To any and all single men and women on this site. As well as some impatient couples. There seems to be a misunderstanding. I just ended conversations with an .. lets say overly aggressive single female on here. We were already seeing issues with just our normal conversations with her but then she got mad that my wife wasnt responding as frequently as SHE'D like. When planing and talking to a couple you need to understand that were fucking busy most of the time. We have kids, Jobs, responsibilities and plans that were actively engaged in. Were not living a carefree single life. So attacking my wife and claiming you'd "steal" me away or that id cheat behind her back is not only not ok it makes it really fucking clear you have no understanding of this lifestyle at all. Were not playing separately or inviting you into our bed for your benefit. Its a mutual agreement that we as a couple make with you as a single person. Meaning me and her are 100% together on this. And if your gonna suggest that wed go behind the others back is insulting.
To any swinger couples keep an eye out for
Vcelizabeth. Shes the one that caused this rant. She claims she has been in the lifestyle for while but has no concept of respect
To any swinger couples keep an eye out for
Vcelizabeth. Shes the one that caused this rant. She claims she has been in the lifestyle for while but has no concept of respect
Before I even got to the bottom of this post, I assumed that I knew who you were talking about… turns out, I’m right!
Saw that one from a mile away…
Like how it cuts off right as shes about to insult my wife... lol. And yes my wife doesn't really use snap chat in fact neither do i. It was at her insisting. And turns out my wife was doing none of that. She was on a call trying to get her cracked windshield fixed. And to be feank she had some reservations about you since you tried to make it clear we were supposed to cater to you. The single carefree one..
Coo Koo!
Same experience.
Same experience.
We also have lives. Your right it is a bad fit but your also overly aggressive and went out of your way to insult my wife. You can get bent
And oddly enough it looks like you were with this with other couples in the lifestyle which tells me you have no understanding of THE Lifestyle.
No i wont delete this. Its very telling that other couples have had a similar issue with you. At some point you should understand its not couples. Its you. This is a swinger site. Not a singles site. Theres plenty of those for you to play on. Next time have a little respect and dont insult the wife.
Real class act and very mature.
uh o somebody has anger issues
uh o somebody has anger issues
Right? We hardly use snap as it is. So her demanding all this shit is a joke.
Ya ya poor you... i was happy to just block you and call it good but you insulted my wife. I couldnt give a fuck less if i go down for "starting" drama. You dont get to talk about the mother of my children like that and NOT have me put you on blast. What i didn't expect was to hear that your l
This aweful with most couples.
This aweful with most couples.
Your just mad that your bad behavior is on blast.
👋🏻Bye!
On a swingers site... yea nice. Really classy there.
Just look at who posts booty calls EVERY SINGLE DAY. Once in a while, great. EVERY SINGLE DAY?
MavenBWC wrote:
Just look at who posts booty calls EVERY SINGLE DAY. Once in a while, great. EVERY SINGLE DAY?
And who removes their booty calls when the focus is on...
No she fucking deleted her profile lol
Wowzers.... what a hill of shit to flameout on. 🤦♀️✌
We got the same vibe and stopped talking to her... Very aggressive while saying she was super chill. Wife said idk she feels reel aggressive and pushy.
We had a video chat with her she seemed nice but there was something just not quite right. Something off that made us not persue it after that video chat. She was ver nice but very aggressive and pushy, it was an instant red flag for us so we stop communicating with her right after.
Yeah. Seems to be her modus operandi. She happened to be in a larger group chat that my wife and I were in. Specifically reached out to me while she was at work. Asked for nudes including our face. Then blocked me when I told her she’d have to wait until my wife got off and decided for herself.
Seriously, if she hadn’t been verified by someone I trusted, I would’ve assumed she was a catfish.
Seriously, if she hadn’t been verified by someone I trusted, I would’ve assumed she was a catfish.
Aw man, ya take a few hours off from the site and what happens?...ya miss a good implosion. This kind of thing is morbidly fascinating to me. I always wonder what must be going on in someone's life for them to completely lose their shit and commit the swinging equivalent of 'suicide by cop' on a site where you're ostensibly trying to impress people enough to get them to take their clothes off and have sex with you. I don't know if they're just having a REALLY bad day and decide to take it out on a bunch of strangers who just happen to fuck each other as a hobby or if they were always just a little (or a lot!) crazy and they just couldn't camouflage it any longer. *shrug*
This is the proof to the rule of trust your gut, every single time. Saw the profile around considered sending a message but saw the thirst desperation and thought better of it... Looks like having a gut finally paid off for me lol.
Props to Naughtytooelecpl for putting this on blast, this type of person was sure to cause some damage if you didn't.
-mr lava
Props to Naughtytooelecpl for putting this on blast, this type of person was sure to cause some damage if you didn't.
-mr lava
I m up for the party if you accept si hole guys!
We had the same experience with this one!!! Pushy AF!
braziliangod21 wrote:
I m up for the party if you accept si hole guys!
