I know that I am but a single male in the middle of nowhere but I appreciate you being there and I wish you well even though it doesn't include the likes of me. Take care.
i would say do not let them single crows to scare u off
i am with u it is wrong and not right for single males not to be in this lifestyle
that is not swinging , how can it be swinging if u r alone
plus it is worng for the sinlge males and select couple to leave u nasty email about
so what u have the right to express your opinoin and if they do not like it so what life moves on and they need to get a life
i am with u it is wrong and not right for single males not to be in this lifestyle
that is not swinging , how can it be swinging if u r alone
plus it is worng for the sinlge males and select couple to leave u nasty email about
so what u have the right to express your opinoin and if they do not like it so what life moves on and they need to get a life
why be nice to single males all they r are a bunch of crows waiting for their next piece of ass and take advantage of couple in bad situations,and it is asad of them to do since they can not get a lady of their own they take advantage of other in a bad time, sorry to say but it is true
ok now why are we all attacking eachother? there is no reason why we all can't get along. if you choose not to meet with single males then fine that is YOUR choice. but don't say that couples that are looking for single males are down on thier luck. i used to swing regularly with a couple when i was stationed in florida. they were a great couple and we spent alot of time together. so you can not judge single males just beacuse you have run into a few bad ones. why can't we just let people have thier own choice and you keep your own choice and we move on from this stupid bashing of eachother. and for those who like to send hate mail to people for expressing thier thoughts then you need to find something better to do with your time.
ahhhh...another man who is to insecure to allow an unattached male have a go at his lady in the fear that he will lose her...
Single men have JUST as much right in the lifestyle as do the unicorns,,,,The Ever Elusive Single Female...
I will just about guarantee that NEITHER of these two couples would turn down a single female!
Ah...but they will not get one...Because single females are so sought after that they can be picky..
Now the whole idea of the single male just sitting and waiting for a piece of ass...is that how you view yourself? a piece of ass? WOW you need help...
AND if the thing about them just sitting and waiting were true, why would a single male say they were not interested in us...not leave the email unread...not just simply delete it...like so many RUDE ass couples...but make an effort to have some class and let us know that they were not interested....
Single men have JUST as much right in the lifestyle as do the unicorns,,,,The Ever Elusive Single Female...
I will just about guarantee that NEITHER of these two couples would turn down a single female!
Ah...but they will not get one...Because single females are so sought after that they can be picky..
Now the whole idea of the single male just sitting and waiting for a piece of ass...is that how you view yourself? a piece of ass? WOW you need help...
AND if the thing about them just sitting and waiting were true, why would a single male say they were not interested in us...not leave the email unread...not just simply delete it...like so many RUDE ass couples...but make an effort to have some class and let us know that they were not interested....
very nicely said jstjim72. how come couple would allow single females but not single males? sounds like a double standard.
Well, yeah it is a double standard, but you show me in the life handbook where fairness is written. Simply put, a good percentage of the girls here are bi and the guys are straight, so a girl will be entertaining for BOTH of the people in the couple. A guy can be a fun toy sometimes and some people dig it. Oh well, what I care. I am not going to call a single guy to come over because it is not fair and we need to entertain them. OR, MAYBE WE SHOULD LIMIT THE NUMBER OF SINGLE GUYS WHO CAN REGISTER FOR THE SITE SO IT MATCHES THE NUMBER OF SINGLE GIRLS (current ratio is roughly 5 guys to 1 girl).....HEY THAT IS FAIR RIGHT?
Yes REAL, your post in my opinion was way off the mark on certain things, but hey, what do you care you are not into it, so you really have no need to understand it. But, you are entitled to your opinion. Now, you know you offended a few people, no biggie. If they are offensive in their reply...well, call it even. I think it is stupid for that to happen and I think they are being juvenile, and the idea of a forum is to share ideas, I think they should have posted their reply so the discussion can move forward. Or maybe enlighten a few more people in the mean time.
So, are you as thin skinned as the people who emailed you.....or are you willing to take the responses that your comments elicit?
Yes REAL, your post in my opinion was way off the mark on certain things, but hey, what do you care you are not into it, so you really have no need to understand it. But, you are entitled to your opinion. Now, you know you offended a few people, no biggie. If they are offensive in their reply...well, call it even. I think it is stupid for that to happen and I think they are being juvenile, and the idea of a forum is to share ideas, I think they should have posted their reply so the discussion can move forward. Or maybe enlighten a few more people in the mean time.
