Anyone is going to the new yorker this weeknd?
I want to go badly. What day?
KinkyCrystal361 wrote:It's only open on Saturday nights.
I want to go badly. What day?
we might go this weekend!
Last weekend was a great time wet T-shirt contest was the icing on the cake we'll be back for sure just a great pleace to hangout and meet like minded people
Yes. It’ll be the second time.
What’s the address?
Sunsout1 wrote:
What’s the address?
close to market street grill at downtown
After party after New Yorker???🙈
I believe we are going to go this weekend
I was just looking at the menu for The New Yorker and their website says they are permanently closed
Anyone else going or still thinking??
Had a great time...great wet t-shirt contest and lots of activities going on! Will be back for sure!
Just curious about single male ratio to couples? Been to regular clubs where single males are circling like sharks… We were thinking it may be even worse in a setting such as the New Yorker. Any insight?
1EZ2 wrote:
Had a great time...great wet t-shirt contest and lots of activities going on! Will be back for sure!
so you went last weeknd!!!
Lacai wrote:
Just curious about single male ratio to couples? Been to regular clubs where single males are circling like sharks… We were thinking it may be even worse in a setting such as the New Yorker. Any insight?
not necessarily like sharks ...everyone is looking to have a good time!like you cpls are seeking for single M/F ,couples
There’s an event at the New Yorker this coming Thursday the 19th.. not a “swingers”event but still going to be a lot of swingers in attendance. Thank me later
we are thinking about going saturday... feel free to say hi if you see us.... ladies...
Lacai wrote:Definitely getting worse. It use to be very minimal but as more and more popular it becomes well the more they come.
Just curious about single male ratio to couples? Been to regular clubs where single males are circling like sharks… We were thinking it may be even worse in a setting such as the New Yorker. Any insight?
We seen a few single males last Saturday night, but none of them where disrespectful at least what we experienced. It was a lot of fun, we had never had sex in public, but really enjoyed it. 😁
Where is the New Yorker? And where is info?
Misschloe0511 wrote:Sent you details.
Where is the New Yorker? And where is info?
Utahldscouple wrote:Misschloe0511 wrote:Sent you details.
Where is the New Yorker? And where is info?
thanks for that!!
braziliangod21 wrote:We didn’t send the info to you? We are a little confused unless you have 2 profiles (1 as a couple and 1 as a single male)?!?!
thanks for that!!
Utahldscouple wrote:braziliangod21 wrote:We didn’t send the info to you? We are a little confused unless you have 2 profiles (1 as a couple and 1 as a single male)?!?!
thanks for that!!
No , just saying thanks for the answer to that couple..!
I would like to try the New Yorker but tag along with a couple that knows the ropes
Same. Going in blind for some things is fun. Some others is not. Rather go with someone and if things aren't what we expected at least we came with friends.
Demney,
Everything I heard and read about the rules stated" back rooms are not to be used for playing". So we where surprised when about 3-4 couples started having sex. Obviously it turned us on, so we did as well. Most of them where discreet, pulling up a dress and riding the male. We only went in the one room, so not sure if I was hanging in the other two. This was our first time there.
Everything I heard and read about the rules stated" back rooms are not to be used for playing". So we where surprised when about 3-4 couples started having sex. Obviously it turned us on, so we did as well. Most of them where discreet, pulling up a dress and riding the male. We only went in the one room, so not sure if I was hanging in the other two. This was our first time there.
We are interested in going. Not sure when, but sounds fun. It would be fun to go with another couple and experience together
Now offering New Yorker escort services as a couple 😀. PM us we will take you (just don’t expect play).
How can we get information to this?
For those of you wanting to play at a public club.
You risk arrest should that location be raided by police or have under cover officers present. It would not be worth it. Get a room…just saying. Getting caught up in the moment in SLC can be risky so buyer beware.
You risk arrest should that location be raided by police or have under cover officers present. It would not be worth it. Get a room…just saying. Getting caught up in the moment in SLC can be risky so buyer beware.
