I've been on and off the site for a few years now. I've noticed that a lot of members are older, late 40's and in their 50's. Does a late 30's guy have a chance to meet new friends even if I'm younger?
age should never matter, when i was a young man in my 30s that is when i started the lifestyle i have played with women in there 50s and up,,,sexy is sexy no matter the age
This is one of those questions there isn't an answer for. There are so many variables besides age that come into play. We can personally say age does matter to us. If you are too young we just find we won't have much in common and for us it's more about friendships. Each couple is different and has different desires and fantasies. Some like really young, others don't. Just like with anything if you are patient and willing to try we are sure you will find a match. Just keep swimming 
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!Everyone is different. We have a 20 year age gap and meet lots of people of different ages.
Be yourself, be respectful, head out to a club and chat with people. The age range when we were there was pretty diverse.
Be yourself, be respectful, head out to a club and chat with people. The age range when we were there was pretty diverse.
I would think there would be plenty of cougars out there eager to get to know a younger guy.
From our position, where we're looking for a like-minded couple to recreate with... with the possibility of the friendship having some benefits, age does play a role since many people our age are not as active as they once were. But, we're still doing the same stuff we were 20-30 years ago. So, if we were focusing on folks our age or close to, it would make an already difficult search that much more so.....
We recreate with and get along great with folks in their 30s fairly often...some of which my wife and me agree we'd be interested in...if they were interested in us. So, being open to far younger folks than us, increases our odds. But, from the perspective of 30 something year olds on Swingular, who have never been around us...I'm guessing most will see our age in our profile and skip on by. Bummer but understandable.
Bottom line for us is that a younger age doesn't matter as long as we're on similar wave lengths.
From our position, where we're looking for a like-minded couple to recreate with... with the possibility of the friendship having some benefits, age does play a role since many people our age are not as active as they once were. But, we're still doing the same stuff we were 20-30 years ago. So, if we were focusing on folks our age or close to, it would make an already difficult search that much more so.....
We recreate with and get along great with folks in their 30s fairly often...some of which my wife and me agree we'd be interested in...if they were interested in us. So, being open to far younger folks than us, increases our odds. But, from the perspective of 30 something year olds on Swingular, who have never been around us...I'm guessing most will see our age in our profile and skip on by. Bummer but understandable.
Bottom line for us is that a younger age doesn't matter as long as we're on similar wave lengths.
Age DOES matter...up to a point. We certainly, whether we like to admit it or not, factor age into our selection criteria. But having said that, we've found throughout our swinging tenure that ultimately it's a secondary factor. Attraction, and not just physical attraction, is a bigger factor, at least for us, than age.
Early on in our lifestyle experiences, physical attraction was, sadly, more important to us. But once we kind of got the whole 'sex with other people' thing out of our system we quickly found that an emotional/intellectual connection was FAR more compelling. Now, I guess you could say that we look for a "who" and not a "what"...and by that I mean compatible personalities and interests are much more attractive to us and quite often ultimately lead to an enhanced physical attraction as well. YMMV
Early on in our lifestyle experiences, physical attraction was, sadly, more important to us. But once we kind of got the whole 'sex with other people' thing out of our system we quickly found that an emotional/intellectual connection was FAR more compelling. Now, I guess you could say that we look for a "who" and not a "what"...and by that I mean compatible personalities and interests are much more attractive to us and quite often ultimately lead to an enhanced physical attraction as well. YMMV
Under the right circumstances age will not matter. The circumstance for us was at Naughty n Nawlins in the group playroom. I have no idea the woman’s age but I know she was much younger than me and we certainly enjoyed the sex 😄. My wife has been with younger guys also and it was like ok...just did that.
We are probably too old for couples 15 to 20 years younger than us and we are surprised when we attract their attention on this or any other site. We always entertain getting naked with couples who we connect with regardless of age. Of course with covid and infection rates of 30% we choose not to be with anyone besides ourselves and some very close friends. We are hoping that changes soon and everyone can get their freak on and cum out to play again.
We are probably too old for couples 15 to 20 years younger than us and we are surprised when we attract their attention on this or any other site. We always entertain getting naked with couples who we connect with regardless of age. Of course with covid and infection rates of 30% we choose not to be with anyone besides ourselves and some very close friends. We are hoping that changes soon and everyone can get their freak on and cum out to play again.
Age doesn't matter to us, but we're the exception. We don't get offers to swing with younger couples because couples who are young enough for her don't want to play with him, and many older couples don't want to play with a woman as young as her. But we find that older couples are more likely to be open minded enough to accommodate the age difference.
I try to keep it to 15 yrs older or less than 10 years younger. That keeps me out of my parents and kids ends of the dating/fucking pools and gives me a greater chance of having life and interests in common.
Age to the male half doesn't matter. To the female half she prefers under 50. She of course is younger then I.
DANDJ82 wrote:
I've been on and off the site for a few years now. I've noticed that a lot of members are older, late 40's and in their 50's. Does a late 30's guy have a chance to meet new friends even if I'm younger?
absolutely not! single men have very little chance to meet cpls at any age