I’m just wondering if this site is usually meant for an older crowd. We understand from experiences that younger couples tend to be more flaky,backout,and are unsure of their situation with trust,also is it because older couples tend to look for people closer to their age because the attraction is not their with a younger couple. Just curious!
It’s a lot easier being young than old
Jane001997 wrote:Define younger 😀! We personally feel it has to do with being able to relate to the other couple. Age does play a factor in that but we have found younger couples that we are able to relate to with. The Mrs does have a hard line of anyone that is younger than our kids 😀.
I’m just wondering if this site is usually meant for an older crowd. We understand from experiences that younger couples tend to be more flaky,backout,and are unsure of their situation with trust,also is it because older couples tend to look for people closer to their age because the attraction is not their with a younger couple. Just curious!
It can definitely be hard being a younger couple on this site. I think like you said younger couples can be flaky and untrustworthy which can cause some hesitation. We’ve also been told “you’re too young” if someone has children that aren’t too far off of our age, which can be understandable as well.
On the flip side, there probably aren’t many young couples on here because they just play with friends or find people at the club (which is let everybody’s thing and certainly not ours).
However, one of the unfortunate things is that regardless of age the lifestyle can be very cliquey. Parties can be that way also. The best advice we can give is stay patient and message people you feel like you have things in common with and it’ll come.
Also, having a profile picture would help you tremendously! No profile picture sets off a red flag for a lot of people that it may be a fake profile or someone just trying to see other people’s pics.
On the flip side, there probably aren’t many young couples on here because they just play with friends or find people at the club (which is let everybody’s thing and certainly not ours).
However, one of the unfortunate things is that regardless of age the lifestyle can be very cliquey. Parties can be that way also. The best advice we can give is stay patient and message people you feel like you have things in common with and it’ll come.
Also, having a profile picture would help you tremendously! No profile picture sets off a red flag for a lot of people that it may be a fake profile or someone just trying to see other people’s pics.
Could be that younger couples or maybe the females arn't as brave.
Younger is allot easier there isn't many are age and younger don't want old
We met some your age on this site but usually have met them out randomly lol. Have had more luck that way with girls.
WildCouple88 wrote:
It can definitely be hard being a younger couple on this site. I think like you said younger couples can be flaky and untrustworthy which can cause some hesitation. We’ve also been told “you’re too young” if someone has children that aren’t too far off of our age, which can be understandable as well.
On the flip side, there probably aren’t many young couples on here because they just play with friends or find people at the club (which is let everybody’s thing and certainly not ours).
However, one of the unfortunate things is that regardless of age the lifestyle can be very cliquey. Parties can be that way also. The best advice we can give is stay patient and message people you feel like you have things in common with and it’ll come.
Also, having a profile picture would help you tremendously! No profile picture sets off a red flag for a lot of people that it may be a fake profile or someone just trying to see other people’s pics.
Agreed. all the couples we've played with our 40+ and never had an issue. Some have talked to us about the issues of the age similar to kids if they have older kids. Younger couples Ive noticed that if you kik them you need to set something up early if not the messaging will die out.
Younger couples tend to not want older couples, and older couples tend to not want younger couples because sometimes the younger couples think the older couples have something other than loving parts to give, especially ones that they do not know and this is the first meeting, but if they get to know each other, younger couples can learn and really enjoy the senior attitude and knowledge. Sometimes the older ones just like to relive their younger life, and can really enjoy themselves.
Who wouldn’t be attracted to younger couples? It’s usually the younger couples who are not attracted to the older ones.
BR3RD wrote:
Who wouldn’t be attracted to younger couples? It’s usually the younger couples who are not attracted to the older ones.
True that! If a young couple feels some frustration now, just wait until they reach our age. It will be even more frustrating. But hang in there young swingers. Your best days are still ahead of you.
We are an middle age couple but we actually prefer younger. But most the time we run into the issue of them not wanting older. But if you know what you want and keep trying you can and will get it.
Hang in there.
Hang in there.
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Younger, older its all frustrating....atleast for us it has been.
Jane001997 wrote:
I’m just wondering if this site is usually meant for an older crowd. We understand from experiences that younger couples tend to be more flaky,backout,and are unsure of their situation with trust,also is it because older couples tend to look for people closer to their age because the attraction is not their with a younger couple. Just curious!
Get in where you fit in...
Find your appetite .
Hit us up! Younger couples are the only ones who can tolerate our sophomoric sense of humor and complete lack of maturity. 
We are young! 27f/26m. I messaged the OP!
Our most "experienced" LS friends (from Sacramento)tell us to stay with our division, which is plus or minus 10 years. We have usually fallen into the younger side of that, not really on purpose, it just seems to happen. But I (Mr.) feel like some kind of predator when I think about striking up a LS conversation with someone younger than that. Long story short, most of us old timers were young once, as well. Enjoy every moment while it lasts!
Jane001997 wrote:
I’m just wondering if this site is usually meant for an older crowd. We understand from experiences that younger couples tend to be more flaky,backout,and are unsure of their situation with trust,also is it because older couples tend to look for people closer to their age because the attraction is not their with a younger couple. Just curious!
Hey guys, welcome to Swingular! We are definitely too far from you but luckily there are some very nice and good looking couples in your area. But let us tell you a little about ourselves. We started swinging in our mid-20's enjoying all age ranges including older couples. We were very popular and among a few "less young" couples as well as others in their 20's/30's. Now we are in our 40's and have had a few good experiences with couples and single girls in their 20's. Our early experiences appreciating couples at all ages is helping us now find chemistry with younger couples. Swinging is about experimenting new and exciting things and meeting sweet new friends. We invite you to open up to the "less young" folk, just talk to them and see what happens. And, by all means, stay away from single males.
