Mrs Just4fun here. Mr Just4fun and I are getting fed up of either the low quality single males or couples who don't appear to be genuine. What's the best way to strike up a conversation with either a quality single male or married male, and for Mr Just4fun a quality hotwife or lady.
I'm looking for someone I can flirt with and eventually meet with us, and happy to exchange cell numbers with the right person. Start with a message here not just a friend request!
EDIT: My initial message might have been confusing, it opened the floodgates to singles males. Please only couples (male or female half) message us now. But no "secrets", we want you both to be into it, if hall pass then the other aware and ideally your wife to say hello at some point. That said I'm happy to talk to the Mr while we establish chemistry.
I'm looking for someone I can flirt with and eventually meet with us, and happy to exchange cell numbers with the right person. Start with a message here not just a friend request!
EDIT: My initial message might have been confusing, it opened the floodgates to singles males. Please only couples (male or female half) message us now. But no "secrets", we want you both to be into it, if hall pass then the other aware and ideally your wife to say hello at some point. That said I'm happy to talk to the Mr while we establish chemistry.
We were just talking about the "Utah Phenomenon " with some other LS couples. After 20 in the LS, UT is the first place we jave been where after multiple conversations on the eebsite, kik,and text, ee arrange a get together for drinks/dinner etc. Usually about 15 min prior to expected show we get the "disappointing" news..."wife had (insert crisis here) and can't make it, so sorry lets reschedule another time (code forvall my accounts will be canceled)". This is why we usually try to meet at a restaurant, at least we have a great meal together!
Probably not what you might want to hear, but the "best way" in our experience has been to find a COUPLE that has similar sexual interests (hotwife/stag/bull...whatever) and meet as a couple and then go from there. That's how we've done it in the past and it seemed to work out much better for some reason. YMMV
In the not so distant future meet and greets will start up again. Its hard to beat face to face meetings to know who’s for real and who you’ll find attractive. Happy hunting!
just4funxxx11 wrote:
Mrs Just4fun here. Mr Just4fun and I are getting fed up of either the low quality single males or couples who don't appear to be genuine. What's the best way to strike up a conversation with either a quality single male or married male, and for Mr Just4fun a quality hotwife or lady.
I'm looking for someone I can flirt with and eventually meet with us, and happy to exchange cell numbers with the right person. Start with a message here not just a friend request!
We experience this in Vegas. But, it's only with visitors to Vegas. We don't experience flaking with locals here. For all we hear about it being difficult in Utah, we've been very fortunate to have spent time with many quality couples in Utah. When we meet a couple, we introduce them to our friends. We have also met couples by friends who introduced us to their friends. You just need one or two good couples and your new friendships increase exponentially.
I wouldn't judge too much by how the past year has been. So many couples, ourselves included, are just laying low until this pandemic has passed. There is definitely less activity than there would normally be. Patience is called for. Hopefully soon, there will be all kinds of parties and other social gatherings starting up again, and it will become much easier to meet people again.
just4funxxx11 wrote:
Mrs Just4fun here. Mr Just4fun and I are getting fed up of either the low quality single males or couples who don't appear to be genuine. What's the best way to strike up a conversation with either a quality single male or married male, and for Mr Just4fun a quality hotwife or lady.
I'm looking for someone I can flirt with and eventually meet with us, and happy to exchange cell numbers with the right person. Start with a message here not just a friend request!
Hey Mrs Just4fun, we can definitely help you out and we're already friends on this site! We've had a lot of fun meeting other couples and texting and flirting is always entertaining... Just message us here or my k user name is carguy801. Talk to you soon!
EverPassingMoment wrote:
Many people new to this get REAL eager at first, but then get a little gun shy, or maybe they are fakes/flakes. It's unfortunate because at that point lots of time and effort has been spent, and it feels unfair to those who are truly ready.
That's the feeling we have felt...particularly from the younger generation who seem keen on our comfort level of slow and soft. Perhaps they like the idea but, at the end of the day, aren't even ready for that. Or, they're afraid that we have false teeth ready to fall from our mouths at the first bump in the trail. Who knows...
I think it’s a combination of things. Some
People just don’t like to develop conversations via text. My girl is one of them. She hates texting and any social media. She’s happy to meet up in person but hates texting (especially when eventually we don’t end up meeting the couple because they flake). I actually like both, texting, flirting and being the one who initiates the meetings for us (me).
