Serious question. Is anybody interested in calling out singles posing as couples?
We have no issues with singles, but we do when we think they are a couple. We have been chatting with a couple of people that say they are a couple, but can't/won't provide any proof of it. Once we ask them for current photos of them together they disappear like they have been caught. Just wondering if this would be a good place to post names of those known singles acting as couples? Please discuss.
We have no issues with singles, but we do when we think they are a couple. We have been chatting with a couple of people that say they are a couple, but can't/won't provide any proof of it. Once we ask them for current photos of them together they disappear like they have been caught. Just wondering if this would be a good place to post names of those known singles acting as couples? Please discuss.
I recently had experienced this. I called him out .
I recently had experienced this. I called him out .
I do not want to out somebody if they are valid, but if we know somebody is a single posing as a couple, would it be appropriate to list their profile name?
I will call to the stand myself!...jk
We use to chat several people who this was a suspected issue with. There's also the people who you are pretty sure they're a couple, yet he is the ONLY one that is ever available to play. I tend to question if she is really aware of that. I too have a hall pass but my wife will at least jump in a k.i.k chat and make her appearance known and acceptance to me joining another couple.
Single or couple? 
Just ask them to Facetime, then you'll know for sure 💁🏻♀️
Mmm don't understand why would people lie whats the point if eventually they won't be able to meet and get caught so dumb but I gues there is guys playing that game here .
NOLA985 wrote:
Just ask them to Facetime, then you'll know for sure 💁🏻♀️
Yeah. We have and never could get them together, thats weird I wonder why........ lol.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Single or couple?
I would call that a...........SCOUPLE 🤷🏼♂️
the single male posing as a couple phenomena is as old as swinging
One of the funniest replies we ever got, "I know you guys are not looking for single males but the good news is that I'm married so I fit the bill."
One of the funniest replies we ever got, "I know you guys are not looking for single males but the good news is that I'm married so I fit the bill."
Ahhh the Cancel Culture is strong lol ... we don’t like guys posing as couples either, but it’s pretty easy to figure it out.
Run into this a lot! 99% of time!
SUENDAN wrote:
the single male posing as a couple phenomena is as old as swinging
One of the funniest replies we ever got, "I know you guys are not looking for single males but the good news is that I'm married so I fit the bill."
At least he’s honest🤣
SNOEFUN wrote:
At least he’s honest🤣
with us yes
with his wife, I doubt it
We have noticed the same thing a lot.
So I'm currently a single male with a couple's profile. I state it on my profile and I'm not trying to hide anything, but it would be a lot easier to not be "posing" if Swingular made it easier to change your profile type. When I moved from single to couple with an ex-partner of mine, it took about a month and required admins to get involved. So when she decided to go monogamous with one of the other people she was dating, I just decided to wait and not go through the hassle since I wasn't likely to be very active in the lifestyle (at least with people I didn't already know) until after I started dating again anyway. You'd think it would be easy to change types, but Swingular makes it difficult to change your profile if your life circumstances change and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
HoneyBunnies wrote:
So I'm currently a single male with a couple's profile. I state it on my profile and I'm not trying to hide anything, but it would be a lot easier to not be "posing" if Swingular made it easier to change your profile type. When I moved from single to couple with an ex-partner of mine, it took about a month and required admins to get involved. So when she decided to go monogamous with one of the other people she was dating, I just decided to wait and not go through the hassle since I wasn't likely to be very active in the lifestyle (at least with people I didn't already know) until after I started dating again anyway. You'd think it would be easy to change types, but Swingular makes it difficult to change your profile if your life circumstances change and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
That's a great story, And I understand swingular site has issues for sure, but the one thing you could change immediately is your description. In big BOLD letters you could say you were a single but swingular is not changing my status. But to just play along with the game because couples get more action is very deceiving and dishonest. And that is why this thread was started. There are many keyboard warriors out there just snooping around and collecting photos. But some of us are true couples looking to meet other cool couples. If we wanted to meet desperate singles we would search them out.
I mean, I didn't capitalize the letter, but I put it in the tagline at the top and it's literally the entire first paragraph of the description. At that point if someone misses it they're probably just 'snooping around and collecting photos' and probably not someone I actually want to talk to 
Update: I did realize that I hadn't taken off the 'her' preferences, so I updated all of those to NA today. That was an oversight, so thanks for the catch
Update: I did realize that I hadn't taken off the 'her' preferences, so I updated all of those to NA today. That was an oversight, so thanks for the catch
HoneyBunnies wrote:Well that is commendable. You are the only one to ever do it. So good job. If singles would at least do that instead of posing as couples, they would get far more action. Many of us are not apposed to playing with singles, we just don't want to be deceived while we are chatting for a while thinking it is a couple until we ask them for proof.
I mean, I didn't capitalize the letter, but I put it in the tagline at the top and it's literally the entire first paragraph of the description. At that point if someone misses it they're probably just 'snooping around and collecting photos' and probably not someone I actually want to talk to
HoneyBunnies wrote:
I mean, I didn't capitalize the letter, but I put it in the tagline at the top and it's literally the entire first paragraph of the description. At that point if someone misses it they're probably just 'snooping around and collecting photos' and probably not someone I actually want to talk to
Ya also might wanna delete (or at least crop them) the pics that have your ex in them since the majority have her included or by herself. I can't imagine she would be too happy to know there are nude pics of her on your "single male" profile. Just a thought.
I can definitely see that argument. I left them up because I don't have many "lifestyle" pictures of me by myself. I did reach out to her and ask if she wanted them taken down, and she said it was okay to leave them up. I figured I would either replace or add to them when I started being more active in the lifestyle again.
But anyway, I didn't mean to hijack the thread. The point of this was that while there definitely are singles pretending to be couples for whatever reason, there are also legitimate reasons for a single to be on a 'couples' profile because of the way Swingular functions. I've seen other singles (both male and female) have do something similar with their profiles over the years.
But anyway, I didn't mean to hijack the thread. The point of this was that while there definitely are singles pretending to be couples for whatever reason, there are also legitimate reasons for a single to be on a 'couples' profile because of the way Swingular functions. I've seen other singles (both male and female) have do something similar with their profiles over the years.
There's several groups for essentially this purpose already created. They're pretty useless because theres no notifications in the groups so its manual to check for updates but I think that's a better fit than trying to keep it in the forums.
I am interested
HoneyBunnies wrote:
So I'm currently a single male with a couple's profile. I state it on my profile and I'm not trying to hide anything, but it would be a lot easier to not be "posing" if Swingular made it easier to change your profile type. When I moved from single to couple with an ex-partner of mine, it took about a month and required admins to get involved. So when she decided to go monogamous with one of the other people she was dating, I just decided to wait and not go through the hassle since I wasn't likely to be very active in the lifestyle (at least with people I didn't already know) until after I started dating again anyway. You'd think it would be easy to change types, but Swingular makes it difficult to change your profile if your life circumstances change and I'm sure I'm not the only one.
Awww why o' why is life is soooo hard and complicated?? JUst get a new profile, jeez