

We love the self referrals 😂! We have one who lives in Philly but worth the price of a ticket to fly him out!

hahaha, I'm with JP.... new to the area and gotta get the name out there. Signing-off ;)
Unfortunately, self promoting usually has the opposite affect. Especially when the op is asking wives/couples for recommendations (shows the lack of ability to comply/follow directions). Best way to get your name out there is go to meet and greets and make impressions.
All we ask is an intelligent and interesting message before the blind friend request. We have been at this for a long time and have had some amazing connections just hoping that’s still out there
[/quote]Unfortunately, self promoting usually has the opposite affect. Especially when the op is asking wives/couples for recommendations (shows the lack of ability to comply/follow directions). Best way to get your name out there is go to meet and greets and make impressions.

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you like to know about everything! assuming , judging ..telling whats is the right or wrong , i dont remember to met some perfect ppl , but looks like here they are...maybe this is why since 2015 till 2022 theres no testimonials... just saying ...nobody is good enough or right enough![/quote]
braziliangod21 wrote:


you like to know about everything! assuming , judging ..telling whats is the right or wrong , i dont remember to met some perfect ppl , but looks like here they are...maybe this is why since 2015 till 2022 theres no testimonials... just saying ...nobody is good enough or right enough!


We don’t accept or need testimonies (might be able to learn a thing or two about discretion). You are just jaded we turned you down. If you’d like we can post the messages?!? You are a perfect example of why single males get a bad reputation and validated our initial assessment to avoid you. Any other single males that like to eliminate themselves? Now let’s quit high jacking the OP post, any couples or wives have any good local recommendations?
Utahldscouple wrote:

braziliangod21 wrote:


you like to know about everything! assuming , judging ..telling whats is the right or wrong , i dont remember to met some perfect ppl , but looks like here they are...maybe this is why since 2015 till 2022 theres no testimonials... just saying ...nobody is good enough or right enough!

We don’t accept or need testimonies (might be able to learn a thing or two about discretion). You are just jaded we turned you down. If you’d like we can post the messages?!? You are a perfect example of why single males get a bad reputation and validated our initial assessment to avoid you. Any other single males that like to eliminate themselves? Now let’s quit high jacking the OP post, any couples or wives have any good local recommendations?


You turned me down? i had the messages even from the other platform ..but of course i m not going low like you .. is not my nature, maybe is yours ! wish you a great Sunday !!!
Damn, one inch short of checking all the boxes.
braziliangod21 wrote:


You turned me down? i had the messages even from the other platform ..but of course i m not going low like you .. is not my nature, maybe is yours ! wish you a great Sunday !!!

Nice try, go ahead post away, we didn’t meet you so obviously turned away! You are making it worse for yourself and looking more and more pathetic. We will not respond anymore, as you are unfairly high jacking this post. We stand by our previous comments the OP is asking for recommendations for single males. We definitely have highlighted a few don’t use ones here. With that said, locally we have had zero luck. We do have some from Vegas, AZ, and Philly.
Hello I'm Gunther, hi to all the hot wives and respectful partners. I'm putting my name out here. I'm a very available male (married and is available to play).

Respectful and fun and I have stamina and staying power. Looking for a new friend just like most of the ladies on here. Yes once we talk you can talk to some of my friends for personal experience.

Say hi when ready.
Hey Hey - check out our profile and send a message if interested. We are laid back and easy going. Can host and can play single.
Finally somebody changed the subject thanks you let’s get back to the hunt for a single stud
We are open to playing together and alone, depending the situation. Give us a shout, who knows the outcome and fun that we all can have.
We met a really great guy this weekend
Simonjohnjones

John helped us with a ride home from the New Yorker this last Saturday night and we had an opportunity to play at our home. He's a gentlman through and through, an intelligent conversationalist and he respects boundaries.

