Hi I'm Alex looking for my first encounter would like someone too show me the ropes and have a good time message me if interested (couples and single females welcome)
I just don’t understand how single guys can be swingers 🤣😂🤣😂
We agree with you! 😂
"I just don’t understand how single guys can be swingers" Like this, DUH! ;-p
A lot of couples like and some even prefer single males. We did early on in the LS.
Sometimes couples get so busy that they really don’t have the time to court another couple. Quality single guys, with whom a couple may have connected, aren’t bothered or slighted at all, if all you have time for, in the lifestyle, is to go over to their place chat for maybe thirty minutes and then fuck for a couple of hours and leave. A phone call or text message every now and again cool, but not planning your free time, which is mostly accounted for, to non sexually socialize is okay with single guys. You want to have sex erotic sexual experiences, he wants to have the same, the wife gets to be the center of attention. A sex goddess with her body the temple of worship. Sometimes it works. To be warned. When we’ve taken that position, we’ve always found the right guy. We did have to say no, to a lot of men, and even block the jerky guys that aren’t ever a good fit.
Don't be this guy...
@openmarriage,
I agree with you for the most part and we've had certain single males continually reach out despite a lack of response. That being said, others have rightfully pointed out that many couples do look for single males either occasionally or exclusively (we sometimes do). Looking at your preferences, the impression I get is that you would be open to single males as well:
I agree with you for the most part and we've had certain single males continually reach out despite a lack of response. That being said, others have rightfully pointed out that many couples do look for single males either occasionally or exclusively (we sometimes do). Looking at your preferences, the impression I get is that you would be open to single males as well:
JABRONES wrote:I think the point there is they declined the friend request and he continues to ask again and again.
@openmarriage,
I agree with you for the most part and we've had certain single males continually reach out despite a lack of response. That being said, others have rightfully pointed out that many couples do look for single males either occasionally or exclusively (we sometimes do). Looking at your preferences, the impression I get is that you would be open to single males as well:
openmarriage wrote:This is the reason we just don’t decline or accept their friend request. Yes a little bit of a pain but stops these kind of guys.
Don't be this guy...
There are maybe, what 50 guys that do this to everyone? Maybe more sending endless friend request to to the younger crowd. We have a pre written response we send to these senders that reminds them why we are not going to accept their friend request. Anyway, the Original Poster should be learning what not to do.
I think they should all be put in a SM stable, and not allowed to post … and those that are interested in SM’s can go look in the SM stable haha
Utahldscouple / openmarriage -
My mistake. I read two different responses and mistakenly attributed them both to openmarriage! The other was "don’t understand how single guys can be swingers". My bad.
My mistake. I read two different responses and mistakenly attributed them both to openmarriage! The other was "don’t understand how single guys can be swingers". My bad.
There’s a “block single males” toggle button on the encounters page. There should be one on the home page that blocks all SM content for those not interested. Boom!
Lol
openmarriage wrote:
Don't be this guy...
When you get that friend request, just delete the email without declining the request so that the request stays in limbo land. Another request cannot be sent if one is pending. We have over 50 friend request pending due to various reasons (no pics of them, no face pics of them, no accompanying email, terrible Message, etc)
massageBBCguy wrote:
Lol
Why LOL? From what I can see, the vast majority of couples here don’t want SM content, yet it seems that over half of the content here is that of SMs. Makes sense to me to have the ability to block SM content.