We really try to make it a point to answer every email we get. It's what we would want when we write someone.
But our profile specifically states NO SINGLE MEN. Yet we continue to get emails from single men and when we write back and politely say we're not interested we get some of the uglist emails back.
So from now on we delete them. Better yet - I should just publish the ugly responses so everyone else knows what a dickweed some of you can be. NOW - this doesn't mean all single guys are this way - BUT the few who are are runing for the rest of you.
Of course - we welcome email from all couples and single women
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But our profile specifically states NO SINGLE MEN. Yet we continue to get emails from single men and when we write back and politely say we're not interested we get some of the uglist emails back.
So from now on we delete them. Better yet - I should just publish the ugly responses so everyone else knows what a dickweed some of you can be. NOW - this doesn't mean all single guys are this way - BUT the few who are are runing for the rest of you.
Of course - we welcome email from all couples and single women
!!I would post it...We do entertain single men...And it would assist those of us who do to weed our those who do not deserve the beauty that is sharing....
Just HIS opinion....
Just HIS opinion....
OH GOD...here we go with the single men thing again!!!! Come one get over them already! BLOCK THEM if you dont wanna hear from single men. You can do this on your Profile settings for those of you who dont know that. Dont mean to sound crude, rude or inconsiderate but the single men threads are really getting old.
And with that last reply - we'll not post again. We didn't know about the single male block option.
No offense to you. There is an option for you to block them if you are not interested in receiving emails from them. It can be a wonderful thing if you dont want them contacting you. GOOD LUCK!!!
I guess I'm a lesbian: *I* don't want to hear from single men, either.
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I am a lesbian and have the certification to prove it. I am, however, not a single man...And we don't want singles to send mail to us but when it happens we are very nice and let them know when they find a partner contact us again... We really don't get that many single men contacting us anyway....
"But our profile specifically states NO SINGLE MEN. Yet we continue to get emails from single men" That's totally amazing,
We have been on this website since the day it was born and we have NEVER received an e-mail from a single guy? Let me assume this is the male posting? (You can't follow directions either can you honey)
XPLORR94248.. that's funny shit... you rock.
We have been on this website since the day it was born and we have NEVER received an e-mail from a single guy? Let me assume this is the male posting? (You can't follow directions either can you honey)
XPLORR94248.. that's funny shit... you rock.
well as a single guy and an adult i have better things to do than be rude (must be young guys that are doing that) and to those that i message if i get a responce that says not interested(hay as many single guys that are out there be lucky you get a responce even if there looking for a single guy) thats cool and i thank them for responding(guys dont burn your bridges you never know if you will run into thease people youve been rude to at a party or better yet if thay deside to look for a single guy guess who there not going to message ) well just wanted everyone to know that there are single guys that arent rude have a good day(or night depending ) everyone
"There is one thing about the whole block single males thing: Say I wanted to ask a question, or just make idle conversation"
If you e-mail a single male and then add him your friends list the block for THAT PERSON is disabled.
I tested the system on BEARD and it works perfectly.
If you e-mail a single male and then add him your friends list the block for THAT PERSON is disabled.
I tested the system on BEARD and it works perfectly.
AND BEARD is the best...He is the absolute epidemy (sp?) of gentleman....Truly a gem....
BUt I am with you other two...I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body...
Jim (as if she would write that?)
BUt I am with you other two...I am a lesbian trapped in a man's body...
Jim (as if she would write that?)
Valenceparadigm, Not transgendered at all... Not ever transvestite. Very much a male gender but a lesbian.... definitely. Been a male since birth and married for......... Ouch..... 37 years. The ouch is not because of any problems with this marriage but that I've realized that I'm not as young as I once was. The oral test was a Bitch but I passed by the skin of my teeth. Proficiency should not be sneezed at.... See how you single men mock things...LOL Transgendered..... Never happen.... They can't make fake old floppy boobs anyway.LOL
Ray
Ray
Hello,
Dreaded single male here. While I don't have a Lesbian Diploma, I do believe in Karma, and am trying to live a good existence on earth today so that I can come back as a lesbian in my next life. Then I can play with TANBIHOTTIE and Mrs H.
