Roughly, 50% of those who contact us are between the ages of 45 to 55. 20% are late 50s to late 60s or older. The remaining 30% are under 45 with the vast majority being in their 30s. We've even had a number of folks in the mid 20s reach out.
Not complaining at all. But, I find it curious that a good number of people who reach out to us are young enough to be our kids... or close to. Nothing has come of any of these reach-outs. However, we felt a good connection with one and had high hopes of meeting... a single woman in her mid 30s who wanted to get to know us and possibly experiment. Sadly, she said she needed a break from the thought of the LS.
At any rate, I would be interested in hearing about experiences different people have had with larger age differences....as in, was it purely a one time sexual fling, a FWB situation, or something else? What was the age difference? What was the draw? At what point do you say "too young" or "too old"?
Not asking for advice, really. Just genuinely curious....even more so being that the two women whom my wife and I agreed we'd be interested in, are friends we ski and bike with who are in their late 20s, early 30s. So, there can certainly be an attraction from us to younger women but, what might a younger person's attraction be to a couple who are old enough to be their parents?
Not complaining at all. But, I find it curious that a good number of people who reach out to us are young enough to be our kids... or close to. Nothing has come of any of these reach-outs. However, we felt a good connection with one and had high hopes of meeting... a single woman in her mid 30s who wanted to get to know us and possibly experiment. Sadly, she said she needed a break from the thought of the LS.
At any rate, I would be interested in hearing about experiences different people have had with larger age differences....as in, was it purely a one time sexual fling, a FWB situation, or something else? What was the age difference? What was the draw? At what point do you say "too young" or "too old"?
Not asking for advice, really. Just genuinely curious....even more so being that the two women whom my wife and I agreed we'd be interested in, are friends we ski and bike with who are in their late 20s, early 30s. So, there can certainly be an attraction from us to younger women but, what might a younger person's attraction be to a couple who are old enough to be their parents?
I think it is based on mental maturity some younger couples are old soles to coin a phrase. We have been with younger couples and had great experiences. We usually gravitate to couples or singles our own age, but if the connection is there then enjoy each other’s company. We usually feel and act a little immature for our age it keeps us young!
The Mrs has 10 year age difference rule, me personally I have a fantasy of being with an mature woman.
We get contacted by quite a few very young men/couples. We have only seem to connect with those within 10 years foe the most part.
We’ve been contacted by all age groups.
We’re attracted to the person and not the age. Having said that, Our desire of the lifestyle is particular and we do prefer couples around our age group (more in common).
But do make exceptions….
We’re attracted to the person and not the age. Having said that, Our desire of the lifestyle is particular and we do prefer couples around our age group (more in common).
But do make exceptions….
As a general rule, +/- 10 years seems to be the “sweet” spot. That being said maturity is really the key. We’ve seen folks 15-20 years older than us act like 13-year-olds, and some folks 12-15 years younger act like real adults, and are capable of holding a real conversation. As “old souls” (so we’ve been told) ourselves, we can understand the appeal of older people. As for younger people, there is a good energy of youth that is very appealing, but in our experience, also fleeting.
We’re not really older but tend to run with a younger crowd.
We don't generally kiss and tell - but since you asked . . . we did have one remarkable experience with a couple in their early 30's in the last year. Not sure what was in it for them - but we thought it was great!! Usually our only rule is they can't be the same age as any of our kids.
If trolling via a website like this, we tend to stay in the 'within 10 years' lane. If we meet in person (say at a party) then we don't care about your age and never ask - if we are attracted and you are attracted to us - that is the only thing that matters.
If trolling via a website like this, we tend to stay in the 'within 10 years' lane. If we meet in person (say at a party) then we don't care about your age and never ask - if we are attracted and you are attracted to us - that is the only thing that matters.
Age is just a number sexy is sexy at any age.