So, are you as thin skinned as the people who emailed you.....or are you willing to take the responses that your comments elicit?
You know, i am a single male and i have never once sent a rude or nasty email. I know that single men have a bad rap in the lifestyle and i am always chill and real. . .if things work out great, if they don't, that is cool. . .and couples have a right to either want only couples or single males or females, just as everyone has a right to pick and chose who they want to talk to and meet...maybe the way to fix things isn't to limit single males but the admin actually taking action on people who are assholes. . ..you know like the guys who send out nasty emails or are jack asses? i remember a long post on here started by someone about someone posting internet pics instead of his own and he started cursing people out and saying some nasty stuff....well what happened? i still see posts from him now and then..obviously nothing was done about it.
oh and the couple in springfield IL who think all single men are crows...man talk about insecure..kind of funny...look man, you have the right to decide whatever you decide. . .but don't go generalizing and calling people names..i don't know you, i have done nothing to you...and despite you thinking that i being a single guy is probably desperate. . .i have never written you . . .so get off it
jay
oh and the couple in springfield IL who think all single men are crows...man talk about insecure..kind of funny...look man, you have the right to decide whatever you decide. . .but don't go generalizing and calling people names..i don't know you, i have done nothing to you...and despite you thinking that i being a single guy is probably desperate. . .i have never written you . . .so get off it
jay
As a single man, I have to respectfully disagree with your thesis in the "single man" thread. Essentially, you are trying to say there is something wrong with couples who wish to add a single man to their play and with the single men who like to do it.
For some women, having 2 men intensely focus on bringing her pleasure is exquisitely wonderful, and their husbands or male partners love them enough to gift them this pleasure without having to have a woman in exchange for sharing. They don't have to be unattractive or have a dysfunctional mate.
And for some of us single males, enjoying the intensity of a threesome with a couple is a wondrous delight. We know we are more or less a sex toy, but witnessing the joy of a woman being pleased beyond belief makes it worth searching out. I am, for instance, not interested in meeting married women alone to "have a piece of ass." It is fun being with open and playful couples.
So, I disagree with you. But it saddens me greatly to hear of the verbal abuse heaped upon you for expressing your opinion. If someone is offended, the proper response is to respectfully voice a counterview, NOT launch an attack upon your person or an insult. Respect is the essence of civility, a quality slipping away in our society and in the world. Abuse leads no where good, and I regret some on this forum resorted to it.
You have made many contributions to this forum, and your departure will be a loss. Please remember you have another option to leaving, and that is to block access by abusive e-mailers. As for abusive posts, there IS a problem. The administrators perhaps could do a better job of scanning posts and deleting abusive comments. But strict censorship can cut both ways. For some posts, such as yours, which some readers might have seen as attacking and dismissive, the administrators might have come down on either side: deleting it as abusive or leaving it in as a strong but extreme position. If I were the administrator, I would have left it in as provocative and representative of a portion of the membership here, even though I disagree with it.
I argue for a higher level of tolerance and civility and extending to all the right to voice their opinion without anyone slinging mud. When someone begins to think he or she is superior to someone else, trouble is sure to follow.
For some women, having 2 men intensely focus on bringing her pleasure is exquisitely wonderful, and their husbands or male partners love them enough to gift them this pleasure without having to have a woman in exchange for sharing. They don't have to be unattractive or have a dysfunctional mate.
And for some of us single males, enjoying the intensity of a threesome with a couple is a wondrous delight. We know we are more or less a sex toy, but witnessing the joy of a woman being pleased beyond belief makes it worth searching out. I am, for instance, not interested in meeting married women alone to "have a piece of ass." It is fun being with open and playful couples.
So, I disagree with you. But it saddens me greatly to hear of the verbal abuse heaped upon you for expressing your opinion. If someone is offended, the proper response is to respectfully voice a counterview, NOT launch an attack upon your person or an insult. Respect is the essence of civility, a quality slipping away in our society and in the world. Abuse leads no where good, and I regret some on this forum resorted to it.
You have made many contributions to this forum, and your departure will be a loss. Please remember you have another option to leaving, and that is to block access by abusive e-mailers. As for abusive posts, there IS a problem. The administrators perhaps could do a better job of scanning posts and deleting abusive comments. But strict censorship can cut both ways. For some posts, such as yours, which some readers might have seen as attacking and dismissive, the administrators might have come down on either side: deleting it as abusive or leaving it in as a strong but extreme position. If I were the administrator, I would have left it in as provocative and representative of a portion of the membership here, even though I disagree with it.