If you need a great cock and a great guy send him a message.
That's great, an actual referral.
Mrs here, in terms of married men, I would happily refer my husband to the right hotwife or couple. Confident, interesting, flirtly and a pleaser in the bedroom. You can contact me on kick mivyfun and I can give you his if it sounds like a fit.
Never really tried the whole 'hotwife' thing although it sounds pretty fun as a one-off. We think it would be really sexy to have some guy fucking Ms. Evil while Mr. Evil and the guy's wife or girlfriend watch.
EVILDOERS wrote:

Never really tried the whole 'hotwife' thing although it sounds pretty fun as a one-off. We think it would be really sexy to have some guy fucking Ms. Evil while Mr. Evil and the guy's wife or girlfriend watch.
That is hot. We both like to watch the other, hence why couples are our preference :D!
jp_gotime wrote:

Hmm. I'm a couple inches short of your height requirement UTHOTCPLEXTREME, but for those who are ok with it, I'm an undiscovered gem new to SLC. Well-traveled (lived/worked in 5 countries), professional, respectful, spontaneous and reasonably well endowed. Simply looking to meet some hotwife friends who like great sex! Reach out and let's meet up.


Couple of inches short? I think we have a 3.5-inch new wonder with a lot of passport stamps here. Ladies please, contain your orgasms.

https://pics.me.me/bea-swinger-they-said-the-bitches-will-come-they-said-50380370.png
EVILDOERS wrote:

Never really tried the whole 'hotwife' thing although it sounds pretty fun as a one-off. We think it would be really sexy to have some guy fucking Ms. Evil while Mr. Evil and the guy's wife or girlfriend watch.


Something we’ve wanted to do to you two for a long time. Just the legendary status we’ve seen of you in the forums. We’re pretty sure you’re real people. Just have yet to meet. 😉
6’3 220lb married 38yo with hall pass. Love the chance to throw my hat in the ring. New to all this and would be eager for a chance to meet like minded people. (Discretion is also extremely important to me)
would def recommend this fine gentleman lol but hes on another site
check out our profile and our interaction

the profile he responded to:

https://i.ibb.co/3zs14gp/nsm.png

our interaction:

https://i.ibb.co/Cz9NQxv/ligma.png
I find this dichotomy fascinating. How would someone first experience something that requires prior experience? The mental gymnastics at play here cracks me up.
Male half available for certain hot wife situations. Plenty of positive local references available.
My other half is very muscular and rocks
My world. When we play he rocks their world also. He has unending stamina. Not afraid to play. I have no issues recommending him if you are looking for fun play time. You won’t be disappointed.
kevsmi69 wrote:

I would be honored to hear any advice couples have for an interested guy. What would set a guy apart in respect to this? What qualities are couples looking for?


You won't get any pussy here, I promise you that.
SUENDAN wrote:

You won't get any pussy here, I promise you that.


Why not we just might invite him over and then you will have to wonder
We are both allowed to play solo, so i can always be a stud if interested. Check out our profile. But we are always game to play together as well!
Whiskey_Girl wrote:

Why not we just might invite him over and then you will have to wonder


I bet you won't. And even if you invite him just to prove me wrong something will come up and it will never materialize. He might give you an excellent/credible excuse then ask for a raincheck that will never be cashed if he decides to cancel (likely last minute).
mrdo58 wrote:

My other half is very muscular and rocks
My world. When we play he rocks their world also. He has unending stamina. Not afraid to play. I have no issues recommending him if you are looking for fun play time. You won’t be disappointed.


Lemme see if I got this right: your wife/gf found your sm profile on your device, went straight to the forums then decided to post on your behalf to get you laid?

https://memegenerator.net/img/instances/73248685/things-that-make-you-go-hmmm.jpg

Love her grandiloquence!
Young 23 male here available for couples or singles. Im very respectful, mindful of boundaries, and just wanna experience new things and have fun with open minded people.
kevsmi69 wrote:


Well I was actually for some advice and/or constructive criticism. Hell, maybe even some that would help with that but no, thank you for the absolutely unhelpful and toxic comment :)


Absolutely unhelpful, toxic and very true.

My pleasure!
Looking4couples wrote:

@kevismi69 Suendan is sort of an ass to everybody on here so don’t take it to heart. They get off by being a jerk for whatever reason


Well, you are gainfully employed so you must be right.
SUENDAN wrote:

mrdo58 wrote:

My other half is very muscular and rocks
My world. When we play he rocks their world also. He has unending stamina. Not afraid to play. I have no issues recommending him if you are looking for fun play time. You won’t be disappointed.