I can't say we have a hard and fast rule of no one over/under _____ age. Like others have said if the attraction is there it's there. We have played with people older and younger and have had fun in both scenarios. Obviously some level of attraction is a must but I don't think that age is the defining factor in that, although it can certainly play a role. I will say I've found that sometimes getting on a friendship level with people that are significantly older or younger can be more difficult just because we tend to be in different phases of life, not to say it can't or doesn't happen but just is a bit more challenging. -Mrs
We used to have relatively set age-range preferences although we never actually stated them in our profile. Time and experience have pretty much erased those mental guidelines. We look almost entirely for just a really good connection (And a little bit of attraction, DUH!-lol) rather than simply looking at numbers. YMMV
We were with a 21F for AWESOME 3SOME!!! As a male 59 it was a wonderful "trip" down memory lane😋😛😉
We have been with couples of all ages with the range being from twenties to sixties. It's rare that a much younger couple reaches out to us, but if they seem like they have their act together, we will meet them. We don't see the point of having a hard boundary on age since a lot of great people are eliminated with that philosophy. But, to each, their own. People want what they want. There is nothing wrong with that. But, it amuses me that some younger single woman have no problems with much older men if he is extremely wealthy. Hugh Hefner comes to mind. Haha. We've had some great reciprocal experiences with couples in their twenties and thirties. However, ongoing friendships seem to be with couples in our age group.
Side notes: For me, IN GENERAL, the best sexual experiences have been with more mature women. Don't get me wrong. I loved ever minute with a much younger wife. But, very experienced swinger wives are a hard act to follow. My wife would agree with that for her too, but she also appreciates that younger guys are ready to go again quicker.
Side notes: For me, IN GENERAL, the best sexual experiences have been with more mature women. Don't get me wrong. I loved ever minute with a much younger wife. But, very experienced swinger wives are a hard act to follow. My wife would agree with that for her too, but she also appreciates that younger guys are ready to go again quicker.
We have added in our profile what our preference in ages are, that seem to be an irrelevant thing to many older people. They always reach out, letting us know that obviously, they have not read our profile information.
Initially we were open to almost all ages since we are 38 and 46, we were of the thought, there is a lot of fit people in all ages and as long as we see their faces and if we like what we see, age won’t matter, we were wrong.
We have an age limit now, we assume, because it’s difficult to find people over 50 in good shape, (not necessarily 100% factual statement) but given the experience we’ve had here of people showing their young pictures and after all showing their real present images, being way different, we rather go around our selected age groups and let the adventure of reality begin. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏼♂️
Initially we were open to almost all ages since we are 38 and 46, we were of the thought, there is a lot of fit people in all ages and as long as we see their faces and if we like what we see, age won’t matter, we were wrong.
We have an age limit now, we assume, because it’s difficult to find people over 50 in good shape, (not necessarily 100% factual statement) but given the experience we’ve had here of people showing their young pictures and after all showing their real present images, being way different, we rather go around our selected age groups and let the adventure of reality begin. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏼♂️
So I believe we always have had an age block, older or younger when on websites, but have found some very fun experiences with people a lot older or a lot younger when we meet at parties, so we have decided that age rules really don't apply to us, when there is an in person connection, rules really don't apply. So to us, putting up rules was a lot of times just a block in having fun.
Deedub70 wrote:Whiskey_Girl wrote:
I think it is based on mental maturity some younger couples are old soles to coin a phrase. We have been with younger couples and had great experiences. We usually gravitate to couples or singles our own age, but if the connection is there then enjoy each other’s company. We usually feel and act a little immature for our age it keeps us young!
Thought for a second there you were going to say Canvas had the maturity of 20-somethings...lol.
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Luvrs42 wrote:
We have an age limit now, we assume, because it’s difficult to find people over 50 in good shape, (not necessarily 100% factual statement) but given the experience we’ve had here of people showing their young pictures and after all showing their real present images, being way different, we rather go around our selected age groups and let the adventure of reality begin. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏼♂️
Very true. The ravages of time can't be cheated....but, as a whole, our society is fairly sedentary. There's a toll to be paid. We find more fit older folks in the human-powered outdoor rec world. No surprise there. Still...there's just no way around time. It catches us all, sooner or later. 🥺
We find ourselves recreating with younger folks more often than not, mostly because there's more of them to do it with. We have a dear friend though, who's 59....and she is just crazy cute! Great shape...the total package whom I find as desirable as any. But she's always out there on the slopes or pedaling with scars to prove it. Shapely and fit for any age. Rare for 59!
