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We are mostly couples enjoying other couples company question is does the size of the males penis really matter to the other couples wife/girlfriend? What do you do if you think he is not fun because of it? Thanks
For us it really doesn't matter one way or the other but was wondering what other couples thought.
Doesn't matter to my wife. She would rather have average than some thing gigantic. 😂 For her now about the connection than the cock...
The wife says as long as there is a least something to work with, skill is more important than the size of the equipment. That said, she wears this...
WHTBOYANDLATINA wrote:

The wife says as long as there is a least something to work with, skill is more important than the size of the equipment. That said, she wears this...


That is awesome lol
Fatjesusandwife wrote:

Doesn't matter to my wife. She would rather have average than some thing gigantic. 😂 For her now about the connection than the cock...


Couldn't agree with you more. That's how we fill
I don't believe there is a universal answer. Depends on personal preference. There is no right or wrong answer. However, when people with complimenting attributes and desires meet up, then the experience has a potential of being wonderful. It's just a matter of meeting someone that works for you and vise versa.
For me size does matter and is definitely something I ask about before I play. But as free123play said above, when complimenting attributes meetup it can be awesome fun.
According to Lady Delicious, as for playing with couples, no not really. Hot wife play, well, it's visually more stimulating, as is having sex with men that look really different than me. I am one of those guys that loves to watch her in a deep sensual, erotic, intimate orgasmic penetrative embrace, and she really gets excited knowing I'm watching. With that said, one of her favorite single guys, who she played with somewhat frequently, before the pandemic and his ending up in a vanilla relationship, has a smaller penis than I do. Actually quite a few single guys she has enjoyed have smaller penises than I do. Honest advantage to a larger penis is that with a bit more length a guy can get all the way to the back of a woman's posterior fornix. If a guy can get under her cervix into that pocket, instead of painfully banging against her cervix, that is a different sensation and different is why we play this game. Having been swinging for almost two decades now, we've had quite a bit of experience. Deep fornix fucking, frankly, for our lady, it's great, but you can have too much of a good thing. It would not be her everyday choice, it can leave her sore, but yes, sometimes we both love for her have a really big dick encounter. She frankly prefers that a guy can find her anterior fornix, that pocket just before her cervix, penetrate it just right and know how to thrust just enough as to not bang into the cervix. Our thought is if we could have our Friday fish and chips, followed by a Friday hung bull encounter, once a week, that would be about right for her. If a guy is too long, and all the way in means, he can't fully penetrate balls deep then there is a loss of magic button, wearing a hood, portion of the clitoris stimulation. Every woman's anatomy is different, and the bliss in sex, for most of us, but maybe more so women, has to do with a lot of variables beyond penetration. First a guy, be he part of a couple, or single, has to be polite and charming. From there discovering new ways to match up with new lovers is part of the joy of swinging!
Hell Yes size matters! It’s the Golidilocks Principle and I want a cock that’s Juuuust right lol 😂
Does this mean you’re grading on a curve?
From a size perspective, the advantage of a long penis, is that the male partner can use as much of that length as the lady wants. However, this takes some level of communication and familiarity.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

Does this mean you’re grading on a curve?


Haha sort of ... but my personal satisfaction curve would stay high on the “big” end of the spectrum 😉
FREE123PLAY wrote:

I don't believe there is a universal answer. Depends on personal preference. There is no right or wrong answer. However, when people with complimenting attributes and desires meet up, then the experience has a potential of being wonderful. It's just a matter of meeting someone that works for you and vise versa.


Your profile pic is 🔥🔥, btw.
FunKinkyDuo wrote:

Hell Yes size matters! It’s the Golidilocks Principle and I want a cock that’s Juuuust right lol 😂


I would like to think that I'm in the goldilocks category. 😊
So Mrs Ski evaluates on the goldilocks principle also. There is a threshold of too small and too big. Skill is also a vital component. If a guy is big but is a rammer then it not gonna be very good. If a guy is smaller then he better be skilled in other areas. Personally I feel very fortunate to slightly larger than average.
WHTBOYANDLATINA wrote:

That said, she wears this...


That's a great smile in that pic. :)