Can you explain the lingo to us - soft swap, full swap, etc. We're new to this site, although we've been swinging for about three years now. Not familiar with the terminology. Thanks.
Full swap is where you have full intercourse with the other couples you are playing with.
Soft swap on the other hand has 2 definitions we have found. LOL
1. The first version we've witnessed of soft swap is where 2 couples basically have sex with their own partners in the same room. They never touch the other couple whatsoever.
2. The other version, which we find is more common, is basically where you can play with other couples (ie. touching, oral, kissing, etc.) but cannot have full intercourse with the other couple. Basically it's "all is game except for intercourse".
Hope this helps.
Soft swap on the other hand has 2 definitions we have found. LOL
1. The first version we've witnessed of soft swap is where 2 couples basically have sex with their own partners in the same room. They never touch the other couple whatsoever.
2. The other version, which we find is more common, is basically where you can play with other couples (ie. touching, oral, kissing, etc.) but cannot have full intercourse with the other couple. Basically it's "all is game except for intercourse".
Hope this helps.
We heard one additional definition of "soft swap" vs. "full swap" - of course we dont know how accurate we are, either. But according to our sources, full swap is swapping partners fully in separate rooms, while soft swap was swapping in the same room/bed.
It would be nice if there were some definition somewhere so we were all speaking the same language.
It would be nice if there were some definition somewhere so we were all speaking the same language.
Full Swap is everything and anything agreed to whethter same room or separate room. Soft Swap generally refers to playing with another couple with everything except vaginal or anal penetration. Oral, kissing etc as someone said. Now if you really want to start people with definitions ask the difference between Bi, Bi curious, Socially Bi, Passively Bi and then we can get to the male gender... Bi Curious, Passively anally bi, Passively orally bi, Orally Bi, Anally Bi, Bi and Bye....Bi
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Alot to take in for a newbie. But it's all common sense really.