There is a partulary nasty person lately in the forums. Why do you think that because we accept a different lifestyle, we have to succumb to abuse?
We don't! This person is not acceptable!
We don't! This person is not acceptable!
Wow...sorry that’s happening.
I always assume the best in people...thanks for the reminder that there are asses out there.
I always assume the best in people...thanks for the reminder that there are asses out there.
It would be nice if we had a flush button or in lieu, some moderators.
There is an ignore button, although I don’t know what it means. Of course you can also block someone from viewing or contacting you on the site.
However 1DIVA you are part of a select few...a single woman participating in the lifestyle. There are others who dream about having you join them with unicorn possibilities. I see you are also a sexologist so you deal with human behavior and know assholes are everywhere and not in a good way. It’s always a choice if you let something bother you, so just ignore it. In our experience it’s falls into a no thanks situation, not worth our time and effort.
However 1DIVA you are part of a select few...a single woman participating in the lifestyle. There are others who dream about having you join them with unicorn possibilities. I see you are also a sexologist so you deal with human behavior and know assholes are everywhere and not in a good way. It’s always a choice if you let something bother you, so just ignore it. In our experience it’s falls into a no thanks situation, not worth our time and effort.
There actually ARE a few forum mods who volunteer to police the forums to a certain extent. But from what I've seen they don't usually intervene unless there is a fairly grievous infraction of site rules/TOS. Have you messaged ADMIN about this abuse?
EVILDOERS wrote:I am pretty sure I know who she is referring to. Yes there are moderators but they really have no power except social shaming
There actually ARE a few forum mods who volunteer to police the forums to a certain extent. But from what I've seen they don't usually intervene unless there is a fairly grievous infraction of site rules/TOS. Have you messaged ADMIN about this abuse?
!To bad there's not a mewe group or local Utah forum.
Two important pillars of the lifestyle are respect and acceptance to ideas that may not be your own desires. Thank you for reminding us all 1Diva.
Utahldscouple wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:I am pretty sure I know who she is referring to. Yes there are moderators but they really have no power except social shaming
There actually ARE a few forum mods who volunteer to police the forums to a certain extent. But from what I've seen they don't usually intervene unless there is a fairly grievous infraction of site rules/TOS. Have you messaged ADMIN about this abuse?
Well hell, WE can all social shame (while keeping a safe 6-foot social distance, of course). Of course, it would have to be a perpetrator CAPABLE of feeling some kind of shame. LOL I guess it all hinges on what kind of "abuse" we're talking about here or if it's someone simply being rude. I think we could probably indict the majority of Swingular's citizens of being rude, in one way or another, at one time or another. LOL
We are sure we came off as rude before but can say never truly intended.