Skicouple is correct, it would is risky. Promissiongrantd, it is in the basement of the old New Yorker restaurant. It is open on Saturday nights. Unless there's a private event, which is never on Saturday nights. Check it out, it's fun.
Thank you! Might give it a go this weekend.
If anyone could send us details to where it is that would be great as well.
Also, we are in our twenties. Are we going to be the only ones our age there?
Also, we are in our twenties. Are we going to be the only ones our age there?
testing_waters wrote:Sent
If anyone could send us details to where it is that would be great as well.
Also, we are in our twenties. Are we going to be the only ones our age there?
I have heard there might be a dress code? Is there? And if so what is it?
Promissiongrantd wrote:Not really but it’s a club so dress to impress. Wouldn’t recommend T-shirts for men or flip flops but to us those are always a no go to any club.
I have heard there might be a dress code? Is there? And if so what is it?
Utahldscouple wrote:Lacai wrote:Definitely getting worse. It use to be very minimal but as more and more popular it becomes well the more they come.
Just curious about single male ratio to couples? Been to regular clubs where single males are circling like sharks… We were thinking it may be even worse in a setting such as the New Yorker. Any insight?
That's probably the main reason we really don't go to functions other than small house parties anymore. Not that we're necessarily averse to single guys but it DOES quickly get to a tipping point where the ratio of SMs just makes it pretty uncomfortable for Ms. Evil (and I suspect more than a few of the other ladies present)...especially if there are even just one or two 'bad actors' in the crowd (and there almost always are). :-(
I've looked and still can't see anywhere Ross chimed in on the video taking at the club so I'm skipping for awhile. I'm still pretty pissed video was taken of the wet t-shirt contest. For a "consent" focused community it sure gets forgotten quickly.
MANDIEQT wrote:Yeah we agree on this. We were surprised to here that people took video as well. We have caught a few in the past and confronted them.
I've looked and still can't see anywhere Ross chimed in on the video taking at the club so I'm skipping for awhile. I'm still pretty pissed video was taken of the wet t-shirt contest. For a "consent" focused community it sure gets forgotten quickly.
We will be there. Been to the New Yorker once before about 6 weeks ago. It was SO much fun last time.
We are!
EVILDOERS wrote:
Definitely getting worse. It use to be very minimal but as more and more popular it becomes well the more they come.
That's probably the main reason we really don't go to functions other than small house parties anymore. Not that we're necessarily averse to single guys but it DOES quickly get to a tipping point where the ratio of SMs just makes it pretty uncomfortable for Ms. Evil (and I suspect more than a few of the other ladies present)...especially if there are even just one or two 'bad actors' in the crowd (and there almost always are). :-([/quote]
I Agree, Dr.. Evil....
Sausage soup does suck!!!!
We are headed to the New Yorker for the first time tonight kinda excited and scared at the same time
Anyone staying at the perry hotel and headed to the New Yorker tonight
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
Anyone staying at the perry hotel and headed to the New Yorker tonight
We are.
We will see you sexies there
This is our first time going we are excited but nervous. What time does everyone show up? Any pointers for new people?
Promissiongrantd wrote:
This is our first time going we are excited but nervous. What time does everyone show up? Any pointers for new people?
New to us as well we have a guide thank god
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
New to us as well we have a guide thank god
A guide...? I had no idea..starting to feel way over our heads!
Promissiongrantd wrote:
A guide...? I had no idea..starting to feel way over our heads!
Look for us when you get there paisley pink shirt and she will be in a black cocktail dress
I've heard, dress to impress.. last Saturday was different, beach night.
I've heard, dress to impress.. last Saturday was different, beach night.
What time does it open
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
What time does it open
9pm
MANDIEQT wrote:
I've looked and still can't see anywhere Ross chimed in on the video taking at the club so I'm skipping for awhile. I'm still pretty pissed video was taken of the wet t-shirt contest. For a "consent" focused community it sure gets forgotten quickly.