Istan
PS. Mrs. H, when's the Grand Opening so we (i.e. Dreaded Single Males) can see the recent renovations
Dreaded single male here. While I don't have a Lesbian Diploma, I do believe in Karma, and am trying to live a good existence on earth today so that I can come back as a lesbian in my next life. Then I can play with TANBIHOTTIE and Mrs H.
Istan
PS. Mrs. H, when's the Grand Opening so we (i.e. Dreaded Single Males) can see the recent renovations
I just add to add this.
I read all about people slaming on the single males in the life style. Some say it is "swinging", meaning "couples" and single men should leave.
I want to know. Why does no one bitch about single females on here, they are not "couples".
If single males should go, so should single females.
I read all about people slaming on the single males in the life style. Some say it is "swinging", meaning "couples" and single men should leave.
I want to know. Why does no one bitch about single females on here, they are not "couples".
If single males should go, so should single females.
Its sad when single men can't read profiles. They should never get defensive to start with if they received an email being polite saying: " Sorry but we are not interested".
First of all i dont understand why single males even make contact with profiles that say: NO SINGLE MALES".....come on its simple and direct.... Kinda sucks because behavior like that its why couple place such statements on the profile. They have to know that single men come a dime a dozen...... and they are not GOD"S gift to thr world...its the women.
Nelson
First of all i dont understand why single males even make contact with profiles that say: NO SINGLE MALES".....come on its simple and direct.... Kinda sucks because behavior like that its why couple place such statements on the profile. They have to know that single men come a dime a dozen...... and they are not GOD"S gift to thr world...its the women.
Nelson
So many of you know me by know i have been on this website since almost day 1 ( on another screen name tho) and i always answer people back whether im interested or not
I just dont understand singles on here it is for couples!! singles should go out and find someone then come on here.
Good point VAL, and how many have single male too? The lifestyle is for couples, single males and single females. To each their own, everyone has different tastes so let them. Don't attack or denegrate someone because their wants, desires or opinion is different that yours right?
We have Str8 female and Str8 male on our profile. Just how many emails do you think we get from Bi single females wanting to get with me (female here), couples with bi female asking or to get with the female or bi males asking to get with the male, or bi males asking to get with the male.
People write in hopes that THEY are the exception to the rule. They are human they make mistakes CHILL......
We politely let them know we are not interested in same sex interaction.
And we have found its alllllllllll ages who can be rude, so age is not an excuse. Some people will be rude and crude no matter what.
Just my 2 cents.
We have Str8 female and Str8 male on our profile. Just how many emails do you think we get from Bi single females wanting to get with me (female here), couples with bi female asking or to get with the female or bi males asking to get with the male, or bi males asking to get with the male.
People write in hopes that THEY are the exception to the rule. They are human they make mistakes CHILL......
We politely let them know we are not interested in same sex interaction.
And we have found its alllllllllll ages who can be rude, so age is not an excuse. Some people will be rude and crude no matter what.
Just my 2 cents.
lol uriah, good for you. I also had a couple contact me once and singles were blocked so I couldn't reply! wtf lmao val, kiss kiss uluv, don't even start turnin this on the single females, i'll spank you so hard, you'll scream for your momma! lol
How else are single guys supposed to met girls into the lyfe style? It's simple you know single girls and they are looking for a guy into the life style. But, because you won't talk to single guys those girls are never going to meet us. Wich basicaly makes you a polygimist not a swinger. Granted there are some assholes out there. But you know some of those assholes have wives or girlfriends. The only time you have trouble with a single guy is when he is using drugs.
How else are single guys supposed to met girls into the lyfe style? It's simple you know single girls and they are looking for a guy into the life style. But, because you won't talk to single guys those girls are never going to meet us. Wich basicaly makes you a polygimist not a swinger. Granted there are some assholes out there. But you know some of those assholes have wives or girlfriends. The only time you have trouble with a single guy is when he is using drugs.