Thank you all! Lots of quality replies. Enjoyed each one!
For us, as our profile says, we don't care about age (on the younger end)...to a point. Our energies either align or they don't. We're adaptable and can and do mesh with a variety of ages.
Still makes me curious though, why one young enough to be our child, or close to, would be interested. Sexually speaking, it seems common if not natural for the older to seek/desire the younger. Perhaps the younger feel the same way we do with people clicking or not, regardless of age. Maybe they seek maturity, or experience, or some real or perceived knowledge. Perhaps a sense of security or fetish. ????
I don't know and it doesn't really matter in the end. We're just happy to have interest...regardless of age. To a point...
For us, as our profile says, we don't care about age (on the younger end)...to a point. Our energies either align or they don't. We're adaptable and can and do mesh with a variety of ages.
Still makes me curious though, why one young enough to be our child, or close to, would be interested. Sexually speaking, it seems common if not natural for the older to seek/desire the younger. Perhaps the younger feel the same way we do with people clicking or not, regardless of age. Maybe they seek maturity, or experience, or some real or perceived knowledge. Perhaps a sense of security or fetish. ????
I don't know and it doesn't really matter in the end. We're just happy to have interest...regardless of age. To a point...
We feel similarly to many of the other comments. We each have our fantasies of older male or female partners, but in general we tend to run with couples that are within 10 years of us as we feel they're in a similar stage of life and we have the most in common with them. However, we're a bit of an anomaly as we're in our early to mid 30s and no kids so we tend to be more flexible than others our age when it comes to scheduling.
We usually try to stick to people who are about our same age, which means mid 20s to mid 30s. We're sure there's lots of great people outside of that range, but we can't get past opening out relationship to people who are around our parents' ages. Maybe things will change with time!
NEWUTAHCOUPLE wrote:
We feel similarly to many of the other comments. We each have our fantasies of older male or female partners, but in general we tend to run with couples that are within 10 years of us as we feel they're in a similar stage of life and we have the most in common with them. However, we're a bit of an anomaly as we're in our early to mid 30s and no kids so we tend to be more flexible than others our age when it comes to scheduling.
Thanks for the reply. I think you are only one of two in the 30ish crowd to do so.
Hope it's not inappropriate to ask (you can send a private message if that works better for you) but could you give some insight to the fantasies of older partners? What would the draw be? Is it the notion of pure experience the older person has, a combination of things, or something that can't be easily articulated?
My wife and i have a 20 year age gap. I'm young at heart and she's an old soul. We try to stay within our age gap. We've found age to be just a number. It's the right connections we're looking for.
My favorite LS encounter was with a couple about 25 years older than me. They knew ALL the right moves and we clicked really well. They were super respectful and communicative with me and it was great. Sadly I think they’ve left the LS, but I have been trying to find older couples to play with more.
PARTYINLV wrote:
But, it amuses me that some younger single woman have no problems with much older men if he is extremely wealthy. Hugh Hefner comes to mind. Haha. We've had some great reciprocal experiences with couples in their twenties and thirties. However, ongoing friendships seem to be with couples in our age group.
I have a close older friend who, in his early 60s, had a 27 year old girlfriend for a year or more. She loved sex, was stunningly beautiful, and didn't look a day over 20. He is no model but held a prestigious job and made lots of money. He and everyone else knew she was only after the toys and vacations he provided. He despised her for it but kept it up as long as he could... both his unit and ability to stomach her shallow greed.
For us it just depends on the connection. We have had some great experiences with young and older alike. We tend to stay within our age group +\- 10 years for the most part, but every once in a while things click with someone outside of that. For us it’s more about what’s happening in the moment.
Nakedcouple5150 wrote:
The Mrs has 10 year age difference rule, me personally I have a fantasy of being with an mature woman.