We find it interesting how many posts there are from people finding it difficult to meet others when they only have one or no profile photos ... hmmm could there be a correlation. 🤔
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Single male with girlfriends
Freako wrote:
Single male with girlfriends...
...two imaginary, one barely alive but still up for fun!
Yikes!
I’m a younger guy and tend to enjoy people who are older than me kinda hard to find people my age that are into the lifestyle and I do run into the your room young part but I understand I would just like to find a mature couple who would like to get past the age gap and have some fun
There aren't a huge number of young couples on here. We have been able to find a good group of friends of all ages, but things can skew on the older side. I wouldn't say age is the end-all-be-all, but can sometimes signal similar interest. We have found many people in their 20's, 30's, and 40's where we have made solid connections and mutual attraction.
I have a fantasy fetish for milfs! So, I like older couples. As well as my age group.
Jane001997 wrote:
I’m just wondering if this site is usually meant for an older crowd. We understand from experiences that younger couples tend to be more flaky,backout,and are unsure of their situation with trust,also is it because older couples tend to look for people closer to their age because the attraction is not their with a younger couple. Just curious!
Hate to be the bearer of bad news but the flaky, backout, and unsure of their relationship situation with trust comes in all ages. I have met my share of couples ranging from the '20s to the mid-'60s with does issue.
It doesn't mean the couples regardless of age are bad. Its communications and both being on the same page of enjoyment that brings them closer together, it's key to being a swinger regardless of age..............
It's VERY hard for younger couples! Oh, you prolly didn't mean....
EVILDOERS wrote:
It's VERY hard for younger couples! Oh, you prolly didn't mean....
Hahah I can always count on you guys for the best comments🤣😂🤣😂🤣
We have seen both sides of difficulty. There are couples who prefer older and others who don't care. Either way if the respect, comfort, and attraction is there then age doesn't matter in our opinion.
i think in general there are less younger swingers because many of them havent reached a point where they are comfortable with the notion of "its just sex"
When we started out we were the young couple, but after 15 year in the lifestyle we are moving to the older side of things. We have never cared about age, when we were young we played with older couples and now we play with younger couples
Agree. We've never flaked but we do take a while to get comfortable enough for sex cause we want that connection. Once we get to the point of "it's just sex" I'm sure we'll flourish more
We connect to the people, not the number. We've met people from their late teens to 60's. Good and bad in all age groups. We have tended to gravitate towards younger couples just because we like the energy. But in the end we just enjoy meeting fun people.
We don't have a clue, how hard it is starting out as a couple in their 20s. We started when I was 49 and the Mrs. was 42. We played with people in their twenties, fairly frequently back then. Mostly we played with people a bit closer to our age. Young couples, with kids, had to get babysitters, whereas our kids were all old enough not to need them. Now, we have grandkids, that want to come over, or want us to go see them, and we do a lot of family get togethers, so we don't really have the time to swing all that often. The first decade of swinging, we enjoyed playdates almost ever week, sometimes two or three times in a week. We were parents almost exactly a year after we got married. We didn't swing. If we had, it would have been more difficult setting up playdates when the kids were young. 40s and 50s are probably the time of life when swinging becomes easy to do, frequently, if you have kids. If you don't have kids, what's to stop you? You will do well, have fun!
One thing about age is it’s all relative. Since we are a bit older now couples in their 40s seem young to us while some couples our own age seem too old. It all about attitude and how narrow are your parameters. Let’s say we are looking for a single female....uhhh not likely to receive many responses. We contact a couple in their mid 40s probably not gonna get a response either. We meet the same couple at a party or some other function then maybe we make an impression and they get to know us and can see some possibilities.
The more you reach out to others the more likely you are to have some success in making a connection. Good luck and good swinging.
The more you reach out to others the more likely you are to have some success in making a connection. Good luck and good swinging.
Yeah - I think age is more conceptual anyway. Some people have hard cut offs which are fine. We tend to think that age discrepancy disappears for most people after you meet them and spend time with them . . . with a few exceptions. If you ACT too young . . . or too old for that matter - that can be a turn-off. Also - if you are so preoccupied with people's age that it prevents you from having a conversation about anything real . . . well - that's on you.
Generally, we just leave it up to the LS Gods to help us make those magic connections. More and more we realize . . . its MUCH better to treasure the friends you have than to go thru all the effort of developing new ones. Happy is the couple that has a small group of friends they can spend time with and play with occasionally (at any level), but with some regularity (grin)!
Generally, we just leave it up to the LS Gods to help us make those magic connections. More and more we realize . . . its MUCH better to treasure the friends you have than to go thru all the effort of developing new ones. Happy is the couple that has a small group of friends they can spend time with and play with occasionally (at any level), but with some regularity (grin)!
Just the opposite issue... how difficult is it for older couples...
SKICOUPLE wrote:So true. We sometimes put our own blockers up (we are guilty) with age or other factors. We have tried to meet up with most people because you never know. Even if you don’t play you can have great conversations and be good friends!
One thing about age is it’s all relative. Since we are a bit older now couples in their 40s seem young to us while some couples our own age seem too old. It all about attitude and how narrow are your parameters. Let’s say we are looking for a single female....uhhh not likely to receive many responses. We contact a couple in their mid 40s probably not gonna get a response either. We meet the same couple at a party or some other function then maybe we make an impression and they get to know us and can see some possibilities.
The more you reach out to others the more likely you are to have some success in making a connection. Good luck and good swinging.