We’re going to be in downtown Ogden this evening and plan on stopping by Unspoken.
Do we need the secret hand shake or phrase to get in a certain area?
Do we need the secret hand shake or phrase to get in a certain area?
Was wondering about the same.. male half here going as well!
As of 11:00 AM, I haven’t seen tonight’s password posted. We plan on going tonight for a little while.
Rose Bud
Never been, we'd love to go... someone please tell us more about it?!
RobnJoc88 wrote:Bar/club that is LS friendly. Most LS come on Friday nights. Usually has a theme once a month but haven't seen anything in a while. Usually people start to show up at 9.
Never been, we'd love to go... someone please tell us more about it?!
Interested, following this.
We have been there a few times. Fun people, fun place. On our first visit we thought the bartender had made a mistake on our bill because it was so inexpensive. Nope, it was correct. Slows down a bit early if it is not a theme so we get there around 9.
We went on a Friday night back in March. Very cool venue. We are from NY and only in the area during ski season. Look forward to visiting again. Met some really cool couples
For June 4th, the password is: “Samson may have the strength, but Hilary’s got the hair.”
Just like any gathering of people who know each other, it can seem a bit cliquish. Do not be afraid to introduce your self to small groups. Once they realize you are new, most are very welcoming.
Be sure to make some friends. They can add you to the private FB group so you can get the password every Friday night.
Just like any gathering of people who know each other, it can seem a bit cliquish. Do not be afraid to introduce your self to small groups. Once they realize you are new, most are very welcoming.
Be sure to make some friends. They can add you to the private FB group so you can get the password every Friday night.
We are planning on stopping in.
No password/phrase is really required. Ask for the pineapple stamp and get in free or pay $5 for the other one.
Had a blast again. Some very sexy couples last night.
Thinking of checking it out for the first time. What should we know going in?
The alternate password is "I Forgot"
Also, we are curious; when people say it is “lifestyle friendly” what does that mean? … people can have sex in the open/or other rooms? or just that it’s a place to meet other people/couples in the lifestyle?
Bodycairns wrote:
Also, we are curious; when people say it is “lifestyle friendly” what does that mean? … people can have sex in the open/or other rooms? or just that it’s a place to meet other people/couples in the lifestyle?
DEF just meet and mingle. No sex. This is fucking Utah, for Christ's sake! LOL
Usernamesarehard wrote:Be willing to introduce yourself.
Thinking of checking it out for the first time. What should we know going in?
Bodycairns wrote:It's really a bar that lots of LS people meet. So no fees to get in, just a "bar". There aren't any rooms for doing anything and thinking sex in the "bar" might cause some issues for the establishment.
Also, we are curious; when people say it is “lifestyle friendly” what does that mean? … people can have sex in the open/or other rooms? or just that it’s a place to meet other people/couples in the lifestyle?
Gotcha.. thanks… that’s what we figured, but just wanted to check.
Utahldscouple wrote:
It's really a bar that lots of LS people meet. So no fees to get in, just a "bar". There aren't any rooms for doing anything and thinking sex in the "bar" might cause some issues for the establishment.
Yes, fees to get in if you don't know the pass phrase or possess the cajones to ask for the pineapple stamp. LS friendly means they tolerate more provocative dress, discussions, and interactions. Push your luck or pull some privates out and it ends. Occasionally there's a theme night announced on their private FB page.
If people kept a thread going instead of starting new ones on the same topic, then some historical knowledge could be preserved in this forum. Squirrel!
SexyPowSkiers wrote:Interesting, what are those fees? Do you know anyone that paid them?Utahldscouple wrote:
It's really a bar that lots of LS people meet. So no fees to get in, just a "bar". There aren't any rooms for doing anything and thinking sex in the "bar" might cause some issues for the establishment.
Yes, fees to get in if you don't know the pass phrase or possess the cajones to ask for the pineapple stamp. LS friendly means they tolerate more provocative dress, discussions, and interactions. Push your luck or pull some privates out and it ends. Occasionally there's a theme night announced on their private FB page.
If people kept a thread going instead of starting new ones on the same topic, then some historical knowledge could be preserved in this forum. Squirrel!
Utahldscouple wrote:
Interesting, what are those fees? Do you know anyone that paid them?
Every vanilla patron. $5.
Hey so we're thinking about joining the "pineapple stamp club" tomorrow night at Unspoken and wondering who else is going?
We're looking to attend tomorrow night.😈🥳
Interested! Following for next time as this week is out for us. How does one get on the private FB page? Or know about the password? I have no issues asking for the "pineapple stamp." lol
I just messaged their FB page for the weekly password.
StunnerSteve wrote:
I just messaged their FB page for the weekly password.
We can use the FB page also.
Here’s tonight’s password:
“Bottoms up! It’s the weekend!!” Proclaimed loudly. Followed with “This is by no means a reference to drinking…” said gently, hand to the side of your mouth, as if sharing a secret. 😜😂😈
“Bottoms up! It’s the weekend!!” Proclaimed loudly. Followed with “This is by no means a reference to drinking…” said gently, hand to the side of your mouth, as if sharing a secret. 😜😂😈
What does the pineapple stamp communicate? Just that you are in the LS?
