Would like to join other sites but don't know where to look.
Fetlife, and okcupid are the only other ones we've used, but in our experience nothing holds a candle to swingular. We've heard tale of some Facebook groups, but haven't used that route. We would also be interested in others input on the topic!
We joined an app called 3fun but so far no luck meeting couples from there. Swingular combined with kik has been our best luck. Check out our profile and send us a message if you like what you read and see. 😊
-Mrs Nakedcouple5150
-Mrs Nakedcouple5150
Aff not what it once was but still have some utah listing
I know others have had problems with both, but I have found doublelist and AFF are OK for me. If you approach both sites with an understanding that there are a sizable number of flakes and phonies on each you eventually learn to discern whether someone or couple is reliable and on the level. In the end I think for any site there are a lot of people who will just disappear admidst a conversation and in the end that can help you determine their bona fides. I think both AFF and doublelist attract a number of fun people who just are not going to show up here.
Fetlife has a huge audience here, but it's not just swingers and it's not really for hookups. It happens there, but lots of people just want to connect with other kinky people.
We have tried them all. When it comes to Utah unfortunately this site is the best. Outside of Utah Swingular or Kasadie work better.
kind of off topic, but what is with the censoring? Is there a list somewhere of words we can't use?
It is pretty annoying to see " I really like , but is pretty lame."
And why are PMs also censored? "Do you have ? If so my username is ___"
It is pretty annoying to see " I really like , but is pretty lame."
And why are PMs also censored? "Do you have ? If so my username is ___"
Newlyopen wrote:No idea what you are talking about?!?!
kind of off topic, but what is with the censoring? Is there a list somewhere of words we can't use?
It is pretty annoying to see " I really like , but is pretty lame."
And why are PMs also censored? "Do you have ? If so my username is ___"
We've never noticed censorship??🤔
The censorship of some other app names like kik and kasidie appears when you are viewing Swingular on the mobile app and not on the web version.
WesandCarman wrote:
Would like to join other sites but don't know where to look.
I am in calif and San Gabriel valley that’s with West Covina single older man here
WesandCarman wrote:
Would like to join other sites but don't know where to look.
This is it!
Abandon all hope.
IMHO swinging webpages are a dying breed. We're on a much larger nationwide site and it's like crickets over there. Of course, Utah is always 10 years behind the rest of the world so Swingular is still relatively active. Give it a few years. LOL
Facebook groups
Evildoers, can you tell me the nationwide sites name?
We also have kasidie but that was when we lived in vegas, here in utah not so much luck with it. since we have a lifetime membership from being grandfathered in when it first started we didnt delete it
WesandCarman wrote:
Evildoers, can you tell me the nationwide sites name?
I've used SZC swinger zone centeral when I have lived in other states. No one in Utah uses it here though. There are a bunch of people on there. Even as a single male I had good luck on there.
Coming out there in late Sept... any suggestion for FUN?
Swing life style is quite large and there are Utah peeps on there just not as many.
Taller wrote:
The censorship of some other app names like kik and kasidie appears when you are viewing Swingular on the mobile app and not on the web version.
Thank you! I use the mobile site exclusively. It is funny that when I quoted you the names showed, but when I saw your message I saw:
Taller wrote:
The censorship of some other app names like and appears when you are viewing Swingular on the mobile app and not on the web version.
Here are the sites we use and our username there. Look us up and we'll show you around (couples only)
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever for USA and Canada, eh?
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often. Met our first couple there. Good globally also a few profiles from Mars.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally. U have to pay.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r and other subreddits
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol. This is a free and unexploited gem.
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
UPDATES: Lifestylelounge.com: use it if is free. otherwise not worth a penny. old profiles, abandoned page.
trueswingers.com review coming soon.
bisexualplayground.com met a couple there once. Not sure if still up.
alt.com seen it looks like whips and chains stuff.
Gone but not forgotten:
Craigslist Personals. Those were good to meet couples but tons of weirdos.
SwingDater.com met a long term couple there.
playersxchange.com a buddy's site. gone.
swingerads.com
We don't do much apps.
**01/31/2022 UPDATE**
Try the Doublelist couples seeking couples sections. We had played with a few couples from there in just 6 months using it. Beware is free to lots of fakes and time-a-wasters.
Also, make a habit of running any pic you receive on tineye. However, if the pic creates no matches, do not assume is a real pic. I'll say most contacts from non pay sites are fake. There is something about real and sincere people fakers can't never get. PM for details.
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever for USA and Canada, eh?
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often. Met our first couple there. Good globally also a few profiles from Mars.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally. U have to pay.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r and other subreddits
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol. This is a free and unexploited gem.
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
UPDATES: Lifestylelounge.com: use it if is free. otherwise not worth a penny. old profiles, abandoned page.
trueswingers.com review coming soon.
bisexualplayground.com met a couple there once. Not sure if still up.
alt.com seen it looks like whips and chains stuff.
Gone but not forgotten:
Craigslist Personals. Those were good to meet couples but tons of weirdos.
SwingDater.com met a long term couple there.
playersxchange.com a buddy's site. gone.
swingerads.com
We don't do much apps.
**01/31/2022 UPDATE**
Try the Doublelist couples seeking couples sections. We had played with a few couples from there in just 6 months using it. Beware is free to lots of fakes and time-a-wasters.
Also, make a habit of running any pic you receive on tineye. However, if the pic creates no matches, do not assume is a real pic. I'll say most contacts from non pay sites are fake. There is something about real and sincere people fakers can't never get. PM for details.
SUENDAN wrote:
Here are the sites we use and our username there. Look us up and we'll show you around (couples only)
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever.
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r subreddit
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
You welcome everybodyyy!