OK here's another post from another "Narwhal" (single male vs. "unicorn" single female) Valance I think you coined the moniker in another post and hope it sticks because it's comparative nature of desirability even with a 10 ft. pole. I really don't understand couples attempt for the exclussion of single males as not being"swingers" without also excluding the single females as swingers with statments like "stay out of the clubs, your not swingers"or" get a woman first" This is a lifestyle not an exclusive club and there are all types and interests. I admit there are many rude crude and impolite males out there but there are also the same in the couples and single women catagories too. What are my odds of finding a woman into and interested in similar sexual activities in a regular bar or dating site? I'm here mainly for the social aspect(and yes maybe sex!). My reasoning being if one can be open and honest about sex they can and usually are more honest about all other things and this has been a general experience with most of the people I have met. Yes there's sometimes drama .(90% of the time it's either insecurity or honesty related and you'll see me headed the other way..lol) but for the most part I have found all of you folks to be great to be around. I don't ever expect any replies to any email contcts I initiate or receive any initial contact,the good old days of letters of introduction and subsequent curtious replies are regretfuly long gone. The internet just makes it easier to ignore or not acknowledge someone. Wouldn't it be nice if everyone replied without fearing nasty rebukes for rejection issues? The single males are just looking for their needs and desires to be fulfilled just like all of you and don't deserve to be bashed for being single. Being rude, vulgar,overly aggressive or impolite is a different matter. All in all I say have fun and play nice no mater what your preferences are.
Slowhand makes a couple of good points.
1-This is a lifestyle not an exclusive club and there are all types and interests.
I can almost hear SOME couples saying It's like I've got mine, too bad you don't have yours."
And I kind of understand the attitude. What do single men have to offer? Seems like stereotyping, but understandable. I'm not mad at ya.
Another poster made the point that maybe you couples could intro us to other single women in the lifestyle. Dopey me, everyone wants that unicorn for themselves.
2- Being rude, vulgar,overly aggressive or impolite is a different matter. All in all I say have fun and play nice no mater what your preferences are.
Couples, just remember that just because a few of us are asses, doesn't mean all of us are asses. Hell, I've had bad experiences with couples, but I still love hanging out with ya'll. I just choose not to hang with specific ones.
1-This is a lifestyle not an exclusive club and there are all types and interests.
I can almost hear SOME couples saying It's like I've got mine, too bad you don't have yours."
And I kind of understand the attitude. What do single men have to offer? Seems like stereotyping, but understandable. I'm not mad at ya.
Another poster made the point that maybe you couples could intro us to other single women in the lifestyle. Dopey me, everyone wants that unicorn for themselves.
2- Being rude, vulgar,overly aggressive or impolite is a different matter. All in all I say have fun and play nice no mater what your preferences are.
Couples, just remember that just because a few of us are asses, doesn't mean all of us are asses. Hell, I've had bad experiences with couples, but I still love hanging out with ya'll. I just choose not to hang with specific ones.
Ok I'll probably catch flack for this, butttttttttt.
A married male is only a divorce away from being that dreaded single male.
So lighten up people. LOL
A married male is only a divorce away from being that dreaded single male.
So lighten up people. LOL
we honestly dont understand what all the single male fuss is about i mean there are rude people period .. couples , single males , and even that elusive single bi-female .. there are just gonna be rude people no matter where you go or what you do .. we play with all of these .. and we have learned to ignore those we dont want to hear or hear from .. i mean we all have prefrences on what we want so why cant we all just get along and respect each other for what we are seeking ? and we are not trying to be smart asses or anything but come on isn't that what this is all about ? haveing fun fulfilling our fantasies .. and makeing friends .
i mean if we are wrong please let us know .. again not trying to be smart asses just our thoughts
i mean if we are wrong please let us know .. again not trying to be smart asses just our thoughts
BRAVO SEXTRA Took the words right out of my mouth!
I have to agree with most comments made in this post. Unfortunately for us single guys, it's a numbers game. The demand for a single woman especially a bi one is high in this lifestyle because they fulfill the needs of single men, couples, and other single bi-women whereas most single guys can't. I don't let the "no single men" posts bother me. I admire the pictures of the lovely women and move on. 
Someone made a comment in another post that if it wasn't for single men, sites like these, and many swing clubs probably wouldn't exist because we are the majority of the paying members that keep these clubs running. So that's something else to think about.
Someone made a comment in another post that if it wasn't for single men, sites like these, and many swing clubs probably wouldn't exist because we are the majority of the paying members that keep these clubs running. So that's something else to think about.Too true DON... Too true...