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Hi there! So I originally joined this site a few years ago when I was young, dumb, and had no clue what I was doing. I am still young and dumb, but have experience a lot in life since then. I've become bored with my current love life and am looking to try new things. Therefore, I am looking to give this site a honest and serious try this time around. I've updated my profile to reflect what I am looking for. I am also in the process of changing my username to something a little more respectable (just waiting on support since it's the weekend.

That being said, is there any advice you have for a single male. I know there is a lot of stigma to being a single male on this site, and I would like to be as respectful as possible. Please take a moment to look at my profile and offer any constructive criticism. I'd greatly appreciate it :)
Put some pics of you, including your face in your public folder.
Should be updated, thanks!
The larger the amount of time you spend on this site as a single male, the less chances you'll have to have sex with anyone from here or outside of this website.
Suendan, can you explain your comment better. Not sure what you are trying to tell him. It sounds like your advice is to stop looking on this site altogether as there is a negative consequence to it. ?
We are fairly new as well. Your pictures in the public album are a good start. A stomach/chest pic or something a little more revealing would be great too.

The only issue we have had with single males are their attempts at being pushy, too pushy, and hoping for a porn star experience. You seem respectful, genuine, and kind which makes all the difference.

Best of luck!
I will say from a single female perspective, the more thought you put into what you are looking for the better off you will be. I found that once I truly researched my sexual values and then communicated those I finally started finding people I wanted to hang out with. I am currently working on building my tribe of friends I want to hang with and being able to express what is important to me was very helpful.

If you want to explore this concept more I can give you more ideas. I stole this from a podcast (Sex talk with my mom) and can point you to the right episode. Between that one and Muliamory I think you learn a lot about navigating this wonderful world we like to be in.