Let's be real here. I cannot think of a single instance when a much younger guy (single or married) didn't want to have sex with my wife. GENERALLY, when a more mature woman takes care of her appearance, most guys of any age will want to have sex with that woman. Not going to claim this happens 100% of the time. But in our situation, we have yet to see a younger man rebuff her. We know that one day though, that will change as we age.
A lot of men have fantasies about being with older women; and we all know that men, in general, are not as picky as women. So, we know they are happy to have sex with a more mature woman.
However, the same cannot be said about younger women attracted to older men. So, when an much younger couple is not interested in us via online profile sharing, we usually suspect that it's because the younger wife has no interest in me. However, that sometimes changes when meeting face to face. Some legit younger couples that we know have told us that their wife was not available, but that their husband has permission to play alone with us. This seems to be happening more and more.
This discussion does make me wonder though... At what age will I be, when even wives in their 50s and 60s, are not attracted to me because of my age?
Canvas wrote:NEWUTAHCOUPLE wrote:
We feel similarly to many of the other comments. We each have our fantasies of older male or female partners, but in general we tend to run with couples that are within 10 years of us as we feel they're in a similar stage of life and we have the most in common with them. However, we're a bit of an anomaly as we're in our early to mid 30s and no kids so we tend to be more flexible than others our age when it comes to scheduling.
Thanks for the reply. I think you are only one of two in the 30ish crowd to do so.
Hope it's not inappropriate to ask (you can send a private message if that works better for you) but could you give some insight to the fantasies of older partners? What would the draw be? Is it the notion of pure experience the older person has, a combination of things, or something that can't be easily articulated?
Sure thing. For me (husband), I've always had a bit of a "milf" fantasy and as I've aged the age of the prospective woman has also aged. However, my mother was only 18 when she had me so if I think if it too long it starts to get weird thinking about a woman 15-20 years older than myself. For her it's mostly a porn thing. She's got porn kinks as go-to's that involve step siblings/step parents or those types of things. I dont know that she would go through with being with an older man as much as it's a fantasy that helps get her off in the moment.
When I was younger I was always attracted to older women because I found them to be sexier. Sometimes younger females just appeared as girls to me when the older females appeared to be a real woman, if that makes sense.
As I grew older I just then naturally was always attracted to women my own age. I can't exactly place my finger on it, is it the fine wine angle or that a little age brings the beauty and wisdom because they got it all figured out? Whatever that moxie is, some find it and it's great.
As I grew older I just then naturally was always attracted to women my own age. I can't exactly place my finger on it, is it the fine wine angle or that a little age brings the beauty and wisdom because they got it all figured out? Whatever that moxie is, some find it and it's great.
PARTYINLV wrote:
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This discussion does make me wonder though... At what age will I be, when even wives in their 50s and 60s, are not attracted to me because of my age?
Your age or what age has done to you physically? If the latter, maybe by the time you get there, you will have reached that point in your life where it doesn't matter.🤷🏼♂️
When I was about 42, I taught a 62 year old woman how to squirt. She really wanted to learn how for her man, and was amazed when she learned how and could instruct him how to touch her and what to do for her. I loved the experience of her being older and yet wanting to learn new things.
utyolo wrote:
For me (wife) I don't want girls who are my daughters' ages. That grosses me out. 🤢🤮
For guys, I want him to look like a man. But, I'm also not attracted to men more than 10 years older than me.
Thanks! I assume you're talking in general terms when saying you're not attracted to men 10 years older than you. In other words, if you found yourself attracted to a guy whom you thought was in his 40s but later found out he was in his mid 50s, would that change your level of attraction to him?
Thanks to the others for their replies as well. All good!
NEWUTAHCOUPLE wrote:
Sure thing. For me (husband), I've always had a bit of a "milf" fantasy and as I've aged the age of the prospective woman has also aged. However, my mother was only 18 when she had me so if I think if it too long it starts to get weird thinking about a woman 15-20 years older than myself. For her it's mostly a porn thing. She's got porn kinks as go-to's that involve step siblings/step parents or those types of things. I dont know that she would go through with being with an older man as much as it's a fantasy that helps get her off in the moment.