Lemme see if I got this right: your wife/gf found your sm profile on your device, went straight to the forums then decided to post on your behalf to get you laid?
https://memegenerator.net/img/instances/73248685/things-that-make-you-go-hmmm.jpg
Love her grandiloquence!
Will have to say, thought the exact same thing!
If you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all. Just saying
Looking4couples wrote:

@whiskey_girl exactly! To each their own and if somebody isn’t interested then that is not an issue in the slightest, but just be a nice, respectful human being. Some people don’t understand that


Exactly 👍
SexySlcCpl wrote:

We’re looking for the same here… hopefully something cums up.


Damn! Very sexy!😍
👍
Mad gorgeous!
It never ceases to surprise me when guys fail to read.

The orinal post says “Are there any hot wives out there that could refer a single male or attached male with a hall pass…”

Notice how that didn’t say “refer yourself.” By definition you can’t refer yourself. Come on guys, let’s be better.
I don’t mind the self referral as much as putting another members name out there. There is discretion that should come into play. Most of the referrals that we have got came from other friends. Sooo maybe a DM would keep that information a little more discreet 🤷‍♂️
Whiskey_Girl wrote:

I don’t mind the self referral as much as putting another members name out there. There is discretion that should come into play. Most of the referrals that we have got came from other friends. Sooo maybe a DM would keep that information a little more discreet 🤷‍♂️


I agree with treating others info with discretion. That should be shared in private.
Let’s meet up and have fun.
Interesting thread - a little too snarky for our tastes . . . even if deserved for some reason.

Sent the original poster a DM or PM or whatever the hell we call it these days.
I would love to get to know u guys more if I get the chance Im very respectful guy if u guys wanna message me I would like the thanks u
Single male and experienced here. Love sexy wives
Single male and experienced here. Love sexy wives
What's your criteria?
Been thinking on bringing a guy to play with the wife but is a chore to find the right one .
My husband is a gentlemen and always willing to participate. He is looking for a longterm relationship with a couple. Drop us a message on KIK at Lobo_granda if you are interested.
Ok so what did I miss in the profile. I have seen no requirements listed. Have read it twice. Also why do you not have profile pics?
Hi I'm William. 6'1" 220 lbs recently moved here from Hawaii. Over 6 yrs experience with this, laid back and easy going, respectful, not pushy, respect boundaries, love the hotwife and mfm lifestyle. I'm well hung, clean, cut, DDF, STD free, vasectomy safe, love to laugh and have a good time, no performance issues ever, never flake, camera friendly, single and discreet. I consider myself highly intelligent, very fun to be around and love to laugh, no body or genital hair and excellent grooming, 100% drug free. I'd love to chat and see if there's any mutual interest.
Im available! Hahaha.
Mmmmmm love to pleasing that gorgeous lady
Im still available!!!! Haha!
Que tipo de hombre buscan
Hotwifes are the best!
UTHOTCPLEXTREME wrote:

So it seems to have gotten more challenging finding a man for her that meets some basic criteria. Are there any hot wives out there that could refer a single male or attached male with a hall pass, to us that have already experienced them as being the real deal and legit? We’ve been looking. Please read our profile if you are an available male before messaging us. It spells out a couple requirements. Ladies? We promise we won’t keep him. 😁


It's amazing how difficult that can be. We have the same issue
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:

I'm looking for a hot sexy man.
I know he is here.
I will find you...hahaha
Yummy!


come on over HOTFIRELOVERS
JANDY275 wrote:

It's amazing how difficult that can be. We have the same issue



Agreed, it shouldn't be as difficult but it is. True we have some basic wants, yet not overly selective. In the pass we've enjoyed the FWB relationship and hope to again.
Single male here
I guess we have gotten lucky because we have found a fair amount of guys on here for some MFM fun - who have been great. Granted, we did put them through the vetting process, but it was worth it. Shoot us a message and we can send you some referrals and give you some pointers for weeding out the flakes and whatnot.
Safe, clean, fit, fixed and verifiable husband with a hall pass here.
CALIANA wrote:

I guess we have gotten lucky because we have found a fair amount of guys on here for some MFM fun - who have been great. Granted, we did put them through the vetting process, but it was worth it. Shoot us a message and we can send you some referrals and give you some pointers for weeding out the flakes and whatnot.