I argue for a higher level of tolerance and civility and extending to all the right to voice their opinion without anyone slinging mud. When someone begins to think he or she is superior to someone else, trouble is sure to follow.
if u all think it is SOOOOOOOO rude to sya bad things about sinlge males then answer this
why is it when u put on your profile couples with bi female or just bi female u get replys from sinlge MALES saying wanna play? come it is not a double standard it is call life live it and enjoy i am just stating a fact and most opinoin so what if u all do not agree so what?
If u ( single males ) answer i have never done that u lie .... i would have to say about all of single males have done it about 5-6 time till they realize what is goign on?
why is it when u put on your profile couples with bi female or just bi female u get replys from sinlge MALES saying wanna play? come it is not a double standard it is call life live it and enjoy i am just stating a fact and most opinoin so what if u all do not agree so what?
If u ( single males ) answer i have never done that u lie .... i would have to say about all of single males have done it about 5-6 time till they realize what is goign on?
Wow, looks like this forum is better left alone!!!! Why doesnt everyone just leave the poor single men alone for hellsakes! Alright, Alright..you might come back at me and say..."Why dont the single men leave us alond"! I get that some single men can be annoying at most.....but We have to wonder...if it annoys you all that much then why dont you just block them from being able to contact you, or when you get a rude, or disrespectful email from a single man (or anyone for that matter) why dont you just not respond, and block that person as well. Maybe this feature doesnt work, but it seems to for us.......
I think it is a little harsh to say that ALL single men are "Crows" or that they will screw anything with legs......WOW, that is a little judgemental wouldnt you say? Besides there are also couples, and single females that would screw anything with legs it isnt just a "single male" thing. Yes, I would agree that there are probably more single men out there that would do that, then couples, or single females.....BUT com on ALL of them get real ppl!!!! There are some decent, respectful, single men in the lifestyle and just like their are single men that are disrespectful, rude, and annoying there are also couples, and single females also. We havent actually experienced any rude, or disrescpect from any single males, couples, or females..BUT we have heard that others have.
So, is it really fair to put all this judgement on single men for hellsakes.....just leave them alone, and if you dont like them then dont mess with them.......block them, ignore them,......cuz I can garantee that you will find annoying couples also out there as well!
As far as REAL not posting anything anymore.......I thought what you posted was very well thought, and opionenated.....BUT I respected what you wrote to be your opinion. It doesnt mean everyone hasta agree, or like what you said but that is the beauty of free speach and the right to voice yours.
GOOD LUCK to everyone and their own ventures.....and if you dont like something or someone that is trying to contact you for some fun...then BLOCK THEM!!!
Nough said
STITCH
I think it is a little harsh to say that ALL single men are "Crows" or that they will screw anything with legs......WOW, that is a little judgemental wouldnt you say? Besides there are also couples, and single females that would screw anything with legs it isnt just a "single male" thing. Yes, I would agree that there are probably more single men out there that would do that, then couples, or single females.....BUT com on ALL of them get real ppl!!!! There are some decent, respectful, single men in the lifestyle and just like their are single men that are disrespectful, rude, and annoying there are also couples, and single females also. We havent actually experienced any rude, or disrescpect from any single males, couples, or females..BUT we have heard that others have.
So, is it really fair to put all this judgement on single men for hellsakes.....just leave them alone, and if you dont like them then dont mess with them.......block them, ignore them,......cuz I can garantee that you will find annoying couples also out there as well!
As far as REAL not posting anything anymore.......I thought what you posted was very well thought, and opionenated.....BUT I respected what you wrote to be your opinion. It doesnt mean everyone hasta agree, or like what you said but that is the beauty of free speach and the right to voice yours.
GOOD LUCK to everyone and their own ventures.....and if you dont like something or someone that is trying to contact you for some fun...then BLOCK THEM!!!
Nough said
STITCH
First of all, Mrs Hunt, I can't wait to see pictures of your new "tah tahs". Screw whoever insulted you, dear, they are just jealous. I plan on doing the saline implants as soon as I have child number 2.
Secondly, and back to the subject WAA- you guys seem extremely close minded and jaded. Are you entirely sure you fit in this lifestyle. This lifestyle is not for everyone and certainly not vanilla judgemental people - not saying you are that but from your posts, it appears that we have some serious issues from some bad experience.