SexyPowSkiers wrote:This is not true. Went in without giving the pass phrase and acted as “vanillas”. No fees. It’s a bar open to all. Friday nights they just so happen to have a lot of lifestylers attend. Only difference between those with the phrase and those without is the pineapple stamp versus the ghost.Utahldscouple wrote:
Interesting, what are those fees? Do you know anyone that paid them?
Every vanilla patron. $5.
Utahldscouple wrote:
This is not true. Went in without giving the pass phrase and acted as “vanillas”. No fees. It’s a bar open to all. Friday nights they just so happen to have a lot of lifestylers attend. Only difference between those with the phrase and those without is the pineapple stamp versus the ghost.
Take it up with them, not us. Their announcement on FB still says otherwise.
It was always open to all on Fridays too. Don't recall anyone saying differently. Perfect for "vanillas" doing some acting out of curiosity.
Utahldscouple wrote:
Not sure where you are getting that from as we are on the FB page too. Here is a screen shot of the page.
Where's the face in hand emoji around here? What part of "The password will get you free admission at the door every Friday night." escapes you? Wouldn't the converse be that without the password it isn't free?
Suggest you do your homework by addressing your concerns with the appropriate people before challenging with your sole experience. Did they change their policy? Was that night an exception to the door charge? Are you bad actors? Did they think you needed the $10 more than they did? Did the person at the door just forget and you slipped through?
Report back with helpful useful information for the rest of us. Thanks.
Please remove that screenshot.
That's not cool to cut and paste from private, discrete groups to other places.
They have asked for discretion as a favor for having a friendly space open.
Please honor that.
That's not cool to cut and paste from private, discrete groups to other places.
They have asked for discretion as a favor for having a friendly space open.
Please honor that.
SexyPowSkiers wrote:Face palm is where did you get $5.00? There is me fee with or without password. Do your research.Utahldscouple wrote:
Not sure where you are getting that from as we are on the FB page too. Here is a screen shot of the page.
Where's the face in hand emoji around here? What part of "The password will get you free admission at the door every Friday night." escapes you? Wouldn't the converse be that without the password it isn't free?
Suggest you do your homework by addressing your concerns with the appropriate people before challenging with your sole experience. Did they change their policy? Was that night an exception to the door charge? Are you bad actors? Did they think you needed the $10 more than they did? Did the person at the door just forget and you slipped through?
Report back with helpful useful information for the rest of us. Thanks.
VITAEEROTIC wrote:Removed the post but there was nothing in that post that was information not publicly available. The bar is a bar every day. Friday nights it is lifestyle friendly. If you notice we even blacked out any identifying information.
Please remove that screenshot.
That's not cool to cut and paste from private, discrete groups to other places.
They have asked for discretion as a favor for having a friendly space open.
Please honor that.
VITAEEROTIC wrote:Removed the post but there was nothing in that post that was information not publicly available. The bar is a bar every day. Friday nights it is lifestyle friendly. If you notice we even blacked out any identifying information.
Please remove that screenshot.
That's not cool to cut and paste from private, discrete groups to other places.
They have asked for discretion as a favor for having a friendly space open.
Please honor that.
@Utahldscouple
What you cropped from your screenshot was "2. Respect Everyone's Privacy. What's shared in the group should stay in the group." It's a fair point that it shouldn't include screenshots of anything.
Sometimes it's better to move on instead of always being oppositional.
Next time we go to Unspoken we'll ask for clarification on current door charges. No reason to publish a passphrase to get in free if it's unnecessary. We'll post a more definitive answer when we get one, unless someone else posts it first.
What you cropped from your screenshot was "2. Respect Everyone's Privacy. What's shared in the group should stay in the group." It's a fair point that it shouldn't include screenshots of anything.
Sometimes it's better to move on instead of always being oppositional.
Next time we go to Unspoken we'll ask for clarification on current door charges. No reason to publish a passphrase to get in free if it's unnecessary. We'll post a more definitive answer when we get one, unless someone else posts it first.
SexyPowSkiers wrote:Yes I am guilty of taking a screen shot of the rules, you are right. Forgive me I have sinned. I will PM you directly with other comments.
@Utahldscouple
What you cropped from your screenshot was "2. Respect Everyone's Privacy. What's shared in the group should stay in the group." It's a fair point that it shouldn't include screenshots of anything.
Sometimes it's better to move on instead of always being oppositional.
Next time we go to Unspoken we'll ask for clarification on current door charges. No reason to publish a passphrase to get in free if it's unnecessary. We'll post a more definitive answer when we get one, unless someone else posts it first.
We will soon be heading to Utah for ski season 21-22. Back in March we went to Unspoken in Ogden on a Friday night and thought it was a really cool venue. Met some nice couples there. Do they still have M&G events on Friday nights? Thanks for any info.
LIVIN4FUN1 wrote:Yes they do!
We will soon be heading to Utah for ski season 21-22. Back in March we went to Unspoken in Ogden on a Friday night and thought it was a really cool venue. Met some nice couples there. Do they still have M&G events on Friday nights? Thanks for any info.
Utahldscouple wrote:There is an ugly sweater meet and greet!LIVIN4FUN1 wrote:Yes they do!
We will soon be heading to Utah for ski season 21-22. Back in March we went to Unspoken in Ogden on a Friday night and thought it was a really cool venue. Met some nice couples there. Do they still have M&G events on Friday nights? Thanks for any info.
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Someone should wear this… 😆
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Starlights wrote:
Someone should wear this… 😆
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My wife wants this shirt lol.
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