Seems whenever we reply to posts we are getting ignored and people are just zipping straight to friend request to see our private pics. What gives? Anyone actually trying to meet up on here or is it a strict community that only interacts with each other infiltrated by pic collectors?
Are we “too young” at 27? Doesn’t seem like we’re the right age for the crowd lol
Had 0 luck on here in months and we’ve been quite friendly and vocal. Seems like a waste of money every month
Are we “too young” at 27? Doesn’t seem like we’re the right age for the crowd lol
Had 0 luck on here in months and we’ve been quite friendly and vocal. Seems like a waste of money every month
Yes there are a lot of pic collectors on here. We would say that most are in their 30’s on here. We know when we see younger couples we are quick to judge, as we always reflect our younger selves on others. We know our marriage wouldn’t have probably been able to navigate the lifestyle when we were young. Curious if you have reached out to others that you are interested in? Have you attended any events or clubs? What’s your preferences on meeting and getting to know others. We don’t like a lot of chatting/texting as we find we can find out so much more by meeting for dinner.
We have reached out to quite a few. Might be retired accounts by now—not totally sure. We haven’t gone to any events yet but we’ve heard about New Yorker and the one up here in Ogden with the ghost. Interested in trying it out but we don’t prefer the cold-call method of walking up to someone random. We definitely prefer to get to know another couple over some dinner or drinks and evolve the night into the bedroom if there’s chemistry
Yeah there are a lot of dead accounts. We find a lot of couples aren’t polite enough to say no thank you and just ghost you. Sometimes it takes a while to break in but once you do, you will find how great the community is!
The unspoken in Ogden is a great place to facilitate that meet up. And if they flake (which is possible) there are other couples you may be able to say hi to.
The unspoken in Ogden is a great place to facilitate that meet up. And if they flake (which is possible) there are other couples you may be able to say hi to.
You'll definitely have more luck meeting people at events we have met some people from this site but not many. Mostly we use this site to find out about parties and kik groups and then meet people that way.
We’re new to this site and to the community. I’ve seen a lot of profiles with flip phones and the old ass tv’s with the big back in the background. There’s def some old profiles. 😂
We’re thinking about going to a club for the first time this weekend (: I’ll message you guys and maybe if we all go we can go together as newbies! We’re also in our 20’s
We are a young couple here and have been trying to find some couples around our age too. It's been a bit harder. We are going to attend some parties to try and find couples around our age.
Utahcouple4you wrote:Hey we just haven’t upgraded our TV or phones yet
We’re new to this site and to the community. I’ve seen a lot of profiles with flip phones and the old ass tv’s with the big back in the background. There’s def some old profiles. 😂
😂!
We messaged you and are interested but we might be older than u r looking for. No worries.
We noticed that meeting people took a little longer than expected a well.
Hello !! My gf and I are also young 25-19 and we have trouble on here to. If you guys are in slc/Utah county area we can message on snap or Kik and try and meet up for dinner or something ! If you guys think we are cute that is (: lol
What club ?? My partner and I need to get out into the community and not just be on the websites ! 😩😁😁 we have been looking for “swinger” clubs but can’t find any reliable places around here
Jake_chloe wrote:The New Yorker on Saturday nights!
What club ?? My partner and I need to get out into the community and not just be on the websites ! 😩😁😁 we have been looking for “swinger” clubs but can’t find any reliable places around here
We always have fun no matter what the age, I tell about adventure, fun and meeting others
Welcome to the club. As UtahLDScouple mentioned you get older couples caught up in the "you're as old as my kids" thought. Instead of worrying about the here and now. Conversely, older couples are fun and more willing to meet without bias. There's always something new to learn in the bedroom or while having a good time conversing. Our issue with younger couples is that they are more prone to flaking because maybe swinging is just an experiment and not actually in it for the swinging long haul or are not HWP in our experience.
MountainAdventures wrote:More the female half here on the young as my kids part! Men are always ok with younger 😂!