And for the actual couple that are leaving the forum scene just because of a few rude private comments. I agree that those comments were from cowards too afraid to have their opinions be seen... let them be the cowards. DONT MIMIC THEM and stop sharing your opinion. I have seen many many posts from you guys and LOVE TO LOOK AT YOUR PICS - you very cleverly, yet bluntly share your opinions and it stirs things up, makes things fun. Don't run away. Don't be cowards too. COme on now.
Secondly, and back to the subject WAA- you guys seem extremely close minded and jaded. Are you entirely sure you fit in this lifestyle. This lifestyle is not for everyone and certainly not vanilla judgemental people - not saying you are that but from your posts, it appears that we have some serious issues from some bad experience.
And for the actual couple that are leaving the forum scene just because of a few rude private comments. I agree that those comments were from cowards too afraid to have their opinions be seen... let them be the cowards. DONT MIMIC THEM and stop sharing your opinion. I have seen many many posts from you guys and LOVE TO LOOK AT YOUR PICS - you very cleverly, yet bluntly share your opinions and it stirs things up, makes things fun. Don't run away. Don't be cowards too. COme on now.
keep on posting 
Real, we have been in the lifestyle for quite sometime and I would say at least 50% of the couples we know enjoy single males from time to time as well as single females. It has nothing to do with the women as you say are too into themselves etc. I think your problem is simply lack of self esteem & insecurity within yourselves and your relationship. Any nasty letters you recieved were well deserved as your comments were out of line not to mention rude, ignorant & judgemental.
Our .02
For us singles work well. It
For us singles work well. It
have to say my experince is not bad it is truth and i am sorry to hear u say that i am rude and ill mannered or what ever,,, it is true sinlge men on what i say wether anyone want to admit it or not if u go to a camp for all people ... couples, female and males. female u do not see there and the sinlge male u see there are like crows looking for there next meal sorta speak
i am sorry to say but it is real
i am sorry to say but it is real
WAAAAA...Perhaps you have been with the wrong crowds...Judging by your total lack of spelling, general articulation of words, and lack of educated posts thusfar, I would say you definitely have been to the wrong places.
We have been to numerous clubs, and our experience is that there are nights to allow single men to be where they wish, when they wish, without invitations. BUT there are nights also that are solely for couples...NO SINGLE MEN OR WOMEN allowed away from the bar area...This way, couples can sit at the tables, talk amongst other couples, and IF THEY SO DESIRE, ask a single person to join them....IF the singles break any of the house rules, they are imediately ejected from the premises, HOWEVER, we have had FAR MORE closed doors opened, men in groping without ANY sort of indication of interest, and things of this nature from men who were part of a couple than any single males...So the same could be said about ANY man...
As to the whole thing..Put it to rest, everyone has an interest, everyone has their own rules,,,Let them be...There is room in the lifestyle, the websites, and the world for us all...
Mrs Hunt...I see your pics, and I do not think you need aftermarket assistance, BUT if that is what makes YOU happy, I cannot wait to see the results...I am amazed by your beauty now...Cannot imagine what would be improved, but drooling at the thought of imrovments...OMFG...Still cannot see anything that needs it though...Let us know when you post the new pics....AND then get your ass back to Florida...Haven't you figured out it gets cold in Colorado?
We have been to numerous clubs, and our experience is that there are nights to allow single men to be where they wish, when they wish, without invitations. BUT there are nights also that are solely for couples...NO SINGLE MEN OR WOMEN allowed away from the bar area...This way, couples can sit at the tables, talk amongst other couples, and IF THEY SO DESIRE, ask a single person to join them....IF the singles break any of the house rules, they are imediately ejected from the premises, HOWEVER, we have had FAR MORE closed doors opened, men in groping without ANY sort of indication of interest, and things of this nature from men who were part of a couple than any single males...So the same could be said about ANY man...
As to the whole thing..Put it to rest, everyone has an interest, everyone has their own rules,,,Let them be...There is room in the lifestyle, the websites, and the world for us all...