Second the whole COVID thing which i hope is over soon. That’s made it difficult to meet up as well, but I feel like that still shouldn’t give reason to flake at the last minute.
Maybe to some people are only making and when they’re “horny” then flake out when they’re not LOL. Who knows?
People just don’t like to develop conversations via text. My girl is one of them. She hates texting and any social media. She’s happy to meet up in person but hates texting (especially when eventually we don’t end up meeting the couple because they flake). I actually like both, texting, flirting and being the one who initiates the meetings for us (me).
Second the whole COVID thing which i hope is over soon. That’s made it difficult to meet up as well, but I feel like that still shouldn’t give reason to flake at the last minute.
Maybe to some people are only making and when they’re “horny” then flake out when they’re not LOL. Who knows?
OlympusCVCouple wrote:
I think it’s a combination of things. Some
People just don’t like to develop conversations via text. My girl is one of them. She hates texting and any social media. She’s happy to meet up in person but hates texting (especially when eventually we don’t end up meeting the couple because they flake). I actually like both, texting, flirting and being the one who initiates the meetings for us (me).
Second the whole COVID thing which i hope is over soon. That’s made it difficult to meet up as well, but I feel like that still shouldn’t give reason to flake at the last minute.
Maybe to some people are only making and when they’re “horny” then flake out when they’re not LOL. Who knows?
Same! You bring up valid points. My wife hates flirting through texting. She would just rather meet face to face and flirt. On the other hand, I enjoy texting.
SO it sounds like meeting in person works for most ladies. We are into that also!
OlympusCVCouple wrote:
I think it’s a combination of things. Some
People just don’t like to develop conversations via text.
If we had to develop a conversation via texting, it wouldn't happen. Personally, I find it aggravating using the phone screen for any thing more than the briefest of messages to friends. As such, we have done nearly all of our correspondence here via a PC, using a large screen and nice ergo keyboard. Of course, I enjoy writing and realize many don't.
We have experienced a lot of this in just the first week of being on here as a couple. We are ready to meet, but most messages we get are just wanting to chat or exchange pics. We have a TON of pics, yet they want more when they only have a handful of mostly the female half on their profiles. It seems very lopsided to us.
We have met one couple, and that went well, but most people seem disingenuous. We may be new to this site, but we are most definitely NOT gun shy.
We have met one couple, and that went well, but most people seem disingenuous. We may be new to this site, but we are most definitely NOT gun shy.
We agree. There are a lot of flakes. Hard to find people who are hear for some fun and it just a friend request.
The wifey isn't super flirty via text or snap chat until she has meet someone in person and some people get upset thinking she isn't interested but once we've meet and a comfort level is established then her conversation become way more fun.
We've found a lot of people on here will email back and forth, a couple kik messages and either your setting something up or there gone. We have always preferred a little conversation on here and then setting up dinner or drinks to see if there's a connection.
We've found a lot of people on here will email back and forth, a couple kik messages and either your setting something up or there gone. We have always preferred a little conversation on here and then setting up dinner or drinks to see if there's a connection.
TOTALLY4FUN wrote:That is exactly us!!!
We agree with many of the points mentioned. I'm definitely one of the wives who dislikes texting and communication on any form of social media. On the other hand, my husband loves it.
Also, we fall into the category that when we're ready...we're ready. It's soooo difficult for us to plan eroticism. We understand that everyone has schedules, but we are way more likely to meet with a couple if we're in the mood and it's somewhat spontaneous.
just4funxxx11 wrote:
Mrs Just4fun here. Mr Just4fun and I are getting fed up of either the low quality single males or couples who don't appear to be genuine. What's the best way to strike up a conversation with either a quality single male or married male, and for Mr Just4fun a quality hotwife or lady.
I'm looking for someone I can flirt with and eventually meet with us, and happy to exchange cell numbers with the right person. Start with a message here not just a friend request!
EDIT: My initial message might have been confusing, it opened the floodgates to singles males. Please only couples (male or female half) message us now. But no "secrets", we want you both to be into it, if hall pass then the other aware and ideally your wife to say hello at some point. That said I'm happy to talk to the Mr while we establish chemistry.
I am so sorry that you still have not found that suitable partner for you, sometimes it is difficult to find partners, we are 100% real. and we are always open and available to others, if you like we can txt, just a small detail we are not from the athletic body, but we are fun, feel free to send us a message and we can talk !!