Are there many couples into dom/sub or bdsm? We have been looking for a dom for a bdsm /sub role fantasy we have and it’s been harder than an 18 year old on viagra! We have chatted with a few doms which is what got us into it and we found she absolutely loves the sub role play fantasy! But they were both flakes. We are serious people when it cums to sex lol! We experimented on our own and it’s so hot but not the same due to our loving relationship. It makes it harder to get in the role and stay in it and I can’t do certain things or be as strict. I know how happy she’d be if I can find her an experienced serious dom to come play with her! We are not into pain or Sado stuff. Any tips or experiences y’all can share or any like minded people/couples or doms out there message us or post here!
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That stampeding sound you hear is every single guy on the forum rushing forward to tell you they would make a great DOM.... LMAO...
Dan is my Dom, I am his submissive, and we have a red room dungeon hehe. There is actually a lot to BDsm in terms of what fetish variations you are into, roles, and boundaries. Perhaps have her describe what she is looking for, or thinks she is looking for … this might help you find what you’re looking for. Your description that she loves the “sub roleplay fantasy” actually sounds like she just likes to pretend she’s submissive.
Anywho, I’d suggest making a profile on Fetlife if you’re actually really interested in exploring BDSM. This probably isn’t the best place, as you already found out.
Anywho, I’d suggest making a profile on Fetlife if you’re actually really interested in exploring BDSM. This probably isn’t the best place, as you already found out.
FunCouple84020 wrote:
That stampeding sound you hear is every single guy on the forum rushing forward to tell you they would make a great DOM.... LMAO...
Exactly ! LoL and not a one of them has a shred of experience 🤣
Thank you very much!! Maybe you two could teach her a few things! And she definitely knows what she likes and wants I just wasn’t sure how well this would be received.
Lol yup its hard to find what your looking for. You gotta play and experiment and communicate. I've been a Dom for my wife and a few others. It's easier on others than wife. I am not into pain or fluids etc...kinky fun sexy fun boundary fun. Say hi if this sounds fun.