My wife has been getting very excited thinking about being tied up and giving up control. Is there anyone out here that has any knowledge or experience in this area?
We live in Salt Lake County, Utah
We live in Salt Lake County, Utah
FREE123PLAY wrote:Lots of different variations and levels here but there are a lots of groups and people that are experienced in this. Just be cautious of which ones you attempt first. Some are more friendly to the newness, others aren't.
My wife has been getting very excited thinking about being tied up and giving up control. Is there anyone out here that has any knowledge or experience in this area?
We live in Salt Lake County, Utah
My husband is quite a good amateur. We have learned a couple different styles that lend to a good experience. We could teach you some safe comfortable things to get started
Just Google BDSM bondage tutorials. There are a lot of educational sites and videos. And set up a Fetlife profile.
Our NUKE group holds regular BDSM/Kink events, where you can learn, see others, be in a safe place where consent and BDSM safety is shared and required, and when ready to do more than watch, enjoy with your own partner, or meet other swinger or kink play partners.
They've been called some of the best parties in Utah, with lifestyle, kink, and poly crowds welcome.
Covid-19 obviously put a stop to big parties, but there are opportunities for private introductions and coaching and catered experiences along those lines.
They've been called some of the best parties in Utah, with lifestyle, kink, and poly crowds welcome.
Covid-19 obviously put a stop to big parties, but there are opportunities for private introductions and coaching and catered experiences along those lines.
Sounds like a fun time. Take some pictures and let us know how it all goes.
We are also new to bondage and ir is probably the hottest thing we've added to our sex! Except other people of course. 🙂
FREE123PLAY wrote:
My wife has been getting very excited thinking about being tied up and giving up control. Is there anyone out here that has any knowledge or experience in this area?
We live in Salt Lake County, Utah
make sure you agree on a safe word
ours is cattywampus now but for a long time it was flibbertigibbet. had to make the change because flibbertigibbet was tricky for the wife to pronounce while wearing a gag ball
We started in BDSM, take your time and explore as many kinks as you can. Have fun and be safe!
Would be cool if one of the local clubs did a tasting night, the clubs in Denver did it about once a month. It was a lot of fun!
Would be cool if one of the local clubs did a tasting night, the clubs in Denver did it about once a month. It was a lot of fun!
KRFunCouple wrote:
We started in BDSM, take your time and explore as many kinks as you can. Have fun and be safe!
Would be cool if one of the local clubs did a tasting night, the clubs in Denver did it about once a month. It was a lot of fun!
It’s not for everyone, but we love quite a few different kink fetishes. We’ve started putting together our own “red room” for BDSM play, and just added a fun spreader bench
. Unfortunately we haven’t really met anyone close by that is into kink yet.FunKinkyDuo wrote:KRFunCouple wrote:
We started in BDSM, take your time and explore as many kinks as you can. Have fun and be safe!
Would be cool if one of the local clubs did a tasting night, the clubs in Denver did it about once a month. It was a lot of fun!
It’s not for everyone, but we love quite a few different kink fetishes. We’ve started putting together our own “red room” for BDSM play, and just added a fun spreader bench
Very true! We had a playroom in the basement of the last house. 4 hidden hard points in the ceiling and several pieces of bondage furniture. I miss it. Looking for a St Andrew’s Cross that can be broken down for the apartment
KRFunCouple wrote:FunKinkyDuo wrote:
[quote=KRFunCouple]We started in BDSM, take your time and explore as many kinks as you can. Have fun and be safe!
Would be cool if one of the local clubs did a tasting night, the clubs in Denver did it about once a month. It was a lot of fun!
It’s not for everyone, but we love quite a few different kink fetishes. We’ve started putting together our own “red room” for BDSM play, and just added a fun spreader bench
Very true! We had a playroom in the basement of the last house. 4 hidden hard points in the ceiling and several pieces of bondage furniture. I miss it. Looking for a St Andrew’s Cross that can be broken down for the apartment[/quote]
Oh we would get along hehe ... we have hard points for hanging spreader bars .... and a pillory. We’ve been looking for a St Andrew’s Cross as well.