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What do you all think of Kik? A while back it almost went away. They saved it. And now it’s nearly unusable. It freezes, has adds and popups that make it useless. It remained such a popular app in the LS likely bc of the anonymity. It never really attached to your contacts like telegram, snap, what’s app, FB or others.

When we signed up for telegram and got a text right away from a neighbor wondering if we had been hacked due to the sexy profile pic and description.

We’ve seen several friends have a second FB profile be offered to our normal accounts as “people you may know” - not sure if email, phone numbers or facial recognition, but that’s pretty scary too.

What’s the next best option? And how do we make it the new standard, so everyone isn’t using something different. That gets exhausting trying to keep up with too… lol.
We just keep using kik.
We've always like MeWe. It has a lot of great features that kik doesn't have. It's sort of a cross between kik and Facebook. But unfortunately, it's not widely used like kik.
We are still using KIK, the pop up ads here and there suck, but it's been decent
Kik for us. Too many social media accounts make it difficult to manage.
We use KiiiK, but you’re right, it’s got a lot of issues. It recently crashed on me and I lost all my conversations.

The anonymity is nice, but we’d be open to better options.
I use Kik, but only because it seems to be the go to that others use. I think it has a horrible UI and hardly ever works.
Agreed. It is horrible, but it’s what we have at this point.
We use a cell phone. Been working flawlessly for almost 20 years in the lifestyle.
We use kik
We still use Kik, but only because so many other people still seem to use it as well. However, like PARTYINLV, we much prefer MeWe because it has so much more to offer than Kik ever could or ever has. It is by far the best platform we have seen for our Lifestyle activities, especially for our local Lifestyle group.
We use kik. But now we need to try MeWe just to see!
We use kick all the time. No issues. No pop ups. No freezing.
Staying on kik. Works and more anonymous we find, feel anyways.
We like Myspace.
We use kik as well. It is obnoxious of late - but still the best way to chat about private things and to send images outside of prying eyes. The freeze issue has been especially obnoxious . . . but we keep hoping for a fix. In the meantime . . . its still our texting tool of choice.
Kik is great but mine crashed and I had to reload it. All my conversations were gone and I can’t remember by the user name who I was talking to so that’s a little awkward
K.i.k works for us no issues. Occassional pop up.
we use kik,we like it but up for any better options...
It seems to work fine with iPhones. But with androids K I K seems to have alot of issues.
When k i k was about to go down we tried MeWe and Wikr, and we'll specifically avoid anything that's owned by facebook or requires a phone number so we didn't use Telegram. MeWe made sense for big groups, the social aspect was kinda cool, but I liked Wickr the most since it was closest to k i k. Unfortunately nobody really ever used it, and chat apps are only as good as the people who use it. Plus it's now owned by Amazon, so I'd rather avoid it. I really wish kik would have just died so it forced the community to leave the app and eventually pick a replacement.

Seems like the only real alternative at this point will be Telegram. We'll have to use google voice to create a new phone number, since we won't use our personal numbers.
Yeah kik on Apple seems to be better
kik is fine for us. It freezes up for us but works. After we get to know people or have a date set up we exchange numbers.
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Kik is bad. It always has issues.
We use Signal and Telegram.
Telegram privacy settings must be setup correctly so your neighbors don't find your profile.
Don't sync device contacts.
Only add contacts you want.

Privacy settings:
Phone number - Nobody
Who can see my phone number - Nobody
Who can find me by my number - Nobody
Last Seen & Online - My Contacts
Calls - My Contacts
2FUNINMNTS wrote:

What do you all think of Kik? A while back it almost went away. They saved it. And now it’s nearly unusable. It freezes, has adds and popups that make it useless. It remained such a popular app in the LS likely bc of the anonymity. It never really attached to your contacts like telegram, snap, what’s app, FB or others.
When we signed up for telegram and got a text right away from a neighbor wondering if we had been hacked due to the sexy profile pic and description.
We’ve seen several friends have a second FB profile be offered to our normal accounts as “people you may know” - not sure if email, phone numbers or facial recognition, but that’s pretty scary too.
What’s the next best option? And how do we make it the new standard, so everyone isn’t using something different. That gets exhausting trying to keep up with too… lol.


The only way this would’ve happened is if you allowed access to contacts when you first set it up. You can wipe those contacts though. Kiik does the same thing when you initially set it up. Known many people that have the same issue there. They also parse your messages to gather user data to improve the ads so there’s that too. At least Tele uses end to end encryption to protect your data.
We use kik also JnLcouple, we are from Fredonia Az. Near Kanab Ut.
Kiiik is good for initial contact, no personal data is exchanged that way. It is however centralized and has no end to end encryption. (Read: your messages/pictures could be intercepted/stolen and possibly used against you)
It’s turned into a pretty garbage application though.