I totally get the "milf" thing. I was the same way....for years. But, as I aged, my fantasies began swinging more and more towards younger women. That's not to say I can't find older (my age or older) women attractive. They are definitely out there. My wife is a testament. As one steps through life though, it begins to be a numbers thing as time takes its toll. There's simply a greater pool of active (fit) and attractive women that are younger than me compared to those my age or older. There's also that ever-so-present yearning for what we don't have that afflicts so many....that forbidden fruit we desire.
What a great topic. Canvas I am impressed with how well you have compiled your statistics on age breakdown of email contacts.
Being an older couple doesn’t get us many looks from younger couples but sometimes we attract their attention and have had some pleasant experiences with those in their 30s and up. Couples in their 40s seem young to us...lol.
We really don’t care about age, we know we can keep up with any age group when it comes time to get naked as long as it’s not getting started at 1am. Attraction, connection and horniness are the qualities we look for and then you have some fun possibilities. Age is not representative of quality, stamina or how much fun you will have at any given time.
Being an older couple doesn’t get us many looks from younger couples but sometimes we attract their attention and have had some pleasant experiences with those in their 30s and up. Couples in their 40s seem young to us...lol.
We really don’t care about age, we know we can keep up with any age group when it comes time to get naked as long as it’s not getting started at 1am. Attraction, connection and horniness are the qualities we look for and then you have some fun possibilities. Age is not representative of quality, stamina or how much fun you will have at any given time.
I would have to agree that people age differently depending on how they approach life. I had a wonderful series of encounters with a couple 13 years older and we would literally go all night long. I was also the chosen third of another couple in a 3-year relationship and they were 10 years younger. And there are situations where age and experience are highly valued. I've been in the kink community as well. Some very fulfilling relationships were with younger submissives who really wanted a solid older caring man to fill that space in their lives. Those gaps were 20-25 years and no, there was no form of financial support sought or given.
Me and the wife both have gone older alot. Even in our teens. For her it was a married man (her manager) around 50. For me ait was a mature woman i met online 54. I was 18 she was 19
We shared a very nice 21 yr old gal a few months back!!! Me being 59 and wife 48.... we both enjoyed the return of our youth, the feel of a nice tight body was euphoric!!!!
We shared a very nice 21 yr old gal a few months back!!! Me being 59 and wife 48.... we both enjoyed the return of our youth, the feel of a nice tight body was euphoric!!!!
We shared a very nice 21 yr old gal a few months back!!! Me being 59 and wife 48.... we both enjoyed the return of our youth, the feel of a nice tight body was euphoric!!!!
JimNLaina wrote:
We shared a very nice 21 yr old gal a few months back!!! Me being 59 and wife 48.... we both enjoyed the return of our youth, the feel of a nice tight body was euphoric!!!!
oh yeah, we like that. we meet younger couples all the time (on another site) and to tell you the truth they play faster and are way more DTF than A LOT of older cpls we meet.
but, when we were a young swinger couple in our 20's, we surely enjoyed playing with couples way older than us
SUENDAN wrote:JimNLaina wrote:
We shared a very nice 21 yr old gal a few months back!!! Me being 59 and wife 48.... we both enjoyed the return of our youth, the feel of a nice tight body was euphoric!!!!
...but, when we were a young swinger couple in our 20's, we surely enjoyed playing with couples way older than us
Thanks for your post.👍 What you say brings me back around to my original question though: What was it that you enjoyed about being with couples way older than you?
I have sensed attraction from a few women young enough to be my daughters. It's flattering, to say the least. But, I don't understand it.
Canvas wrote:
Thanks for your post.👍 What you say brings me back around to my original question though: What was it that you enjoyed about being with couples way older than you?
I have sensed attraction from a few women young enough to be my daughters. It's flattering, to say the least. But, I don't understand it.
