Swingers Forum - To watch or to be watched?

How many of you out there prefer watching or being watched?

Who doesn’t like live porn?

I DEF prefer watching to being watched while my blushing bride prefers the opposite. Yup, a voyeur married to an exhibitionist. Whatever shall we do?!!? lol I've actually had a fairly longstanding fantasy of meeting a compatible couple and then myself and the other wife more or less just watching our spouses get down and dirty.

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MRS hates the idea of watching but MR LOVES that idea. That leaves us often pursuing Males but would be fun to have a couple join with that kinda of expectation from the start.

We have come to find that one of us watching the other with a single or couple has been by far our favorite! 🤤

Husband loves to watch, while I play with others. I prefer to be watched.

We once were invited to hotel suite in the MGM Grand by a very respectful and nice single guy who wanted to watch us have sex. We accepted, met him for cocktails before heading up to his suite. I thoroughly enjoyed exposing my wife to him in various positions for his viewing pleasure. The fondling, the oral and the the fucking got so intense, I nearly forgot he was there. We weren't just having sex. We were making love with such extreme passion. We were surprised that he never asked to join us, as we would have let him. We would definitely do this again.

Naturally, we would rather swap with another couple as it is our preferred lifestyle play. But, watching other couples have sex doesn't really excite us. After a couple of minutes of watching, I actually get bored. However, I do find it extremely pleasurable and exciting to watch alone while my wife has sex with another man. That highly intense feeling of compersion that fills my soul is unlike anything I've ever known. In the past, I have watched the pleasure they derive with each other for up to 30 minutes until I get so turned on that I just have to join in. Although the vast majority of play is with other couples, this is why we sometimes desire a threesome with a single guy.

Fun

We enjoy being watched.

Both ways are very arousing ... butt ... I don't think I have have ever been so turned on as when I was watching the Lady in my life being pleasured and giving pleasure with another...whew, off the charts!

Definitely enjoy watching, especially my wife. Haven't been watched, to my knowledge, not sure how that might be