Mrs Hunt...I see your pics, and I do not think you need aftermarket assistance, BUT if that is what makes YOU happy, I cannot wait to see the results...I am amazed by your beauty now...Cannot imagine what would be improved, but drooling at the thought of imrovments...OMFG...Still cannot see anything that needs it though...Let us know when you post the new pics....AND then get your ass back to Florida...Haven't you figured out it gets cold in Colorado?
jstjim72 did not know we lived ina perfect world sorry u r a teacher and perfect at everything so what if i can type i never claimed i did like the sexy mrs hunt if i have it right it is OPINOIN.. GET IT AN OPINOIN .... which means for u since u can not understand forums it is what i feel and have experince , SOOOOOOOOOOO.... if u had better experince GREAT so the f*** what enjoy , i never attack anyone personal but if any wants it that away so be bring on. if not i am express my OPINOIN
mrs hunt u r sexy for the record
mrs hunt u r sexy for the record
OK Waaaaa...Whatever...BUT in closing... F*CK YO*....wanna buy a vowel?
oh u wanna tissue for it lol u big baby!!!! poor thing
oh by the way in closing...... tell your wife thanks
oh by the way in closing...... tell your wife thanks
Wow... I thought this lifestyle was about acceptance. Letting folks enjoy the flavors that they wanna enjoy. Different strokes for different folks?!? Single males, single females, three headed midgets, some are for me some aren't. If I'm not interested, I politely let them know. When I contact somebody that isn't into my flava, I get a clue and move on. If I have an opinion, or bias about a group of people, I show the class that mama taught me and keep my mouth shut. We have a choice, and we all belong to a group of people that SOMEBODY doesn't like. I'm trying, very unsuccessfully to get around another cliche, but for Buddha's sake, treat others with the respect and dignity with which you'd like to be treated! Simple rule! If you brandish your opinions like a sword, be prepared for a duel.
Our 2 pennies
Our 2 pennies
We have been away for a while and all I can say to all of this is "WOW"
why does mrs h get to have all the fun....i have my paddle ready!
Waaaa...I am not here to argue with you...but when you post obvious ignorance, I post ignorance back...The biggest problem we have is that your ignorance SHOULD be painful...IF you took the time to read the profile, you would see we are not married...But alas...that is to difficult for you to grasp...therefore I am calling a cease-fire in this battle of wits, as I can see you are obviously unarmed.
NOW, as to thanking her...I will do so...it is always good to thank someone for a sympathy fuck such as you would be....
VALANCE>..WTF is a Narwal? LOL
NOW, as to thanking her...I will do so...it is always good to thank someone for a sympathy fuck such as you would be....
VALANCE>..WTF is a Narwal? LOL
ok ENOUGH, Real if you stop posting your giving up your own right as a free american (which maybe we all better enjoy while it still last) Waaaa seems to us maybe you have only had a very secluded experience with 1 place but GAWD LET IT DIE you guys are just fighting between yourselves and Mrs H .....more pics plz lol ok soap box is open. Mr Leggs
OK...I will do this as I am smart enough and advanced enough to do this...
To anyone I offended, I apologize, I also apologize for attacking anyone who I deemed being unintelligent...ALso apologize to everyone on this site for making you read it all...
Lets make love, not war, it is enough that we have to put up with the BS the general public thinks of us in the lifestyle alone...No need to attack each other on top of it...
Hugs to all...
Mr JST (the one who usually posts in here)
Now we can end this string
To anyone I offended, I apologize, I also apologize for attacking anyone who I deemed being unintelligent...ALso apologize to everyone on this site for making you read it all...
Lets make love, not war, it is enough that we have to put up with the BS the general public thinks of us in the lifestyle alone...No need to attack each other on top of it...
Hugs to all...
Mr JST (the one who usually posts in here)
Now we can end this string
ok who's first?????
jstjim if u want to a fight guess what dumb ass u messed with the wrong person your ignorance of things seems to be worse than anyones,
i do not care what u r and who the f*** u r . so why don't your white trash P.O.S.( for u jst jim since u r slow means piece of sh**) self back to where u came from. and leave things alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i do not care what u r and who the f*** u r . so why don't your white trash P.O.S.( for u jst jim since u r slow means piece of sh**) self back to where u came from. and leave things alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You know I'm not one to chime in on subjects like this, but, WAAA, it seems the person/persons who offended you made a very strong effort to apologize to you and you want to continue running your cyber mouth. Just let it go, move on, jerk off, or whatever it is you do.It's situations like this that stopped a lot of the former regulars from frequenting this site. Just my take on the whole debacle that started off seemingly innocent. Beast
Well said, Beast! There are so many other fascinating topics that could be discussed instead of this and its a shame when this shit happens and wonderful ppl end up so upset they don't want to contribute to the rich and vibrant variety which is this site and the lifestyle. To each there own and for the sake of all that is hot and sexy in the world please stay in your own corners if you can't play nice!
-SG
-SG