Well, studly young, good looking single males can't get laid to save their lives while middle aged married average looking guys get a good amount.I think is just maturity. I invite you to read everything that young single males post on this forum so you see how ignorant most of them are. Additionally, I don't think you have to understand absolutely everything, especially when it comes to women. Just be yourself and slay that young pussy before you get too old to even fulfill their "older guy" fantasy. And yes, I had too played with girls younger than my youngest child.
Am interested
Am single
Am single
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
I think it is based on mental maturity some younger couples are old soles to coin a phrase. We have been with younger couples and had great experiences. We usually gravitate to couples or singles our own age, but if the connection is there then enjoy each other’s company. We usually feel and act a little immature for our age it keeps us young!
"Immature" is what boring people call fun people.
Dinho wrote:
Am interested
Am single
Here is a good example, right on this thread and right under my reply, about the points I made.
SUENDAN wrote:Your expectations are too high if you think people will read the postDinho wrote:
Am interested
Am single
Here is a good example, right on this thread and right under my reply, about the points I made.
!Canvas wrote:
Thanks for your post.👍 What you say brings me back around to my original question though: What was it that you enjoyed about being with couples way older than you?
I have sensed attraction from a few women young enough to be my daughters. It's flattering, to say the least. But, I don't understand it.
I think this is how we saw it:
My wife being on her early 20's always had older gentleman fantasies. Myself on my mid 20's always liked very good looking MILF's. We just found some older couples cute, fuckable, interesting, worth learning from. As an extra bonus, sometimes we met couples who had us on their yachts, beach houses and wined us and dined us. We were living in Puerto Rico at the time so we met several vacationing couples at the beach, had a couple of drinks at a beach bar, share a few laughs and then went up to their resort rooms with them for a pleasant evening.
Hard2Please wrote:
When I was younger I was always attracted to older women because I found them to be sexier. Sometimes younger females just appeared as girls to me when the older females appeared to be a real woman, if that makes sense.
As I grew older I just then naturally was always attracted to women my own age. I can't exactly place my finger on it, is it the fine wine angle or that a little age brings the beauty and wisdom because they got it all figured out? Whatever that moxie is, some find it and it's great.
I agree with this, being 28 I can not see any appeal in girls my own age. Most of them have seem as if they have never had a responsibility in their lives. As I get older then my type will begin to match my age more but these silly girls don’t hold a candle against a mature woman
My wife and I don't discriminate with age. Some people make a point to mention we're their kids age which is off-putting during a date. Just be yourselves. If you're attractive, HWP, and have ****great personalities***(shocker) we're gonna have a good time.
She was 35 years younger then me... all was going great until right in the middle of my A-game she starts screaming... "Yeah daddy, that's how I like it, that's how I like it daddy." Which kind of freaked me out because up until that point the fact that she was younger then my daughter hadn't really bothered me.
Not like I actually slowed down or anything, but it was certainly a WTF did you just say moment.... LOL...
Not like I actually slowed down or anything, but it was certainly a WTF did you just say moment.... LOL...
We just go with the flow. If we meet in person then we let the vibe determine. As for as making blind initial contact with a couple maybe 5-10 years.
Myself 59 and the wife 48 have a beautiful 21 yr old lady...incredible! But for the most part everyone else is around our age group 40s-50s
SKICOUPLE wrote:
What a great topic. Canvas I am impressed with how well you have compiled your statistics on age breakdown of email contacts.
Thanks. Just a curious mind and observant eye. 🙂
Thanks also to the others who have replied. I have enjoyed everyone's perspective and experiences. 35 yr difference? 38 yrs and more? Wow! 👍
I'm 45 and I have played with a sexy sweet old friend of mine thats in her 70s
Biggest age difference I've ever been part of was 17 years. She was awesome, and we dated for almost four years before her job moved her across the country.