Dude, read the thread. Don’t be the next addition to the discussion.
Maleficient wrote:
As a single woman I was drawn to this call out. Good thing you aren’t painting all of us single women with the same brush 👌
Everyone is unique. Kind of the point of the LS. We all get to make our own reputation. Good or bad.
MrandMrsSexyKats wrote:
This is the problem with single anything on a swingers site...you demonstrate your one track selfish motivation...it isn’t a thread about hooking up it’s about informing the community about a problem..and you hijack it...what a fucking idiot...
Why are you being so aggressive towards people who aren't doing anything to you?
Watching…
MrandMrsSexyKats wrote:
It’s endemic of the topic being discussed...if you can’t understand the context then the importance of being aware of folks in the community that are potentially a liability is lost on you...
The thread was about aggressive and disrespectful people, just cause you aren't single doesn't mean you're not one of the liabilities people need to be aware of.
She sent us…. I dont know…. Like 20 messages “hey how are you?”… that we never responded to. At least single males take the hint and stop trying to bark up that tree after so many unanswered messages.
After the 21st we said flat out “not interested” and that was that. Thank goodness we didn’t engage her in any interaction!
After the 21st we said flat out “not interested” and that was that. Thank goodness we didn’t engage her in any interaction!
Naughtytooelecpl wrote:Thank goodness for that !
No she fucking deleted her profile lol
braziliangod21 wrote:
I m up for the party if you accept si hole guys!
But for reals dude, get the underage freaking minors off your profile picture. That's nasty and wildly inappropriate for a site like this.
We had the same issue. Figured before we even got to the end
MANDIEQT wrote:
But for reals dude, get the underage freaking minors off your profile picture. That's nasty and wildly inappropriate for a site like this.
I mean it’s pretty obvious that he read the title to the post and just commented thinking it was a party invite. Pretty much the kind of guy that doesn’t read profiles. 🤷♂️
So not to be misread. Were ok with singles, its the aggressive self entitled jackasses we have a problem with. Weve been with and mad plenry of friends on here who are single and really chill and awesome. We've met some bad ones too as this case points out. And the same goes for couples. Like i told her i was happy to drop it as a bad match up till she decided to insult my wife. For me thats a crossed line. And id put anyone on blast for that as i feel that goes against what we all have as personal taboos for swinging. Btw she tried to contact my wife and apologize and "start again" only for her to lose her shit because my three year old got a hold of the phone and not knowing what she was doing accidentally screenshot the convo. She freaked out all over again calling my wife a liar.... if she only knew. My wife isn't that type of person at all and the most chilled woman ive ever met. But this should be a lesson to anyone who acts like this whether your a couple or single. If we all show each other respect, especially when things turn out that were not a good match, it will make things a lot better and way more chill on here.
Also this is done on my phone so sorry about the spelling errors
Naughtytooelecpl wrote:
To any and all single men and women on this site. As well as some impatient couples. There seems to be a misunderstanding. I just ended conversations with an .. lets say overly aggressive single female on here. We were already seeing issues with just our normal conversations with her but then she got mad that my wife wasnt responding as frequently as SHE'D like. When planing and talking to a couple you need to understand that were fucking busy most of the time. We have kids, Jobs, responsibilities and plans that were actively engaged in. Were not living a carefree single life. So attacking my wife and claiming you'd "steal" me away or that id cheat behind her back is not only not ok it makes it really fucking clear you have no understanding of this lifestyle at all. Were not playing separately or inviting you into our bed for your benefit. Its a mutual agreement that we as a couple make with you as a single person. Meaning me and her are 100% together on this. And if your gonna suggest that wed go behind the others back is insulting.
To any swinger couples keep an eye out for
Vcelizabeth. Shes the one that caused this rant. She claims she has been in the lifestyle for while but has no concept of respect
Singles in the lifestyle are worthless for the most part. Single males, well, we all know what the deal is with them. Females are way better but seems like half of them have some issues such as acting entitled or are batshit crazy. So, we rarely pursue single females unless they contact us first. Couples belong with couples. Think about this for a moment, singles are in this for themselves, couples are in this for each other. And, if a single person is such a people person, such a great guy, quite the catch, such a hot lover, yadda, yadda... then why is he single?? Think about that.
She reached out to us 3-4 times too. My wife has been super busy lately and hasn't been on this site much so I tell her about who contacts us who she might like. I didn't tell her about this one because she seemed way too desperate and pushy. My gut reaction was to treat her like poison ivy. Happy I did.
We had no correspondence with the woman in question but are very curious: Was she the young Latina woman in her ~early 20s who had posted in a few different threads the last few weeks?
Canvas wrote:
We had no correspondence with the woman in question but are very curious: Was she the young Latina woman in her ~early 20s who had posted in a few different threads the last few weeks?
