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Who actually wears the black ring on their right hand? We do.
Hi, can you tell us what that means please? We are kind of new to this. We have had some experiences in the past, but took a ten year break. 😁
Yup, we both west ours loud and proud!
I love seeing them!
Yes when we are out on the town. Right hand ring finger
We finally found some that we liked. We will wear them when out of town. We are curious about other's thoughts.
Does it have to be all black or silver with a black stone???
DsGFunHappycpl wrote:

We finally found some that we liked. We will wear them when out of town. We are curious about other's thoughts.
Does it have to be all black or silver with a black stone???


Mine was black for about a year and now it’s silver. My wife decided to go cheap on Wish via China. We do wear it on our right ring finger and when asked by vanillas why we tell them its European… my wife is Russian.
Is the black ring well known in LS groups, we are new to LS and have not heard or noticed.
Gunthercouple wrote:

Is the black ring well known in LS groups, we are new to LS and have not heard or noticed.


Not as frequently as you might think. You probably see it on swingers that have been active for awhile. You see a couple with black rings on the right hand and they probably have some good stories to tell.
We wear ours regularly but have only noticed others wearing them at events and parties it would be nice if more people more than daily so we could recognize each other and say hello
My wife wears one quite often.
SKICOUPLE wrote:

Gunthercouple wrote:

Is the black ring well known in LS groups, we are new to LS and have not heard or noticed.

Not as frequently as you might think. You probably see it on swingers that have been active for awhile. You see a couple with black rings on the right hand and they probably have some good stories to tell.


over 20 yrs playing with couples and girls, never wore anything like that

we figure being on swinger sites and attending swinger events with my wife wearing her sexy little dresses sends clear clues

plus if we are in public we would find it very creepy to be asked about the LS by total strangers

unless they hot lol
When you see the black ring, give it a compliment. If you’re lucky, it might be the easiest conversation starter in the LS world—unless it’s a smart ring. Lol.
Yes ... I do from time to time ~
Yup we both do. She wears hers even to work.
How often do people say something or just nod and smile when you're wearing the ring?
Over 20 yrs playing with couples and girls, never wore anything like that
we figure being on swinger sites and attending swinger events with my wife wearing her sexy little dresses sends clear clues
plus if we are in public we would find it very creepy to be asked about the LS by total strangers
unless they hot lol[/quote]

This! Not everyone wants to publicly (even if subtle) broadcast, much less be approached in public/everyday real world.
If it was you (the gentleman, by the way, not anyone in this thread) who offered me your black ring yesterday at the gym after I complimented it—FYI, I’m the massageBBCguy. LOL. And if you’re reading this, just know I like you guys.
We wear ours. However, black wedding bands are in right now so you have to check that it's on the correct (right) hand. Or it could get awkward.
We both switched over to black rings on our wedding fingers years ago.
RANDOMFUN321 wrote:

Over 20 yrs playing with couples and girls, never wore anything like that
we figure being on swinger sites and attending swinger events with my wife wearing her sexy little dresses sends clear clues
plus if we are in public we would find it very creepy to be asked about the LS by total strangers
unless they hot lol

This! Not everyone wants to publicly (even if subtle) broadcast, much less be approached in public/everyday real world.[/quote]

That’s the beautiful thing about the ring, or upside down pineapple, or a tattoo that says “Swinger”. You can choose to engage the person wearing it or not. If you don’t want to “advertise” you don’t have to.

For those that wear it, good for you! Let your colors fly!

For those that want a little more discretion, good for you, keeping your low profile! I hope all your play partners understand this need for you!