Last year when I was 27 I started a relationship an amazing girl who just so happens to be 54. We are great friends and still hook up every now and then
The wife likes SEX . She likes the girls but her favorite are the guys. She doesn't care about age , race, as long as they are nice and have respect . I have seen her with many 20- 25 year old guys and even as young as 18, 19 on few occasions. She loves there stamina and excitement of being with an older women. She has participated in a couple of gangbangs where all ages were there awaiting there turn. She is 61 years old but acts and looks like she is in her 40's. On the other end of the age , she has an 84 year old that calls once a month to take us out for dinner and we always go back to his condo for his pleasure. He doesn't get fully erect anymore but she makes him happy just the same.
Maleficient wrote:
My perspective comes from the single dating scene and myself being older. But I have found that younger men, are usually looking for older women in the fact that they are more secure/settled/less hang ups and generally all around more at ease with themselves and they find that appealing. Who doesn’t find less drama more appealing lol. Again just the perspective from the single dating scene. 🤷🏻♀️ I can definitely see how it could translate and carry over to couples dating.
I would agree with this. Age is just a number and yes there are many younger people who are mature and have their act together, but in general more mature couples are less drama, more fun, and know what they want.
For me and my wife we typically go for older couples as they are often more laid back at times. Our cut off is 60. Together weve played with a couple in their 50s and solo the oldest i went was 55 when i was 24 and my wife was 18 and the gentleman was 56. Were currently 32 (me) and 27 (her). Ive found there are various reasons for the age gap. Ranging from excitement at something different to stuff like daddy/complexes and what not. For us its mostly the chill level. Couples older than ourselves (40 and up typically) tend to be more open, relaxed and actually about having fun with less drama. Thats not to say we dont enjoy couples our age or younger just how we feel about it.
We don't approach anybody under 40. But, if someone younger approaches us, we assume they know what they want. We have played with couples 25-30 yrs younger than us. We feel we are getting to the upper end of how old is reasonable to swing. We work super hard to keep fit and attractive, but some things can not be avoided. We just hope to have some more great sex until we become uninteresting to anybody.
My wife and I met a single girl at Temptation Resort in Cancun and had a threesome. We were in our early 50s she was late 20s. That’s the biggest age gap we have experienced.
JJRICH wrote:
I’ve been with women twice my age before and truthfully… it was the best sex I’ve ever had! Hoping to meet a few people on here but so many people on here seem to be hung up by age differences
And yet in another post you claim to be a virgin…🤔
Nakkidfun wrote:
And yet in another post you claim to be a virgin…🤔
We were think the exact same thing and noticed a forum post and a booty call post about it
I was very fortunate, meet with a younger couple a few years back when in Salt Lake for a Grizzlies-vs- LV Wranglers game, we very much enjoyed our times and for three seasons enjoyed the frequent fun, then when we lost our ECHL team, I made the trip up twice and they traveled down for less frequent meeting, then a little over three years ago they got transferred to Vegas when his company opened an office here and we enjoyed a more semi-exclusive poly-style relationship which was great until this last June when the Company shut the office here down due to covid sales drops and even SLC was at full staff and the only way her could stay with the company was to take a transfer to Boston MA. Our ages difference were such that is gave good cover and concealment when out socially...LOL, most people thought I was her Father, not Fluffer..LOL.....*( If you see this guys you know who you are..LOL, talk soon I hope)
Just matters if it all clicks,,,, Right? But,,,, for me,,,for some reason,,, it's way hot for me thinking about her with a Young Hung Stud....
Funny I was just thinking of the same question earlier today. Think maybe ten up or down, of course there’s always exemptions to any rule.
Funny I was just thinking of the same question earlier today. Think maybe ten up or down, of course there’s always exemptions to any rule.
Me (the male half) 59, her 23. What can I say, it's difficult to pass up a willing young hard body... funny story.... she is cummings and screams "yeah daddy, that's the way I like it".... that was the moment I understood she had some serious daddy issues. I was just happy to help... hahaha...
As a middle aged couple we've played with couples in their 30's. She refuses to play with couples younger than her oldest daughter (28), so that's our hard deck as a couple.
When I was 30 I had a 40 y/o girlfriend for a while, and that taught me an important lesson.... 40 y/o women know shit that 30 y/o women haven't even thought of yet.
