I feel like this term is pretty open to interpretation, what does it mean to you?
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
We think!
Hot if it's a girl 
Lacai wrote:
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
I think you hit it right on the head pun intended
I think it's just being comfortable with just being yourself and being open to different sexual experience
Bi-comfortable to me means she’s just swinger-bi because her husband/guy wants her to be …. Which is way BORING lol. !
we feel the word comfy means just that. haley is bi i am str8 but we are comfy around bi sexually folks, I ( mike) don't have a problem be around a bi sexually man as long as there is a understanding that i am not interested in playing with the man but i am totally comfortable with his presents in a playing situation...
HOTOILER3006 wrote:
I feel like this term is pretty open to interpretation, what does it mean to you?
Lacai wrote:
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
100% agree
My wife has bi comfortable on some of the sites we are on. For her that means she is ok with kissing and moderate fondling, maybe even letting another woman go down on her. None of these actions get her off like a dick will. She has no inclination to reciprocate however when it comes to eating pussy. I am not bi but I am not threatened by playing with a couple where the guy is bi. So many things in the lifestyle are situational but everyone draws the line somewhere.
He pretty much nailed that right on the head. Lol
I'm heterosexual. I am however not uncomfortable around men or women that are bisexual, gay, transgender, pansexual, etcetera. So, I'm bi-comfortable in that respect. For me there has to be a woman or women involved for me to become sexually aroused. No matter how much I may like and respect and hold in high esteem a gay male friend, I would not feel comfortable having sex with him. I am not grossed out by the thought of it, I just wouldn't be aroused. My loss. Incidental penis to penis contact while involved sexually with a woman me and another man are sharing pleasure with does not bother me. People that can become aroused and enjoy sex with any gender or gender identity hold an advantage in what they can experience. Unfortunately, they suffer way too much discriminatory disadvantage and that is slowly changing, but the change needs to accelerate.
We have no problem hooking up with couples with a bisexual husband or single men that are bisexual, and frankly we have been there a done that a number of times. Never have we felt these guys tried to push past any of my our preference boundaries.
We have no problem hooking up with couples with a bisexual husband or single men that are bisexual, and frankly we have been there a done that a number of times. Never have we felt these guys tried to push past any of my our preference boundaries.
Lacai wrote:
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
I think this is pretty much spot on. I don't think I've ever been attracted to another man, so I wouldn't consider myself Bi. But I don't mind playing with them in a group setting. Sex is sex and sex is fun! As long as it feels good and everyone is comfortable, why not enjoy it?
This is a great topic. I think folks' definition varies a lot and without some talking beforehand expectations may not be met. Personally I like Lacai's definition and think it is close to mine, but even so with a few wrinkles on my end. I don't know about absolutely no attraction to the same sex, but definitely not enough attraction to make me desire sex men or seek them out by themselves. I am comfortable with certain acts with couples or mixed groups, meaning I am often open to touching or being touched, possibly masturbation and receiving oral. For me it needs to be in the context of a couple or group meet. Sometimes there are hard feelings because I have no interest in meeting a husband or boyfriend separate from his wife or girlfriend or for one on one generally even though I have described myself as "bi-comfortable". There is some thrill in feeling my cock obsesses some men in cuckolding situations, but I think that thrill is primarily a sense of dominance rather than an attraction to the touching or oral proffered, per se. On the flip side,I suspect in a lot of cases other men's interest in my sexuality is not really purely "bi-sexual" but often an offshoot of the complex feelings a husband entertains when he wants or is comfortable with another guy being intimate with his partner, or a general tendency of guys to fetishize some cocks. Not always, of course, but oftentimes. Bottom line, always important to make sure everyone is on the same page going into a meeting, at least as to what everyone's boundaries are.
Well when your wife gets a girlfriend that's as hot as her and asks to play with her on the side, I think she's crossed that line into fully bi, which is as you put it.... WAY more fun!
For me it means that I don't really crave it, or get very turned on by the idea, but I am happy to participate. The flip side of not being a turn on is that it is not a turn off. It could also be defined as "not homophobic". LOL
Lacai wrote:
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
I think that covers the term pretty well. I have been in a couple situations, where the size of the other guy held a certain fascination, and enjoyed guiding him into her, and might have held it a moment longer than necessary... as a reafFIRMING gesture..lol
For me ...bi comfortable is the same as bi friendly ... it many times seems to mean = I'm bi sexual but I don't want to come right out and say I'm bi sexual ... or, I'm new with my bi sexuality interests and I'm testing the waters. So many meanings, so little time ~ ~ ~
Lots of great comments on this thread. I appreciate the different points of view, especially the definition Lacai gave.
One thing I've noticed is that there are a number of women who are, in my opinion, bi who note themselves as bi comfortable and I wonder if that's because they don't really want to admit it or proclaim it.
One thing I've noticed is that there are a number of women who are, in my opinion, bi who note themselves as bi comfortable and I wonder if that's because they don't really want to admit it or proclaim it.
