It time to get a new topic going.....enough about the Hostile prick FUCKHERIDID! Anyhow, so it is friday and time to party! I wanna know what everyone's favorite thing is about the swinging lifestyle? Also curious as to what swinging has brought to your relationship? Share a story if you like.....lets hear why everyone is into having sex with others????? LOL
Favorite thing about swinging.....we would have to say all the great friends we have made. We love the flirting and the anticipation. Hubby loves to watch me with another women, and also getting pleasured by another male. I haveta say that I LOVE that he loves to watch me, it turns me on knowing that I am turning him on. I like for my hubby to be with another women, I dont really like watching him with another women, but I LOVE to help out when he is with another women. I cant just sit and watch, I gotta get invovled, and he loves that!
Since we have been swinging with others we have found ourselves to be more in tune with our sexual desires, and our communication is better in sharing what we both want and like. We are more adventerous, and spontanious. Our "after sex" is amazing, exciting, and down right GREAT! We appreciate each other more, I believe it has brought us closer together....how weird is that??? Ummm, having sex with others, while married, has brought us closer together??? WEIRD, but true! It has also brought us some amazing friendships, that we will have for a long long time...!
Since we have been swinging with others we have found ourselves to be more in tune with our sexual desires, and our communication is better in sharing what we both want and like. We are more adventerous, and spontanious. Our "after sex" is amazing, exciting, and down right GREAT! We appreciate each other more, I believe it has brought us closer together....how weird is that??? Ummm, having sex with others, while married, has brought us closer together??? WEIRD, but true! It has also brought us some amazing friendships, that we will have for a long long time...!
Its not weird at all...
Its what the rest of the non swinging world doesnt get. In a reverse way, it brings us closer together, because we are sharing the experiences.
I have term I use frequently.. SEXPLORATION.. When we are out for a evening of play with like minded adults, and SEXPLORING, we enjoy the experience, because we are sharing it. Something a cheating spouse doesnt do.. When they go out to "get some on the side" they are hiding it from the other person.
Being open with your Significant Other and sharing sex, is a beautiful thing. In a world where for years, we are told how wrong it is, or its DIRTY.. to get past those early LIES, and see how beautiful it is, and share that experience with the one you care for... can only bring you closer together.
Case in point, the first time my wife, enjoyed herself with another woman.. was amazing.. the way she got turned on by everything, and seeing and feeling these things happen was a powerful thing. The sexploration that night fueled her mind, and freed her from quite few mental blocks put there as she grew up. After that night, she was alot more open, and comfortable with herself around our other "playmates". Orgasms came easier, and she let go, cast aside inhibitions, and truly enjoyed herself. Sharing these times, and enjoying each other for months afterward, re kindling those memories...
Like I said in the beginning of this post.. its something the VANILLA WAFER folk wil never understand
Its what the rest of the non swinging world doesnt get. In a reverse way, it brings us closer together, because we are sharing the experiences.
I have term I use frequently.. SEXPLORATION.. When we are out for a evening of play with like minded adults, and SEXPLORING, we enjoy the experience, because we are sharing it. Something a cheating spouse doesnt do.. When they go out to "get some on the side" they are hiding it from the other person.
Being open with your Significant Other and sharing sex, is a beautiful thing. In a world where for years, we are told how wrong it is, or its DIRTY.. to get past those early LIES, and see how beautiful it is, and share that experience with the one you care for... can only bring you closer together.
Case in point, the first time my wife, enjoyed herself with another woman.. was amazing.. the way she got turned on by everything, and seeing and feeling these things happen was a powerful thing. The sexploration that night fueled her mind, and freed her from quite few mental blocks put there as she grew up. After that night, she was alot more open, and comfortable with herself around our other "playmates". Orgasms came easier, and she let go, cast aside inhibitions, and truly enjoyed herself. Sharing these times, and enjoying each other for months afterward, re kindling those memories...
Like I said in the beginning of this post.. its something the VANILLA WAFER folk wil never understand
We have met some wonderful people and had wonderful sexual adventures. We're one of those couples that swinging has added to our sex life. We get home from a night at the club and exchange views of the evening, talk abotu what we saw or what we did or what we wanted to do but ran out of time or people.
Just like last night we met a wonderful couple from out of town, partied with them and then drove them back to their hotel. We gave them our number and hopefully will help them have a blast this weekend.
But this hasnt happened with out alot of work and rejection.
Just like last night we met a wonderful couple from out of town, partied with them and then drove them back to their hotel. We gave them our number and hopefully will help them have a blast this weekend.
But this hasnt happened with out alot of work and rejection.
I, again, the male typing, enjoy seeing her being pleased...I enjoy that we are so open about what we like, do not like, desire...All of this comes from the lifestyle...Before the lifestyle experience, I was quite ho-hum about sex, I always thought it was something that "bad" girls did, or wives did to keep their husbands around...however, after a divorce, I found my current baby-doll on a swinging site...I WAS the typical single male without any clue about the lifestyle, I believe my profile said, "Well endowed male, divorcing, looking to have sex without commitments." As you would guess, not much luck, HOWEVER, she had a weak moment in a chat room...replied to a question abotu locations, and one thing led to another...so here we are...With her, I discovered so much about women, men, couples, sex, and life, that I could NEVER imagine not wanting this lifestyle, and all the benefits it affords me/us...BUt if she wanted out, I would follow her wishes, because I find that without her to experience it with me, it is nowhere near as erotic, fun, or enjoyable...
WOW a wordy SOB today, huh?
Love you baby doll...
And thank you to all of you great people in this lifestyle for assiting us through the whole process...And allowing me to experience what is available out there in this grand world...
WOW a wordy SOB today, huh?
Love you baby doll...
And thank you to all of you great people in this lifestyle for assiting us through the whole process...And allowing me to experience what is available out there in this grand world...