As a middle aged couple we've played with couples in their 30's. She refuses to play with couples younger than her oldest daughter (28), so that's our hard deck as a couple.
When I was 30 I had a 40 y/o girlfriend for a while, and that taught me an important lesson.... 40 y/o women know shit that 30 y/o women haven't even thought of yet.
18 to 80
2INTHESAMEHOLE wrote:That’s it? Lol
18 to 80
18/49 the same day.
Wife likes younger men.
I don’t care about age, as long as there is mutual physical attraction and a good chemistry (personality wise). Wife and I look and party younger than our age, so we tend to get along better with couples at least 10-15 years younger than us, or whose souls’ age is about there! 😁
Cpl4Fwb wrote:
Age is not as important as how well you take care of yourselves. We have seen some 30 year olds with bodies worse than most 50 year olds. We have seen some 50 year old with bodies better than most 30 year olds.
In general, +/- 10 years. Maturity and same place in life are key.
I totally agree we look way younger than are age and we stay fit and active in all areas of life. We have been with much younger people and older than us . We do like the younger crowd when they have what we refer to as old souls or atleast mature
Hmm well me and the wife were cougar and daddy hunters in our teens and 20's till we met. So for me it was probably the 52 year old cougar when I was 19 and my wife if I'm remembering right was her boss at the time when she was 18 and he was in his late 50's. Though now in my 30s though that's also gone the other way as banging a hot 20 something can be fun.
Since joining the LS, I found myself extremely attracted to women over 50 who still have the "glow" about them. I'm 37 and my oldest female partner was 56. Oddly enough, she had better skin that I and more vigor and energy throughout a long and exhausting session with her husband and I making her the focus of the evening. I personally don't really care about the age and am far more interested in the chemistry and attraction level.
Age is just a number, but experience and maturity matters to me, which why I think I tend to play with couples that are older than me. I have played with women in their 60's in Cap D'Agde, France, but in my personal opinion, Europeans always look ~10 years younger than people their same age in the US.
Great topic.
We have been ENM for about 20 years. We know what turns us on/off and we usually try not to jump to conclusions using rules (like age differences) that would keep us from a connection or situation that could be really fun.
We love finding attractive, enthusiastic humans that put effort in their appearance and ability to be charming and vulnerable. Those qualities exist in with folks of any age.
Now, that list changes if we are looking for longer term FWB just because it's important to have mutual interests that come from being in a similar place in life.
Happy hunting!
We have been ENM for about 20 years. We know what turns us on/off and we usually try not to jump to conclusions using rules (like age differences) that would keep us from a connection or situation that could be really fun.
We love finding attractive, enthusiastic humans that put effort in their appearance and ability to be charming and vulnerable. Those qualities exist in with folks of any age.
Now, that list changes if we are looking for longer term FWB just because it's important to have mutual interests that come from being in a similar place in life.
Happy hunting!
honestly I get along with all ages. it's more of the person. when I was 30 I played with a 72 year old woman and she was great.
For us age is just a number. It really comes down to attraction! And that comes down to how well one has taken care of themselves. Since we're older we realize that age related body changes are going to happen. But age related and lifestyle related body changes are 2 very different things for us. We live an active lifestyle and that's what we find attractive so again age is just a number.
We’ve played with mostly older couples tend to like more mature relationships and people, youngest we’ve played with were 26 yo oldest 60yo
I really think it's more about chemistry, especially intellectual chemistry, rather than just age. But, age does play into things in subtle ways, too. We see people separately and together and when we see people together we do like to be pretty solid peers. But when we see people individually it tends to be more across the map. I've had an incredible connection before with a woman ten years older than me and a powerful connection with a woman twenty years younger, which was a specific experiment because there was definitely a cultural and perspective gap there that made more of a connection not really possible. While we were both mature adults we were just concerned with completely different things (outside of sex). In my mid forties now, there seems to be a dynamic where certain women in their early thirties are very attracted to me and I've been seeing someone in that range for a year now that's a really great connection. But my wife, after her own experiments, won't even entertain anyone younger than 40.