I would love some referrals we are always looking
Definitely would enjoy referrals. Sadly, 85% of the guys aren't west is being looked for, yet they love sending friends request and msgs. If only they'd look at the profile lol. Definitely used this forum to block a few profiles that are Definitely not wanted lol
Polycouple wrote:

Definitely would enjoy referrals. Sadly, 85% of the guys aren't west is being looked for, yet they love sending friends request and msgs. If only they'd look at the profile lol. Definitely used this forum to block a few profiles that are Definitely not wanted lol


Would be nice to receive some messages before friend requests a little politeness will get you laid
Agreed. But never happens. Even from couples We get adds before a message lol
We are in same situation lol looking for a playmate for wife or for mfm. I will say we think it’s great to see more women wanting and enjoying adding a second guy or fwb. It’s sad tho guys think sending blind friend requests or dick pics or just laziness I will come over and fuck you messages are truly a turn off. Guys with a fun personality, a little charm, can have a waiting list of women wanting to play.
We are in same situation lol looking for a playmate for wife or for mfm. I will say we think it’s great to see more women wanting and enjoying adding a second guy or fwb. It’s sad tho guys think sending blind friend requests or dick pics or just laziness I will come over and fuck you messages are truly a turn off. Guys with a fun personality, a little charm, can have a waiting list of women wanting to play.
REALLY98 wrote:

We are in same situation lol looking for a playmate for wife or for mfm. I will say we think it’s great to see more women wanting and enjoying adding a second guy or fwb. It’s sad tho guys think sending blind friend requests or dick pics or just laziness I will come over and fuck you messages are truly a turn off. Guys with a fun personality, a little charm, can have a waiting list of women wanting to play.


They should create a new tab for looking for a single male to join that’s kinda of our thing
Check out my profile. I would love a regular thing for those needs, so I'm here in Utah County, very respectful, honest, and upfront. Just looking for good times, good vibes, and no drama.

My schedule can be a challenge, I work nights and weekends, but like anything else, just adjust as needed.
We or just me offer a very pressure free relaxing hot tub and massage in which the hubby is free to watch the interaction. When my wife and I first started this journey we found some awesome single guys that were very interested in creating a mutual attraction and an atmosphere of trust, a space where my wife didn’t feel she had to put on a show or meet expectations. We’ve also met some guys that are the opposite and have their pants down before they can introduce themselves, which is unattractive.

If any hubbys are wives are interested the wife and I cater to this kind of fantasy, we take a slow approach where getting to know each other is key, creating chemistry and trust. Sex is not the goal of our approach but rather a connection. If that leads to sex it makes the intimacy that much more sexier and more enjoyable for all involved or watching.

Have an awesome day.
JC
Really? I'm surprised to hear this as I would think you'd be inundated with men reaching out. I know I'm all for it though, I love hotwives!
Hot wife - we are very selective about who we invite -
JK0207 wrote:

We or just me offer a very pressure free relaxing hot tub and massage in which the hubby is free to watch the interaction. When my wife and I first started this journey we found some awesome single guys that were very interested in creating a mutual attraction and an atmosphere of trust, a space where my wife didn’t feel she had to put on a show or meet expectations. We’ve also met some guys that are the opposite and have their pants down before they can introduce themselves, which is unattractive.
If any hubbys are wives are interested the wife and I cater to this kind of fantasy, we take a slow approach where getting to know each other is key, creating chemistry and trust. Sex is not the goal of our approach but rather a connection. If that leads to sex it makes the intimacy that much more sexier and more enjoyable for all involved or watching.
Have an awesome day.
JC


This sounds nice. Hubby would enjoy seeing the Mrs be spoiled by another sexy couple. And becoming comfortable is what makes it all sexier
I’ll throw my hat in!
Early morning riders?
Well if your interested I love playing with gorgeous hot wives and love helping the husband please there beautiful bodies with respect to all boundries just let me know what you like and don't like .
I would like to refer me to you you guys are sexy. You look fun as hell but we'll get together great time. Her body is amazing.
Would love to chat more about the possibility my kik is included in my profile
Would you be able to play during the day?
You are yummy. How can I be down?
Can you and your lady play during the day?
I can offer references...
Harleynight12345678 wrote:

Would you be able to play during the day?


Who are you referring to
I am a recently single male (bear with them as they adjust the username and profile) and looking to be the right accessory to a sexy wife or couple. I have several friends on here that you could ask for references, so please chat me up if you amazing people feel fit to. Clean and regularly tested, courteous, hung, and with lots of stamina.