WE read an article recently about swingers wearing black rings to identify each other (any finger but the middle as that seems to be reserved for asexual community). Is this actually a thing that people do, or even know about?
Any other ways that potential swingers identify if a normal community setting?
Any other ways that potential swingers identify if a normal community setting?
We wear black rings right hand ring finger. Also upside down pineapple is a swinger identifier. Pink flamingos are supposed to mean swingers present (lots of vanillas have them also).
Black rings on the ring finger of the right side hand is definitely a sign of being a swinger. Some women also wear anklets with different charms showing their preference for play (mfm, mfmf, BBC,etc). Now there is an international emblem for swingers worn in various forms of jewelry.
https://www.swingersjewelry.net/swinger-symbol/
https://www.swingersjewelry.net/swinger-symbol/
I have pineapple stickers on the motorhome just in case
We heard Garden Gnomes are a sign of swingers …. Hmm I wonder if any of our neighbors suspect anything hehe.
We wear the black rings, not sure if people notice though
We both have black rings on our right ring fingers. They have each others nicknames on them.
Has anyone ever been approached because they had the black rings on?
Problem is many vanilla couples have black rings as well because they think it’s new/cool.
These are the only black rings that we're aware of that give you slightly more than a 50% probability of identifying a swinger.
EVILDOERS wrote:
These are the only black rings that we're aware of that give you slightly more than a 50% probability of identifying a swinger.
Bahahaha! That's too funny!
We came across a piece of jewelry that is supposed to identify lifestyle participants that can be worn as a bracelet, necklace, anklet or pin. Its the shape of a heart combined with the infinity sign. We had one special made for Cyndi and when asked by vanilla people, we simply responded it stood for our love forever for each other. It was not long after we noticed another friend and neighbor wearing something similar. They had found it on a jewelry sight that caters to the lifestyle. Our friends are so vanilla they have no idea what they stumbled across. It seems there really is no for sure sign until you start swapping or taking your clothes off.
just4funxxx11 wrote:
WE read an article recently about swingers wearing black rings to identify each other (any finger but the middle as that seems to be reserved for asexual community). Is this actually a thing that people do, or even know about?
Any other ways that potential swingers identify if a normal community setting?
Also, please take that child out of your only photo. You guys have your faces blurred into oblivion but the bat mitzvah girl and half of your relatives are clearly visible.
In fact, I see Matt there.
I just finished my new ring today, 7/24/21. Black ceramic with crushed jeweled inlay.
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HYM4CYN wrote:
We came across a piece of jewelry that is supposed to identify lifestyle participants that can be worn as a bracelet, necklace, anklet or pin. Its the shape of a heart combined with the infinity sign. We had one special made for Cyndi and when asked by vanilla people, we simply responded it stood for our love forever for each other. It was not long after we noticed another friend and neighbor wearing something similar. They had found it on a jewelry sight that caters to the lifestyle. Our friends are so vanilla they have no idea what they stumbled across. It seems there really is no for sure sign until you start swapping or taking your clothes off.
Interesting. This sounds just like the Polyamory symbol.
I'll say, I've never been approached whether I've been wearing a black ring, polyam symbol, pineapple, buying the store out of unicorn cereal/merch, or otherwise, unless I've been at a lifestyle event. 🤷♀️ Maybe I'm doing it wrong?
We have not purchased black rings, We both get approached quite frequently I guess we just put off that vibe