I need to have some people in Utah, in the exmo community reach out, couples, so I can introduce my wife to it. She wants to have a group sexual experience, but I can't set it up, I have to introduce it to her softly, so I would like to have someone reach out to me, so I can work her into it. How do I do this.
Agree with mtnwild1 on this. Start simple with going to dinner with couples that she can talk to and no pressure or expectations of doing anything more. If she isn't ok with that, then the chances of more are not good.
Agree with the advise above. TRUST IS A MUST with the lifestyle. If you start off without trust then I can almost guarantee it will not end well. Good luck on your journey. It's not a race.
Yup. Our experience has been that if you in any way push or force the issue you're gonna have a bad time.
Thanks for the advise. I am trying to figure out the softest way to get her introduced to it. I am going to have to work on this, I suppose.
We are exmormon and have a lot of experience and resources in helping people deal with leaving the church. Glad to provide that type of support. That said, all the advice above, is critical to understand, if you want want to successfully navigate the lifestyle.
Leaving Mormonism and joining the LS all at the same time can be a real double whammy on a relationship. I would recommend taking your time dealing with leaving the church and how it effects your relationship. Then down the road have honest communication about how the LS might work into your relationship.
Just to be clear, we are glad to provide exmo support, but not interested in helping you "trick" your wife into the LS. And I don't mean "Trick" in a mean way, I just couldn't think of a better word.
Goodluck.
Leaving Mormonism and joining the LS all at the same time can be a real double whammy on a relationship. I would recommend taking your time dealing with leaving the church and how it effects your relationship. Then down the road have honest communication about how the LS might work into your relationship.
Just to be clear, we are glad to provide exmo support, but not interested in helping you "trick" your wife into the LS. And I don't mean "Trick" in a mean way, I just couldn't think of a better word.
Goodluck.
DRAGONPUPS wrote:
We are exmormon and have a lot of experience and resources in helping people deal with leaving the church. Glad to provide that type of support. That said, all the advice above, is critical to understand, if you want want to successfully navigate the lifestyle.
Leaving Mormonism and joining the LS all at the same time can be a real double whammy on a relationship. I would recommend taking your time dealing with leaving the church and how it effects your relationship. Then down the road have honest communication about how the LS might work into your relationship.
Just to be clear, we are glad to provide exmo support, but not interested in helping you "trick" your wife into the LS. And I don't mean "Trick" in a mean way, I just couldn't think of a better word.
Goodluck.
Fantastic advice there