Thanks for all the great info!!😊👍
Nakedcouple5150 wrote:
Thanks for all the great info!!😊👍
yw!
I will update my post later.
Ironically, this website rarely produce good contacts unless we are physically in SLC which is 2 or 3 times a yr for a few days. It also feels abandoned by their webmasters. But oh well, we paid a lifetime membership so I mostly get on the forums to laugh my ass off with the stuff people post here lol
SUENDAN wrote:Wow how do you manage being on all those?
Here are the sites we use and our username there. Look us up and we'll show you around (couples only)
swinglifestyle.com
2NParadisse. They offer lifetime membership. One of the best sites ever for USA and Canada, eh?
aff.com
2NParadisse and DanNSuzy. If you sing up as a couple your membership will turn into a gold membership after about a month. Don't spend your money there on memberships, just wait until your profile turns into a gold profile and you'd have access to everything. We've been there since 1998 lol. Still a very good site, always evolving and we meet new people there often. Met our first couple there. Good globally also a few profiles from Mars.
sdc.com
FlorDCanela. I think this site is best for the East Coast. We meet people there occasionally. U have to pay.
kasidie.com
2NParadisse. not our cup of tea but sometimes good for party info. Some people in SoCal swear by it.
reddit.com the swingersr4r and other subreddits
FunMachina. We had been super lucky there for over a year meeting couples in their 20's lol. This is a free and unexploited gem.
In Spain we used onswingers.com
FlorDCanela. very good but limited to Spain and is in Spanish.
UK/Europe c4fonline.com - not so good for us when we were in Spain.
fling.com some people contacted us from there once.
Locanto.com kinda like what CL used to be. Not much going on there. Weirdos.
https://www.newbienudes.com/ has some potential. I just have not looked into it yet because we always have something going on when we decide to get out and play.
Regular dating apps like tinder, kindle.. you can open a profile of your lady seeking other ladies, just say that you are married and hubby wants to join too. And then... Bingo! You entered the Unicorn Realm!
Also non website nor non swinger party contacts:
Just take your lady to a strip joint and have her make friends with the girls. This works good in SoCal where girls are less professional. Could work in Vegas but good luck, they are real hustlers there.
Also, the wife and I were on a non-swingers date the just 2 of us, went to have a beer and play pool. This other couple was checking us out. We started chatting normally and pleasantly. The girl told me my wife was very cute. So, I told the girl, "my wife just said the same about you, how funny!" Ended up MFMF later at their place.
UPDATES: Lifestylelounge.com: use it if is free. otherwise not worth a penny. old profiles, abandoned page.
trueswingers.com review coming soon.
bisexualplayground.com met a couple there once. Not sure if still up.
alt.com seen it looks like whips and chains stuff.
Gone but not forgotten:
Craigslist Personals. Those were good to meet couples but tons of weirdos.
SwingDater.com met a long term couple there.
playersxchange.com a buddy's site. gone.
swingerads.com
We don't do much apps.
Utahldscouple wrote:
Wow how do you manage being on all those?
we are not on all of them lol just on 4 or 5... we also been in the LS for over 22yrs so we had our chance to try many, I just remember the ones we had used in the past. just open an account, copy/paste your ad from your original site then check for messages occasionally or search profiles when you have a chance
we've used kik with great results.
We started a Kasidie account to keep in touch with friends from a lifestyle vacation that was partially sponsored by Kasidie, so pretty much everyone there ended up making an account. It's been good, though I will say that Swingular is larger in Utah. I do see more people move over as time goes on.
Not that it’s relevant here in Utah, but we used one in Germany called joyclub. OMG that is the best swinging site ever. It’s like all the ones we use here rolled into one. Post a play date in your location, find party groups, shows all the clubs nearby and has interview vids with the owners and full video tours. Every club owner responded within the hour through the forum. Tinder/3Fun style matching if you are looking to reach out. Video chat through the message app. 3 months Free since we were traveling over there from the U.S. Even went as far as having “date” postings for each club event so you could chat a bit with people before arriving at the club. Everything you wish you could do, they already thought of.
if someone were to make a new swingers site for Utah, what functionalities would you want in it ?
Lifestylelounge.com is a pretty classy site. More of a national type of site where Swingular tends to be more Utah focus.
Let's fuck
We started a Utah Swinger group on MeWe. It's still new but starting to get better. A_G 2018 is our profile in there, hit us up and we can add you to the group. Or message us on here and give us your username.
lifestylelounge.com has classy people but more nation wide. Some good utah peeps there every once in awhile.
mathlenoire wrote:
if someone were to make a new swingers site for Utah, what functionalities would you want in it ?
free and no single males
Sm435 wrote:
Not that it’s relevant here in Utah, but we used one in Germany called joyclub. OMG that is the best swinging site ever. It’s like all the ones we use here rolled into one. Post a play date in your location, find party groups, shows all the clubs nearby and has interview vids with the owners and full video tours. Every club owner responded within the hour through the forum. Tinder/3Fun style matching if you are looking to reach out. Video chat through the message app. 3 months Free since we were traveling over there from the U.S. Even went as far as having “date” postings for each club event so you could chat a bit with people before arriving at the club. Everything you wish you could do, they already thought of.
Hey guys, thanks for this info. We are going back and permanently relocating to Spain soon. We are looking for more European oriented sites. The LS is ridiculously fun in Malaga province with all the influx of Brit and other European couples plus all the darn sexy local couples. LS clubs in Europe are damn good regular dance clubs with regular bars, not that BYOB inconvenience. Single males are either not allowed or confined to an area hardly anyone GAF about.
Check my update!
mathlenoire wrote:
if someone were to make a new swingers site for Utah, what functionalities would you want in it ?
require some type of pic of both the male and the female.........