As a couple, we only play if our female half is interested in the other couple's male half. Makes sense, right? But the majority of profiles have no photos of the male half, so there is no way for her to judge her interest. It seems weird that people would join a swinger site and not post photos of themselves. Even weirder are all the single male profiles that have photos only of women. What's with that?
Well put I totally agree. Photos of both are usually required to peak both of our interests. And yes I know the single males that constantly post female photos and wonder if that female gave consent to have her photos displayed on the site. I would not trust those guys, part of the deal with us is being discreet
SEXT4FUN wrote:
Kind of like all the, "single women," profiles that are actually couples looking for a woman to join them...
We see lot of those profiles as well.
There's been a big spike in that lately. You click on a single female profile then read the bio and it begins with the word "We".
I have thought the same about single male profiles, with a single picture of a female. Some of them have their pictures in the private file, but not many. Our profile is "couple", and the public / profile picture is of my lovely wife's arse. I will add a picture of me to it, to avoid this issue. Our private photos have both of us and face pictures. so I guess ultimately we are kinda in that category. With that being said, my wife also has to see initial pictures to see if there is a spark of interest. I would not meet up with anyone that had no pictures, not a good stage to set.
A profile without a photo of the male half of the couple is a show stopper. We won’t even look at it. Why aren’t they showing the male? Is he a troll? I think in general the woman half of the couple is a bit more picky in what the male side looks like. …. We all like to show off our sexy wife’s, why not show the other half?
It SUPER bothers me when a single male has female pictures either in their profile or that they share in groups. No reason for them to be sharing sometime else's picture and I don't feel comfortable at all viewing material that someone may not know is being shared. This is the internet so I'm not nieve enough to believe the "couple" profiles are always honest either but at a minimum it makes sense for a couple profile. I very much dont understand when single men share pictures of women, that woman won't be involved with anything so what's the point, it's just a huge red flag.
-Mrs
-Mrs
We have both of our pictures on the public pics without face shots of course when we decide to become friends then you can see both of us in the private album. In our private pics we don’t share other people we have been with either that’s a privacy trust issue we stick to
Well part of that is trying to get admin to update profiles from single to couples and vice versa. Then there are guys who claim to be a couple and the female half has never been available.
BMTWINFUN wrote:
Well part of that is trying to get admin to update profiles from single to couples and vice versa. Then there are guys who claim to be a couple and the female half has never been available.
The old bait and switch had that happen more than once
Yes there is one profile we're the guy contacted us and said wife was out of town. At six months later she was still unavailable and again at two years still unavailable. No the guy doesn't even respond to emails and he is camped out on here 24/7
As a single female, it’s annoying as fuck when singles or couples friend request without also having pics of their own. Why would I show you mine if you don’t reciprocate. It’s bad manners. Everyone wants discretion but really, we are all taking a risk by sending pics to strangers. It’s not like we’re asking for your LinkedIn profiles and bank account logins, people just want to know you’re real and hopefully hot.
Maybe they no their the deal breaker lol that would be our case lol
Yeah feel if you only have body pics and no face there is a reason. If you have face and no body there is a reason. If you don’t show one partner there is a reason. No pics there is a reason (usually not serious). No private pics and requesting to see yours is a flag!
Utahldscouple wrote:
Yeah feel if you only have body pics and no face there is a reason. If you have face and nobody there is a reason. If you don’t show one partner there is a reason. No pics there is a reason (usually not serious). No private pics and requesting to see yours is a flag!
As you said when people do have pictures of both I'm ok with just full body pics and blurred face picks since we do the same or keeping them in the private folders. I'm more than willing to share pictures of us through mewe, kik, discord, etc. But a Pet peeve is there are pictures of both and it's just zoomed in to a dick shot or high-resolution vagina.
SEXT4FUN wrote:
Well, we keep looking! So if you're a real single female looking for a fun couple.....
Join the club. Most SF we've found have been organically through vanilla venues oddly enough here in SLC or on reddit.
It’s interesting , as a single female I have to do most of the reaching out to sm or couples. While I do get the occasional random email, I mostly have to send a million emails and hope something comes back. Strange times. 🤷🏻♀️
SLCBEACHBUM wrote:Many couples do swing because their other half is to ugly to fuck.😁
Maybe they no their the deal breaker lol that would be our case lol
SLCBEACHBUM wrote:Many couples do swing because their other half is to ugly to fuck.😁
Maybe they no their the deal breaker lol that would be our case lol
SLCBEACHBUM wrote:Many couples do swing because their other half is to ugly to fuck.😁
Maybe they no their the deal breaker lol that would be our case lol
If there aren’t photos of both we don’t bother. Or profiles of 1 public boob pic and no faces or body pics of the couple. In our experience there is an issue there somewhere.
SWINGSETS wrote:
Many couples do swing because their other half is to ugly to fuck.😁
Ouch! Not are case we do it together because it’s a turn on and I love to watch her having fun
I’ve found most of those types of profiles are just guys trying to get nudes of other females/couples.. Especially on other apps.
Rubi7 wrote:
I’ve found most of those types of profiles are just guys trying to get nudes of other females/couples.. Especially on other apps.
I’m sure of that pic collectors sending blind friend requests very frustrating they don’t even take time to read a profile that says no blind friend requests
Yeah the wife’s pic is our main profile pic then if we accept ur friend request u can see both of us and our faces. The single males and there never ending crap does get old sometimes,
SWINGSETS wrote:Yes, usually the male half especially if there are not any pictures of him.SLCBEACHBUM wrote:Many couples do swing because their other half is to ugly to fuck.😁
Maybe they no their the deal breaker lol that would be our case lol
HORSEGIRL9502 wrote:
It’s interesting , as a single female I have to do most of the reaching out to sm or couples. While I do get the occasional random email, I mostly have to send a million emails and hope something comes back. Strange times. 🤷🏻♀️
Seriously? With the pervasive unicorn search going on here I'd think you'd get more than you could handle.
BMTWINFUN wrote:
Well part of that is trying to get admin to update profiles from single to couples and vice versa. Then there are guys who claim to be a couple and the female half has never been available.
I get this response often.
I absolutely agree that there needs to be a way to change your relationship status, but it's not the websites fault that you don't have pictures of both of you posted or that your other half somehow can't join a group chat....