Wife took part in the wet t-shirt contest and wasn't happy that others were filming it... also noticed that a lot of guys edged their way in front of the female spectators, that wasn't cool.
Is the New Yorker bring your own bottle?
Playfulcoupled wrote:
Yes you bring your own bottle and they have mixers at the bar. Be sure to tip your bartender!
but they have a bar there as well right?
Playfulcoupled wrote:
No alcohol…BYOB
OMG !!
LinzandCeejay wrote:
What time does the New Yorker close???
Like any other bar/club at SLC .. but unfortunately lol
Yes, it was a lot of fun!
Last night all couples maybe 3 or 4 single guys.
@Lacai I think it depends on the crowd. It can be different every weekend.
Went to the New Yorker last night and in my opinion it is not to the social standards discussed here. In previous messages it was stated “dress to impress”. It should have said “dress less to impress”.
This is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone here and even though everyone there was having fun, it was definitely not the crowd of people that we find attractive.
It is a lifestyle club no questions there but if you are looking to maintain a low profile then this is probably not the club for you.
This is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone here and even though everyone there was having fun, it was definitely not the crowd of people that we find attractive.
It is a lifestyle club no questions there but if you are looking to maintain a low profile then this is probably not the club for you.
Luvrs42 wrote:it all depends on the night. Any given night can bring a different crowd. Dress to impress is very subjective as well. For us it means a sexy cocktail dress (revealing) and slacks and shirt. We have gone several times and have seen some that dress with hardly anything to tuxedos (theme nights). We have found that theme nights seem to be being a bigger crowd which gives better variety. As for your comment about low profile, we would agree. New Yorker is not for low profile. Not sure if any club environment is conducive to that. We also find, it is much better to go with a couple you know and just enjoy the opportunity to mix/mingle freely. Sorry your experience wasn’t up to your expectations.
Went to the New Yorker last night and in my opinion it is not to the social standards discussed here. In previous messages it was stated “dress to impress”. It should have said “dress less to impress”.
This is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone here and even though everyone there was having fun, it was definitely not the crowd of people that we find attractive.
It is a lifestyle club no questions there but if you are looking to maintain a low profile then this is probably not the club for you.
“Dress to impress is very subjective as well. For us it means a sexy cocktail dress (revealing) and slacks and shirt. We have gone several times and have seen some that dress with hardly anything”.
That’s how we interpret “dress to impress” as well. But we seriously felt out of place and don’t think we will go again. Unfortunately, first impressions count high in our book. ☹️
That’s how we interpret “dress to impress” as well. But we seriously felt out of place and don’t think we will go again. Unfortunately, first impressions count high in our book. ☹️
Starlights wrote:Because it’s easy and consistent so if you have last minute availability you can jump over there and possibly meet some people. We have yet to met anyone from there but love dancing!Luvrs42 wrote:
Went to the New Yorker last night and in my opinion it is not to the social standards discussed here. In previous messages it was stated “dress to impress”. It should have said “dress less to impress”.
This is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone here and even though everyone there was having fun, it was definitely not the crowd of people that we find attractive.
It is a lifestyle club no questions there but if you are looking to maintain a low profile then this is probably not the club for you.
This is why we chose to host our own parties. We can screen who we choose to invite into our home, and we know who will be coming. No surprises.
It’s just difficult to get a group together that will actually show. We’d probably need to invite 50 couples to get 15 RSVPs, then have 7 couples that end up coming (which is a nice number btw). If a club is open to the public anyone can show up, even if they’re vanilla people looking to purchase a ticket to the zoo to see how the animals have fun. 🐒
As for our parties, we will likely not host anymore. It’s easier to get one couple to meet than it is to get 15 to follow through with their RSVPs… maybe if we charged a non refundable cover people would be more inclined to show 🤔
Back in the day there were always tons of summer parties, holiday parties, big events, parties for absolutely no reason… it makes me wonder what happened to all that, and why so many couples have to resort to Unspoken and New Yorker to meet people in a neutral setting.