Bi-comfortable or bi-fun as we call it is women that only will perform acts with a little bit (or a lot?) Of alcoholic lubrication. If my wife is going down on someone or making out its because she wants it. Not because I think its hot (but of course there is that benefit).
IMHO, The bi-comfortable definition is a hard one as a unicorn since most couples are looking for fully bi unicorn. I’m comfortable being an above the waist lesbian but that’s as comfortable as I get. Most couples say that’s ok but then want me to go down on the female or want her to go down on me. So it’s actually a super important conversation to define in the getting to know you stage.
For me it means I'm bi in certain specific ways. Oral mostly and cocks rubbing together. I wouldn't put that I am bi on a profile because I'm not as attracted to men, don't want to touch them all over, make out or do anal. But love DVP, cocks rubbing together, giving oral to female while male is inside her, giving head, and am fine with them sucking me together especially if I am eating her at the same time. There is a lot you can do if you are fine with cocks touching.
SLCTLC wrote:
For me it means I'm bi in certain specific ways. Oral mostly and cocks rubbing together. I wouldn't put that I am bi on a profile because I'm not as attracted to men, don't want to touch them all over, make out or do anal. But love DVP, cocks rubbing together, giving oral to female while male is inside her, giving head, and am fine with them sucking me together especially if I am eating her at the same time. There is a lot you can do if you are fine with cocks touching.
And what if you are only bi for huge cock, and have a hidden talent?,,,lol
SLOWHAND311 wrote:SLCTLC wrote:
For me it means I'm bi in certain specific ways. Oral mostly and cocks rubbing together. I wouldn't put that I am bi on a profile because I'm not as attracted to men, don't want to touch them all over, make out or do anal. But love DVP, cocks rubbing together, giving oral to female while male is inside her, giving head, and am fine with them sucking me together especially if I am eating her at the same time. There is a lot you can do if you are fine with cocks touching.
And what if you are only bi for huge cock, and have a hidden talent?,,,lol
An even more specific kind of bi. lol. We need even more specific labels to be accurate. For me, big is highly preferred.
For us, being bisexual implies that one is okay with a full blown relationship with males or females, where as bi-comfortable is being okay with certain sexual acts (what sexual acts one is comfortable with varies from person to person) with either sex. I know a lot of people are against kissing, especially bi-comfortable males, but with us, even that may be okay depending on the situation. I don't consider myself bisexual, because I would not be able to be in a committed relationship with a female, but sexually, I'm just as comfortable with females as males. The same I'd true in reverse for my husband.
Thoroughly enjoying this topic. 
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
I'm heterosexual. I am however not uncomfortable around men or women that are bisexual, gay, transgender, pansexual, etcetera. So, I'm bi-comfortable in that respect. For me there has to be a woman or women involved for me to become sexually aroused. No matter how much I may like and respect and hold in high esteem a gay male friend, I would not feel comfortable having sex with him. I am not grossed out by the thought of it, I just wouldn't be aroused. My loss. Incidental penis to penis contact while involved sexually with a woman me and another man are sharing pleasure with does not bother me. People that can become aroused and enjoy sex with any gender or gender identity hold an advantage in what they can experience. Unfortunately, they suffer way too much discriminatory disadvantage and that is slowly changing, but the change needs to accelerate.
We have no problem hooking up with couples with a bisexual husband or single men that are bisexual, and frankly we have been there a done that a number of times. Never have we felt these guys tried to push past any of my our preference boundaries.
Well said, support everyone's lifestyle with out downing anyone for what they like.
We agree with Lacai completely! Very well said!
Lacai wrote:
Our interpretation is one who has no attraction to the same sex whatsoever but does not mind performing certain sexual acts in a group setting.. this could mean touching, masturbating and oral…receiving or giving based on comfort level. For Men, it will always mean absolutely no kissing.
We think!
Wrong. (M here) I'm not sexually attracted to men but have no issues with kissing or blowing a guy. It's not what gets my jimmies rustling but esp. if it's with a guy I otherwise admire/like I enjoy giving. I consider myself bi-comfortable.
Agree, the conversation need to be had pre bed room. Same goes to the level of play and or couple engagement.
After reading this I would say I'm very bicomfortable. The wife is probably more lesbian than anything😂
A lot of different points of view, it's great that there are different opinions. So I will add my "two cents" to this subject (male half here). I have always viewed bi-comfortable as: a male or female that is good with being close to the same sex and incidental contact, from a bi or bi-courious individual. This can be during sex or vanilla activities. Basically not freaked out or judgmental about their sexuality. Bi-courious to me is someone who would like some sex contact, whether that be touching, kissing, oral, or penetration (this can be defined in several different ways). It may be a one time thing, or a exploration situation. To me bi is an individual that enjoys the same sex during certain situations. But still enjoys and prefers the opposite sex. Anywho, my view on it.
Bi Comfortable means different things to different people so you can’t really go off of what others say it’s what you’re comfortable with or what the other person is comfortable with
Bi Comfortable means different things to different people it means what you are comfortable with and watch somebody else is comfortable with that is what it means