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so we've been trying to get a few things going and play with a few couples here and there. But, as of late we've noticed alot of the couples on here are having only the men play. Whether it work, life, schedules, etc. And im not calling anyone a liar or anything. We ourselves have had to cancel and have played alone as well. However me and the wife have a general rule of only playing alone with people we played with together before. Anyone else having this lately?
This is another phenomenon of the LS that applies specially to newer couples. Some (if not most) newer and some experienced LS men spend 99.99% of their waking hours thinking about getting some especially now that, after months of begging, their wives has agreed to do the couples thing. However, the ladies tend to worry a million other things such as kids, schoolwork, kids' health, kids' activities, gym, relatives, the house, cooking, church, friends, their hobbies, their jobs, etc. So, when the ladies figure that sex is not such a big deal, they hand out "hall passes" to those horndogs to get them out of their hair. Some of those ladies even find the LS as a very welcome activity because someone else fucks their husband when he feels like it, giving her more time to do the important things she must do for others. She may even find a little time for herself as well. Do not be surprised if next time someone fucks a "hall passed" hubby, his wife sends the fools one of her popular rhubarb pies she finally found the time to make along with a thank you note.

This also applies to most single males. At least 75% of profiled, "well put and respectful" single males pass their mid-20's are simply just cheating on their wives or SO's. Some of them will be honest and tell you they are married and his wife does not know, most would just flat out lie.
SUENDAN wrote:

This is another phenomenon of the LS that applies specially to newer couples. Some (if not most) newer and some experienced LS men spend 99.99% of their waking hours thinking about getting some especially now that, after months of begging, their wives has agreed to do the couples thing. However, the ladies tend to worry a million other things such as kids, schoolwork, kids' health, kids' activities, gym, relatives, the house, cooking, church, friends, their hobbies, their jobs, etc. So, when the ladies figure that sex is not such a big deal, they hand out "hall passes" to those horndogs to get them out of their hair. Some of those ladies even find the LS as a very welcome activity because someone else fucks their husband when he feels like it, giving her more time to do the important things she must do for others. She may even find a little time for herself as well. Do not be surprised if next time someone fucks a "hall passed" hubby, his wife sends the fools one of her popular rhubarb pies she finally found the time to make along with a thank you note.
This also applies to most single males. At least 75% of profiled, "well put and respectful" single males pass their mid-20's are simply just cheating on their wives or SO's. Some of them will be honest and tell you they are married and his wife does not know, most would just flat out lie.


I would like to see the confirmed data research on that. You really sound like a tired dried up prune who hasn't had a good dicking in a long time man hater!😂😂
I suppose that now is a bit different than "normal" times, but just a little. There are always those that misrepresent themselves on dating sites (we consider Swingular a dating site), whether it's pictures from a different stage of life, a fib about body-type, a lie about marriage status, or whatever. You still have to sort through lots of candidates, weed out the fibbers, and find others you click with. Our experience is about even 50/50 with couples that arent in sync with LS on any given day or every given day. Sometimes the woman prefers not to jump in, others it's the guy. And everybody's life is full of to-dos and impositions, regardless of gender, anyway.

It might be a bit more difficult to find others that you sync with now (with the coronavirus), but this too will pass. We hope it passes very quickly! Good luck and stay with it!