Yes she was and she was all over encounters. Bragging about largest parties with security. Honestly she contacted us as well and I told her we weren’t interested but I saw it coming just like so many new singles to the site that think we will all jump right in bed because we are in the lifestyle. They usually only last a few months before they get called out so many times and move on. Bye bye now 👋
I think most people in the lifestyle are looking for some sort of connection and the best encounters we have had have turned into friendships where we actually enjoy doing normal vanilla things together that sometimes turn into spontaneous play time.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Aw man, ya take a few hours off from the site and what happens?...ya miss a good implosion. This kind of thing is morbidly fascinating to me. I always wonder what must be going on in someone's life for them to completely lose their shit and commit the swinging equivalent of 'suicide by cop' on a site where you're ostensibly trying to impress people enough to get them to take their clothes off and have sex with you. I don't know if they're just having a REALLY bad day and decide to take it out on a bunch of strangers who just happen to fuck each other as a hobby or if they were always just a little (or a lot!) crazy and they just couldn't camouflage it any longer. *shrug*
Right? We’ve been a little tied up with vanilla life this week. Then we log on and see this…. And let’s face it, we’re all a little crazy,
Hello I figured I would share a small experience with this woman. I (the female) was happy to use Telegram because I wanted the single female to feel comfortable. Using Telegram was the best decision because when the time came to remove her from our lives all it took was one swipe. I deleted her from the group chat and she now has no access to any videos/ photos that she has sent or that we have sent. We had a lot of the same issues as other people.
I have issues with that person to she nsult my girlfriend and told us a lot of shit be careful with that person
Love2watchandplay wrote:
Hello I figured I would share a small experience with this woman. I (the female) was happy to use Telegram because I wanted the single female to feel comfortable. Using Telegram was the best decision because when the time came to remove her from our lives all it took was one swipe. I deleted her from the group chat and she now has no access to any videos/ photos that she has sent or that we have sent. We had a lot of the same issues as other people.
Gonna hijack your comment for a second and point out that this is the biggest perk to using Telegram. That and it just works.
We had the same experience with her as well.
To those playing at home, please don't categorize all singles because of the acts of a few. I know, bad apple arguments. But sheesh, this one was OUT THERE!
There are quite a few singles we will vouch for here, even some in this thread. There are several couples we will not vouch for here as well (even in this thread). Bottom line, you CAN’T categorize all people EVER, because they are a certain subset of the lifestyle. There are plenty of cool, sexy couples snd singles here. Your individual preference does not define everyone, nor does ours.
There are people we do and do not get along with, here and in “real life”. If you choose to have blinders on to any group, that is your failing, not theirs.
There are people we do and do not get along with, here and in “real life”. If you choose to have blinders on to any group, that is your failing, not theirs.
Luvs2Travel wrote:
There are quite a few singles we will vouch for here, even some in this thread. There are several couples we will not vouch for here as well (even in this thread). Bottom line, you CAN’T categorize all people EVER, because they are a certain subset of the lifestyle. There are plenty of cool, sexy couples snd singles here. Your individual preference does not define everyone, nor does ours.
There are people we do and do not get along with, here and in “real life”. If you choose to have blinders on to any group, that is your failing, not theirs.
Well said!! Couldn't agree more
We had the same encounter with her. I noticed someone said she deleted her profile? I hope so.
Yes I think she's gone finally hope so, sounds like everyone had different encounters with that individual.
We also had the same experience with her. She needs some serious mental help.
Yikes. The couple struggle continues. Sorry guys. Not all of us are insane promise.
We thought we were the only ones, that we went through this same drama of hers. but she's glad a couple had the guts to say what she does to couples. We always reserve bad things, but she dared to speak ill of us to other people for the same situations as you.
Maleficient wrote:
As a single woman I was drawn to this call out. Good thing you aren’t painting all of us single women with the same brush 👌
We know that not all single women are like her, but as I always say, attitude speaks for ourselves. singles are always welcome.
SwingersInZion wrote:Agreed. Seems every time there is a new single female posting constantly and looking, there is something more to the story.
I’m gonna be honest, I’m shocked at how many people on this site took the bait, I’m also glad y’all did, it’s been very entertaining 😃
I think we should have a contest in her memory. Whoever posts the best Mean Girls meme wins a fun-filled evening with her. On your mark, get set...GO!
Maybe yall should have read her daily meet ups a little closer. They all said that she wanted to be a Bitch. That would have been the 1st red flag about her. Interacting with her just opened the gate for her to be that Bitch that she said she was. Just sayN
Newbies_801 wrote:
She’s very mean and acts like she’s god gift. very impatient and her way or the highway.
And she wasn’t even attractive enough to warrant that attitude LOL
This bitch is crazy, bad experience with her also..
Enonyandivory wrote:
Before I even got to the bottom of this post, I assumed that I knew who you were talking about… turns out, I’m right!
Same!
Same! We also took the bait. Bad experience. She is crazy