Ok,you have written,im'ed until your fingers bleed,looked at all the pictures until you know all the tattoos by heart........Now its time for you to meet that other couple or that speical single for a drink........What else is the most important thing you look for for before making that choice to go to bed with them........What charactristics are show stoppers........What are the green lights???????? Tell us about your first meeting....Was it good or bad !!!!!!!
Well we were a bit nervous the first time. We were invited to a party at a house and found someone to join us. Can you say spontainous? It was kinda different, didnt go further than a soft swap, but we really had fun. Now they are great friends and we hang out often.
Cant begin to start that topic, but it was well worth it.
D and J
Cant begin to start that topic, but it was well worth it.
D and J
Comon we know there are some good first meeting stories out there...share them with us........
Haven't had first on yet.....hmmmmm
OUr first time.....sheesh, was we nervous and a bit overwhelmed by everything that we had seen and were seeing. We were down to the Las Vegas Lifestyle Convention. So those of you that have been there, no what I mean....and for a firstimer it was a bit much for us. HOwever, we had a blast. We experienced just about everything down there that we had talked about, and then some. We came home and had the best sex we had had in awhile, with all those memories and flashbacks of the erotic time we had, made our after sex....FREAKEN AMAZING!!!! That is what it is all about right, .....the after sex hehehe!
First meetings are usually not the best...nerves dictate stumbling over words and such...We much prefer the second, third, fourth....
LG..come now...do you REALLY like the first one?
LG..come now...do you REALLY like the first one?
how can anyone write anything after that....next!
After about 5 years of being in the lifestyle that is still a problem for us on knowing when is the right time to take it to the next level. Our first time was unexpected. It was back when then web cam became popular and we played on cam with some friends of ours. One evening we went out to have a few drinks with them. After an evening of drinking we said our good-byes at the bar and drove home. We didn't realize that they followed us home and pulled in the drive right behind us. She asked can she use the bathroom and when she came out of the bathroom she was naked. And we have been swingers ever since. We are still very close friends with them and hang out all the time.
The actual "meeting" part of a first meeting is no problem for us. I (the Mr.) am such a social animal. I have no qualms with meeting new people. I love it! Starting up conversations, joking, laughing, and becoming comfortable very quickly is natural for me. I sometimes think that it is almost too natural. I may come across as being too forward maybe. Be that as it may, it's the actual "playing" part that can be difficult. I mean you all decide to play, and go wherever you go to do that. Now, it's like how do we start this? Those initial steps can be soooo awkward. For me, the "seduction" part of sex is very important and sets the stage for actually having sex with someone. It seems that most of the time you find yourselves sitting around still making small talk and wondering........... "What do we do now?" I mean do you just say....... "1,2,3 let's have sex?" I truly believe that it's these initial steps that can make or break the whole thing. Any ideas?
Makinbacon............ We are very curious as to what happened after she walked out of the bathroom naked. A very unique approach.
Wife and I already had talked about the possiblity of one day trying the lifestyle and when she came out of the bathroom naked, I went to my wife that was in the kitchen told her that we had a naked women in our living room and asked if she is sure that she wanted to do this? Before we knew it we all were naked and we ended up in the bedroom.
We met a couple one time who had this great place overlooking the river. We spent a few hours outside with him admiring the view, sitting on the deck, and talking. We didn't see her much and wondered why. After quite awhile, she came out and asked if we wanted something to eat. We were pretty hungry, and she made some burgers. Shortly thereafter, he asked if we wanted to play, and we said ok. We went inside, and she disappeared into another room. By that time, I had had a few drinks, and my mouth was running a hundred miles an hour. Imagine that! LOL. She came walking out with this outfit on that had holes that allowed her breasts to be exposed. She strolled over to me holding up one of her breasts, and said, "Here, will this shut you up?" LOL! I said yes and starting sucking her tit. It then moved to the bedroom, and we all had a great time. He even video taped it and we have a copy. It just goes to show that first impressions can sometimes be deceiving. We never thought that she was even interested.