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How do you delete booty calls and encounters? Any tips on ways to pleasantly decline an offer besides saying that we aren’t interested?

Because I’m curious... what are your successful booty call or encounter stories and failures?

We haven’t tried either, otherwise I’d share.
MarriedNcurious wrote:

If you make a booty call you can delete it. If other people make one you can see it. But you cannot remove it. Its a public booty call. And not directed at you directly!


Wow! I misunderstood how those work completely! Thank you for explaining. I was so confused as to why they were just popping up in our notifications when we need advanced notice for most events and that we are just barely dipping our toes into this LS and taking it slow.
As harsh as it may seem, being upfront about interest is usually best. You aren’t going to attracted to everyone and everyone isn’t going to be attracted to you. It’s ok to say you aren’t a good candidate/match. There could be many reasons why you aren’t.
There are many ways to kindly say that you don't think you're a good match with another couple. Sadly, there are some who, no matter how nicely you say it, will become offended and upset.

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