We love when we post in the forums and get a ton of friend requests. What we don’t love is people requesting to be our friends with one obscure public pic and no private pics. Also those who have zero pics. There are those who think because we swing, and you swing, that we just hook up with whomever because we are “in the lifestyle”? Or those who get offended when we’re not interested and called classless because we decided to un-friend once we looked at your pics? Really? There HAS to be attraction, period! I’m sorry if we’re not feeling it with everyone. No offense. It’s just how nature works. We’re not here to take one, or two for the team simply because you feel we should get down to business with you. Hit us up at a party and we could be plutonic friends. But we simply don’t fuck everyone we meet. And we’ve been turned down and un-friended too. It doesn’t offend us. There are lots of fun, hot couples on here.
Cheers to everyone and their licentious conquests!
Mr and Mrs. UtHotCplextreme 💋
Cheers to everyone and their licentious conquests!
Mr and Mrs. UtHotCplextreme 💋
Too funny we had this very discussion many a times (including today). You want to see our pictures but don’t want to provide any. We find it interesting that there are only pictures of one of the two (when part of a couple). We always ask, what are they hiding. Later on we usually always find out it’s because either one of the partners isn’t attractive or really isn’t involved. There are a ton of hot bodies in the LS and not so many faces to match. Another flag for us when you only see body pics in the private folder and no faces. We understand discretion hence why you keep them in your private folder.
Mrs always says she is 1 part face, 1 part body, 1 part personality, and 1 part intellect (needs 3 of them).
Mrs always says she is 1 part face, 1 part body, 1 part personality, and 1 part intellect (needs 3 of them).
Utahldscouple wrote:
Too funny we had this very discussion many a times (including today). You want to see our pictures but don’t want to provide any. We find it interesting that there are only pictures of one of the two (when part of a couple). We always ask, what are they hiding. Later on we usually always find out it’s because either one of the partners isn’t attractive or really isn’t involved. There are a ton of hot bodies in the LS and not so many faces to match. Another flag for us when you only see body pics in the private folder and no faces. We understand discretion hence why you keep them in your private folder.
Mrs always says she is 1 part face, 1 part body, 1 part personality, and 1 part intellect (needs 3 of them).
Exactly! Everyone has their preferences. With zero to base or on, how do you even begin? We don’t want to go through adding someone, getting to know them, and then finding out there’s no attraction at all. It’s hard enough finding the right people on here. Having current pics and showing yourselves in your private album expedites the process. And like you said the “private” album is just that. Private. Put your dang faces and bods in there.
Have to agree with all of this. We have had a few of these requests in the last week or two. If you have been a member for over a year or two, only have one obscure photo in your profile, leave no message in your request, and live a few hundred miles away.... no thanks. We are looking to make friends not collect them. How hard is it to put a tiny bit of effort into it?
Yep. No private pics? No need to send a request. We have just as much to be concerned about as anyone else about our privacy. In other words...you got "No skin" in the game? We're a bit leary of your commitment. Sorry. If you're on the up and up? Meet us in person. It's not that hard.
NateG wrote:
Well said. I’m new still to this site And if any of you are getting multiple request from me I’m sorry!! There’s so many amazing people on here I forget who I already requested before and who I haven’t. So if I request more then once or if it’s my first time and your not interested just send a message saying not interested. Then I can remember I have not asked you. 🙂
Use the notes to track if you have sent a friend request or get a no thanks. No reason to not keep track.
Nakkidfun wrote:We just never approve them. We send a note saying not interested but leave it there. Yes we have hundreds of unapproved friends request.NateG wrote:
Well said. I’m new still to this site And if any of you are getting multiple request from me I’m sorry!! There’s so many amazing people on here I forget who I already requested before and who I haven’t. So if I request more then once or if it’s my first time and your not interested just send a message saying not interested. Then I can remember I have not asked you. 🙂
Use the notes to track if you have sent a friend request or get a no thanks. No reason to not keep track.
UTHOTCPLEXTREME wrote:
We love when we post in the forums and get a ton of friend requests. What we don’t love is people requesting to be our friends with one obscure public pic and no private pics. Also those who have zero pics. There are those who think because we swing, and you swing, that we just hook up with whomever because we are “in the lifestyle”? Or those who get offended when we’re not interested and called classless because we decided to un-friend once we looked at your pics? Really? There HAS to be attraction, period! I’m sorry if we’re not feeling it with everyone. No offense. It’s just how nature works. We’re not here to take one, or two for the team simply because you feel we should get down to business with you. Hit us up at a party and we could be plutonic friends. But we simply don’t fuck everyone we meet. And we’ve been turned down and un-friended too. It doesn’t offend us. There are lots of fun, hot couples on here.
Cheers to everyone and their licentious conquests!
Mr and Mrs. UtHotCplextreme 💋
Well you are extremely beautiful and your profile pics are stunning. We are already friends on here. I'd love to learn more
Utahldscouple wrote:
Too funny we had this very discussion many a times (including today). You want to see our pictures but don’t want to provide any. We find it interesting that there are only pictures of one of the two (when part of a couple). We always ask, what are they hiding. Later on we usually always find out it’s because either one of the partners isn’t attractive or really isn’t involved. There are a ton of hot bodies in the LS and not so many faces to match. Another flag for us when you only see body pics in the private folder and no faces. We understand discretion hence why you keep them in your private folder.
Mrs always says she is 1 part face, 1 part body, 1 part personality, and 1 part intellect (needs 3 of them).
I've met y'all. I say she is all 3 and more.
We used to get friend requests when we were younger and attractive, now all we got was several requests from SWINGULAR to please remove all current photos because they were having so many complaints and loosing business. Maybe around Halloween we can post a few and they won't stand out quite so bad.
BTW UTHOTCPLEXTREME, Realizing that you guys are at one end of the spectrum and we are at the other, we really need to get together again and enjoy some fine dining. We all know we are safe.
BTW UTHOTCPLEXTREME, Realizing that you guys are at one end of the spectrum and we are at the other, we really need to get together again and enjoy some fine dining. We all know we are safe.
Pictures are good, their has to be some physical attraction. However I'm not sure I understand that having a private picture of your pants or Tshirt helps out the cause "what's behind the mask? Did you get burned by acid? Inconceivable". But really, for us there has to be a connection on a deeper level. In person meetings is extremely important. As far as the mix of 3, we agree. We get a ton of friend requests, if you want to see me or my beautiful wife's body just ask.......
And at this point we believe the only reason anybody friend request is cuz they want to see the private pictures and you never hear from them again
I pretty much agree with what has been said above. My complaint, is it is so rare that the pictures actually represent the people. So often we meet people and they do not look anything like their photos. In most cases they are of them years ago.