I'm just curious, for couples only, which of you, male or female partner, writes the most posts? Which messages the other couples more? Which more or less leads your LS activity? Is one of you more dominant in the pursue of the LS and if so which is it? And why?
TIA for the responses.
TIA for the responses.
The male half, mostly because we're old and I'm the more computer literate of the two. As far as the life style goes that's 50/50.
Funny. Everyone seems to be more male half in here but for us is both.. mind you wife started the search with other apps and was a lure. Hence the nickname she chose shark bait. But im here in this app and found more actual people that we seek.
Male half online. In person we are both very present in the moment. She is actually really good at the in person let’s get naked moment. Some of the emails etc., she finds a buzz kill. She likes me to do the cruise directing, partially because I tend to favor her more than myself. We’ve both had better experiences when I do all but the last stage or two in the vetting process. She kind of likes a Cliff notes review of what going on prior to setting up a hook up and then hooking up. As far as the forums go, if I tell her about a thread that perks up her interest, she’ll log on and read it. She used to log on more often when the chat room was really busy.
Male half for us as well, on Swingular at least. I think mostly because it doesn’t have its own app. She’s on Feeld and Facebook groups all the time because they’re convenient.
I wouldn’t say she is a text book submissive, but when it comes to the preliminaries she is. It’s exciting for her to show up and just be really attracted to almost perfect strangers, that in kind are really attracted to her on the first in person meeting. After that, if the first encounter was fabulous, the online doesn’t really much matter. Communications become way more open and familiar.
Our dog(male) if he doesn't like you we probably won't either. Seriously the female.
This is the male half. Both of us enjoy the lifestlyle equally. But, she really has very little interest in being active on swinger sites or getting chatty on kik. However, she checks our emails almost daily and tells me how to respond. When we get the urge to find a new couple for a date, she is the one who does the searching. She gives me a list of couples to contact. I look it over and we then discuss who I will send a message to. When it comes to single guys, it's completely her own decision (that's right Suendan... and we haven't had a bad experience yet). Although I am a lot more involved on this site than she is, she is aware of everything.
Male half. I do keep her informed. It gets hard sometimes cause she is more passive about the LS, so we just go at her pace.
The male half does all communicating the wife isn’t into it but we have done commutation a few different ways. We have talked to the other halves separately before or in a group chat all of us. Basically my better halve likes to see pics n then meet n leaves all the chatting prior to me
LS is 50/50 but posting is male half. She says it's awkward for her to initiate anything and wants me to do the leg work and present her with people and she decides yes or no for couples.
Male half here as well but don't reach out to others most on here are none smokers none smokers and smokers really isn't a good match
Majority of the time it’s both of us in all categories. We enjoy it as a couple like most things in our lives. We don’t have issues chatting/meeting/playing solo but that only comes after we’ve established trust with the other couple.
Male half does most of the posts and initial contact stuff. Female half does most of the scouting of who to send friend requests to.
Male half reads and posts it’s kinda my Facebook. Mrs answers friend requests and usually arranges the meetings. We play equally at parties or events.
Male half, there was a time she did but she couldn’t handle dealing with people trying to get her to message or meet up alone, same with kik, she gets turned off by the “husband” messaging her personally instead of as a group. She’s still the first one on Saturday to ask who we’re meeting up with!
It's both of us we both jump on respond and post whenever we have time
Both of us but I the wife probably dose more just because of his job. Then once we have talked a few times I turn it over to him
We both talk on text, but guess who I am?
Both of us at the same time granted he does most of the typing but we are always together on the site
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We both talk on text, but guess who I am?
i am (mike) but it because that's what Haley wants
It started off as me (male half) running this account. But once we got started and had a few experiences she got really into it. So now it is both of us taking care of it. She checks it more but who ever sees a email first responds. There has even been a few times we both see a email and both respond. But who ever responds is the one that continues responding just so the responses don't take o. A completely different feel.
As far as chatting on message apps. she can usually be the one talking more. She really has fun there.
And in person we both engage equally with a new couple. And she is not afraid to help push the party from chatting to naked.
As far as chatting on message apps. she can usually be the one talking more. She really has fun there.
And in person we both engage equally with a new couple. And she is not afraid to help push the party from chatting to naked.
We both peruse the site and read the forums. Acceptance of friend requests is a always a mutual decision, and content of message responses is discussed between us regardless of who actually types it.
As far as who takes the lead on the site, it’s generally him, although she’s been known to as well. Kinda just depends on who is the busiest at any given time.
As far as who takes the lead on the site, it’s generally him, although she’s been known to as well. Kinda just depends on who is the busiest at any given time.
Me”wife” 90% of the time for us!
I, the male half. However, we participate equally when it comes to accepting friend requests (we discuss and decide together). I also bring her in on correspondence between me and others who seem like potentials. We will also look at profiles together on occasion and she will ask periodically if I have had any correspondence with "potentials". Beyond that, she has little to no interest spending time on Swingular.
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I, the male half. However, we participate equally when it comes to accepting friend requests (we discuss and decide together). I also bring her in on correspondence between me and others who seem like potentials. We will also look at profiles together on occasion and she will ask periodically if I have had any correspondence with "potentials". Beyond that, she has little to no interest spending time on Swingular.
This is us to a T.