If there are any couples out there hosting private parties on the low, send us a message. We always show if we commit.
Starlights wrote:Totally agree on parties. We will say unless we know someone going we are very unlikely to go because we’ve been “stuck” at house parties before. Makes it less awkward when you show up and leave 5 minutes later 😂. But we do like private parties and events for sure and can be better. You guys are an anomaly and great at screening guest!
I wasn’t questioning why people go to the clubs. I think we understand the appeal of New Yorker and Unspoken for some. We just wish there were more private parties with a cover or without. More options out there for us. We’d be more inclined to go to a private party because the likelihood of everyone in attendance being in the LS would almost be assured. We have literally heard of vanillas finding out about the LS clubs, and going just to see what swinger types look like. The people that are NOT in the LS are the ones we’re paranoid about (coworkers mostly) discovering that we’re perverts 😆
… and private parties have always been funner than any club imo. Talking to people while speakers blare isn’t conducive to good conversation 🤷🏽♂️
God to each there own it’s fun watching everyone self express. We had a good time and later had a better time. Make it what you want seriously this is not a science just part of the journey just enjoy and have fun!!!
As the female side, I found it gross, it smells like a bathroom all the way from the entrance to the sits. There were some good looking people and others minding their “own” at the dance floor but it was simply not the place for us and tbh., I don’t think it’ll be a place for us.
That good part of the negative things in the LS is that it teaches wonderful lessons and as professionals and discreet individuals, make us be more detailed in what we like and enjoy.
Great experience though (in a not sarcastic way).
That good part of the negative things in the LS is that it teaches wonderful lessons and as professionals and discreet individuals, make us be more detailed in what we like and enjoy.
Great experience though (in a not sarcastic way).
Where is the New Yorker? Im new to all this and in SLC
Starlights wrote:Luvrs42 wrote:
Went to the New Yorker last night and in my opinion it is not to the social standards discussed here. In previous messages it was stated “dress to impress”. It should have said “dress less to impress”.
This is my opinion and I am not trying to offend anyone here and even though everyone there was having fun, it was definitely not the crowd of people that we find attractive.
It is a lifestyle club no questions there but if you are looking to maintain a low profile then this is probably not the club for you.
This is why we chose to host our own parties. We can screen who we choose to invite into our home, and we know who will be coming. No surprises.
It’s just difficult to get a group together that will actually show. We’d probably need to invite 50 couples to get 15 RSVPs, then have 7 couples that end up coming (which is a nice number btw). If a club is open to the public anyone can show up, even if they’re vanilla people looking to purchase a ticket to the zoo to see how the animals have fun. 🐒
As for our parties, we will likely not host anymore. It’s easier to get one couple to meet than it is to get 15 to follow through with their RSVPs… maybe if we charged a non refundable cover people would be more inclined to show 🤔
Back in the day there were always tons of summer parties, holiday parties, big events, parties for absolutely no reason… it makes me wonder what happened to all that, and why so many couples have to resort to Unspoken and New Yorker to meet people in a neutral setting.
If there are any couples out there hosting private parties on the low, send us a message. We always show if we commit.
We got away from hosting bigger events at clubs and now host most of our parties at our house. We love hosting smaller and bigger events. Our last event we host had over 170 at our house. We enjoyed the new Yorker but for us it's generally only a couple times a year we will attend it.
Lol hi sexy. I will be happy to help you.
Who is going this Saturday 9/11? I'll be there
we will
I am going, bringing a female friend. I have been wanting to meet new lifestyle friends out here in Utah. I am looking forward to meeting some of you.
runmanand wrote:
I am going, bringing a female friend. I have been wanting to meet new lifestyle friends out here in Utah. I am looking forward to meeting some of you.
I will be excited to meet you.