MeWe actually looks good, has encryption but doesn’t look like the encryption cannot be publicly validated.

Once we exchange real world contact info with others we prefer to move to one of the following:

iMessage: if we are all iPhone users (Apple claims end to end encryption but is not verifiable)

Signal: Our personal favorite, end to end encryption, publicly verifiable, notification if a device is compromised/changed, disappearing messages. But it does use your phone number as it’s initial authentication.

Telegram is also a good platform very similar to Signal

***Please don’t use SMS***
This is the standard text between all phones. If you are on iPhone it can be identified by color; green. If it’s blue it’s iPhone to iPhone so iMessage (which is MUCH safer)
SMS is by far the easiest for a bad actor to monitor/steal info.
SMS spoofing is how we are all receiving the robo/spam calls from real peoples phone numbers even though it’s not them. If they can fake your number, they can send/receive your text messages.
Kiiik has been great for us, does seem like its had more ads lately. As mentioned previously though it is about who's using the app. Seems all the singles we meet are using Snap, so working on getting used to that. Sounds like MeWe might be good..anyone have a group setup on there we can hop into? Kiiik specialk123XXX
forsome wrote:

forsome wrote:

Kiiik is good for initial contact, no personal data is exchanged that way. It is however centralized and has no end to end encryption. (Read: your messages/pictures could be intercepted/stolen and possibly used against you)
It’s turned into a pretty garbage application though.
MeWe actually looks good, has encryption but doesn’t look like the encryption cannot be publicly validated.
Once we exchange real world contact info with others we prefer to move to one of the following:
iMessage: if we are all iPhone users (Apple claims end to end encryption but is not verifiable)
Signal: Our personal favorite, end to end encryption, publicly verifiable, notification if a device is compromised/changed, disappearing messages. But it does use your phone number as it’s initial authentication.
Telegram is also a good platform very similar to Signal
***Please don’t use SMS***
This is the standard text between all phones. If you are on iPhone it can be identified by color; green. If it’s blue it’s iPhone to iPhone so iMessage (which is MUCH safer)
SMS is by far the easiest for a bad actor to monitor/steal info.
SMS spoofing is how we are all receiving the robo/spam calls from real peoples phone numbers even though it’s not them. If they can fake your number, they can send/receive your text messages.
Great write up!
We just use Google Voice. Is Kik better?
K.i.k works best I think ..it doesn't ask for personal info aside for the adds it's not terrible.
RISKERONER wrote:

K.i.k works best I think ..it doesn't ask for personal info aside for the adds it's not terrible.


No ads or personal information required on MeWe. :)
We use kik due to the anonymity and widespread use, but we don't like the bugs and glitches. We also have MeWe but don't use it much as a messaging app because so few people have it, so we mainly use it as an adult blog.
SexyCoupleUT wrote:

We use kik due to the anonymity and widespread use, but we don't like the bugs and glitches. We also have MeWe but don't use it much as a messaging app because so few people have it, so we mainly use it as an adult blog.


We have been on MeWe for years because that is where we primarily run our local Lifestyle group from. We love the app and all the features it has that make member interaction so much fun. We would love to follow your blog, so feel free to let us know what your username is there.
SexyCoupleUT wrote:

We use kik due to the anonymity and widespread use, but we don't like the bugs and glitches. We also have MeWe but don't use it much as a messaging app because so few people have it, so we mainly use it as an adult blog.


Yeah, MeWe is so much better. But not enough people know about it. So, we are forced to use kik more.
EVILDOERS wrote:

We like Myspace.


geocities was better

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Oh man, KIK is still a thing. I still have mine (male half of our open marriage profile) and would love to join a group on kik or find some women/couples looking for/open to a married/solo poly guy for fun times. Vasectomy safe, STD free, drama free, respectful and fun! kik @ chance4311 ;D
We still use it.. till something better comes along. We also created a separate pseudo/lifestyle facebook profile.
We use kik until we are reasonably sure they aren't murder's and then we switch to text messaging.

Kik is Trash but its the best option of the trash apps we have found. most annoying it only keeps like 100 messages before they get deleted.

I have thought about making a Swingular Discord group but not sure how everyone would feel about that?
We are still on KIK
We would totally join this.
We use Kik all the time, mostly issue free. Also use MeWe, which has a little learning curve but is good for chatting. You could always get a cheap burner phone and use it without attaching your other accounts to it.
We use kik, have not seen any issues so far.
OK
We are in the testing stages of the Discord channel. If you are interested in joining the channel and you are in Utah and the surrounding states and ill shoot you an invite
RICHNKAY801 wrote:

OK
We are in the testing stages of the Discord channel. If you are interested in joining the channel and you are in Utah and the surrounding states and ill shoot you an invite


Love Discord