I have seen a few topics about swinging without your spouse and I have found that when a couple find a partner whom they have played for while and trust there's nothing wrong with it.
I have been with a couple for 2 years that her husband gives me free access to meet her whenever the mood strikes, specially on sunday afternoon/evenings when he really wants to watch his football team plays, many times we had sex in another room, pool or on his side, of course he always ended playing too, but the best of all is that we have a trust between us and we have freedom enouugh to live our fantasies to the max.
Hope to see similar experiences and opinions here.
Thanks
Leo
I have been with a couple for 2 years that her husband gives me free access to meet her whenever the mood strikes, specially on sunday afternoon/evenings when he really wants to watch his football team plays, many times we had sex in another room, pool or on his side, of course he always ended playing too, but the best of all is that we have a trust between us and we have freedom enouugh to live our fantasies to the max.
Hope to see similar experiences and opinions here.
Thanks
Leo
I have had a relationship in the past with the blessing of my wife. When my wife was out of town she even set up a baby sitter so we could play. The problem we have found on here is with most couples the husband feels there needs to be a trade or is it not "fair" for him. And most single women are wanted by all of us. lol
We could not agree more SexyBrazil. The wife has several guys that she hooks up with regularly and she knows that as long as I know about it, it's ok. I don't have a regular hook up but I do step out occasionally and the terms are the same. We do play together and love it but she is more comfortable with the one on one so this facilitates that desire. Some of, No the hottest sex that we have had is when we get together after she has been with someone else. I blow a load that could hit the ceiling lol. We also go to clubs and bars and compete to see who can pick up someone first. (advantage women, always lol)
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Exactly WETFEM, your profile is right on.
Everyone has their own take on what Swinging is for them, and we all figure out what it is that makes it hot. We also all get into this for different reasons. Some of us it is the fun of having 3somes and moresums and others it is having the excitement of the "affair" but your partner knows of it. We all have different reasons, it is just a matter of what works for you and your partner. For us, we cant even begin to think about letting the other have sexual encounters with someone else without us being involved in some way. The whole turn on for us is watching the other enjoy themselves. It is a huge turn on for me to know that I am being pleased by someone else and that my husband is there watching me, and getting soooo turned on by it all. That is what makes it HOT for us.....so if we are doing things seperately then it turns in to a whole other ball game for us, and that is a game we just dont want to play. That doesnt mean we judge those or think less of couples that like to do things seperately.....you do what works for the two of you. For us, we just believe that serperate encounters like that may open the door for problems we arent prepared to handle. Plz dont come back with ....."maybe you guyz dont trust each other enough, or you are just insecure" because we do TRUST each other so much, any time you are involving someone else in your intimate moments involves a certain amount of trust in your partner as well as yourself....and insecurity only brings drama to the whole game so NO we are both trusting and very secure. Seperate sexual encounters is just getting to intimate with someone else for us to want to do that.....to us it means you are just asking for trouble!! (ducking....)
P.S. I dont mean that offensive or disrespectful at all.....infact we have a certain amount of respect for those couples that can share seperate sexual encounters with somenoe else and still keep an awesome marriage going........it just isnt for us, Thats all.
P.S. I dont mean that offensive or disrespectful at all.....infact we have a certain amount of respect for those couples that can share seperate sexual encounters with somenoe else and still keep an awesome marriage going........it just isnt for us, Thats all.
Vlike........ Thanks. Let us know if you are game. It's very hard to find couples with similar interests. Especially ones so close by.
Stitchutah............. We respect your preferences, and we like that also. It takes all of us to make the world go round.
Stitchutah............. We respect your preferences, and we like that also. It takes all of us to make the world go round.