Welcome to the club. As UtahLDScouple mentioned you get older couples caught up in the "you're as old as my kids" thought. Instead of worrying about the here and now. Conversely, older couples are fun and more willing to meet without bias. There's always something new to learn in the bedroom or while having a good time conversing. Our issue with younger couples is that they are more prone to flaking because maybe swinging is just an experiment and not actually in it for the swinging long haul or are not HWP in our experience.
We believe that if you're a fun couple (or single), take care of yourselves and don't mind an age difference then let's have fun. Sometimes we feel like we're too old 😂
As long as you're not old in spirit that's all that matters. Cardio is a completely different issue =D
When we posted this and titled it “Young Couples” it’s because we thought we were being passed on or excluded because we were too young. I personally have no age preference and she prefers closer to our age but we both agree that chemistry is chemistry and fun is fun 
We are open to whatever. Thanks to everyone who replied and reached out to us! Just took a little ice breaker to finally get some messages lol
Anyone who is interested please message us! We aren’t selectively filtering people based on age
We are open to whatever. Thanks to everyone who replied and reached out to us! Just took a little ice breaker to finally get some messages lolAnyone who is interested please message us! We aren’t selectively filtering people based on age
Utahldscouple wrote:MountainAdventures wrote:More the female half here on the young as my kids part! Men are always ok with younger 😂!
Welcome to the club. As UtahLDScouple mentioned you get older couples caught up in the "you're as old as my kids" thought. Instead of worrying about the here and now. Conversely, older couples are fun and more willing to meet without bias. There's always something new to learn in the bedroom or while having a good time conversing. Our issue with younger couples is that they are more prone to flaking because maybe swinging is just an experiment and not actually in it for the swinging long haul or are not HWP in our experience.
Utahldscouple, While that may be true, I know of a lot of women that would love to have a hot young stud to play with.
I my case, I'd love to be with a younger woman, but every time I feel that urge I also think to myself that there's no way an attractive younger woman would want to be with someone my age. That probably keeps my in check, at least a little, from having unrealistic expectations and going where I'm not wanted.
Utahldscouple wrote:MountainAdventures wrote:More the female half here on the young as my kids part! Men are always ok with younger 😂!
Welcome to the club. As UtahLDScouple mentioned you get older couples caught up in the "you're as old as my kids" thought. Instead of worrying about the here and now. Conversely, older couples are fun and more willing to meet without bias. There's always something new to learn in the bedroom or while having a good time conversing. Our issue with younger couples is that they are more prone to flaking because maybe swinging is just an experiment and not actually in it for the swinging long haul or are not HWP in our experience.
I've seen it otherwise funnily enough. The men get the daughter effect while the ladies are ok with avoiding that fact.
Do you have info on the one in Ogden?! Location and Date?
Pineapplesurprise wrote:Assuming you are referring to the Bar in Ogden that people in the LS meet every Friday night? It is the Unspoken. Ping us if you want more details.
Do you have info on the one in Ogden?! Location and Date?
You should be the rite age group, we are a older couple, we could hang out she what goes, try some local parties hold your own event get out there see if it's what you really want to do, good luck
Hi There! We started in the LS when I was 22 and my husband was 25 so we went through the young folks struggles (I am now 30). I would say the best way to really find your people is to go to public events and certain house parties. Meeting up just off of the site can be a real hit and lots of misses -- with pressure to hook up when meeting a couple alone. Please feel free to reach out to us if you want any more tips and tricks to navigating this community in Utah as someone at the younger end of the spectrum!
You should be the rite age group, we are a older couple, we could hang out she what goes, try some local parties hold your own event get out there see if it's what you really want to do, good luck
CorAle wrote:
Seems whenever we reply to posts we are getting ignored and people are just zipping straight to friend request to see our private pics. What gives? Anyone actually trying to meet up on here or is it a strict community that only interacts with each other infiltrated by pic collectors?
Are we “too young” at 27? Doesn’t seem like we’re the right age for the crowd lol
Had 0 luck on here in months and we’ve been quite friendly and vocal. Seems like a waste of money every month
about half the couples we play with are in their 20's
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Everyone check us out send a message and a request if you have pics