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After recieving an unsolicited and extremely rude email from member "FUCKHERIDID" I have to wonder how common hostile feelings are among those that get confrontational messages from those that claim to be in the lifestyle.

I'm an extremely mellow man, but given the nature of the email I got from this account with *no previous contact* I found myself pretty angry at the message we recieved. In fact, if I knew they were a genuine participant in the lifestyle it's quite likely I'd make "FUCKHERIDID" leave the scene very quickly and I'd end up with a date in court. This really surprised me given my overall nature of ignoring idiots and letting things with no real effect on the world pass on.

Bare in mind this man has no idea who I am, or what my capabilities are of finding out where they mailed me from or even where they live . I did a *lot* of sleuthing in a previous career-field that involved tracking people across international borders as well as assorted internet detective work. It's why I made the big bucks. We used to snag people on less information than was provided to me and we thought nothing of it. The thought that someone would go out on a limb to do this shit before doing some homework on their target boggles my mind.

Who are these jokers, what would make them tempt fate, and what feelings do they invoke in you?

P.S. I'm not the vindictive type. There is *no* need for moderators to worry, but they may want to rope "FUCKHERIDID" in on a short leash before they piss off more of the community.
Sure.

"the only things that are grown in alaska are whales and your wife......"

I'm normally not the touchy type, but ignorance of this magnitude can't help but make me feel these people are a load that should have been swallowed.
We also got the same email from the "fuckheridid".. There is only one response to someone with so little tact.. BLOCK.. and DELETE. Works for us !
Have a good one Mrs. Hot ;)
My bad.. we didn't get the exact email as alaskangrown... ours was more blunt and to the point... Let's get together and fuck... lmao... for some reason it just didn't do much for me... hmmm wonder why? ;)
Haha. I wouldn't expect much more from someone that has "I'll fuck her until her pussy bleeds" under their Other Info field.
Given the fact that they have NO pics and what is NOT said on the profile, I don't think to many will be getting together with them anytime soon. We deal with pricks all the time in and out of the life style and sometimes they really get under your skin, but you need to learn to just let it roll off, block the bastard and move on. To much fun to be had don't waist your time on pricks of life.

T & C
He said that too Alaskangrown.. but I was keeping the post "clean" lmao.. as if!! FUN4US is exactly right, not worth the effort. :)
"not worth the effort."

Oh, I'm not going to dedicate any effort to it. I'm just confused as to why people do stuff like this without really knowing who they're provoking.
What the hell was that about....only thing grown in alaska is whales and your wife....WHAT??? Your wife is hot! Whatever, let it roll off, consider the source. When I looked up the profile of fuckheridid and saw I fuck her until her pussy bleeds ....that right there was disgusting enough. Doesnt sound like they are very considerate ppls anyways. They have no pics up so who are they to be judging ppl when we cant even see them. I am sorry you received that email. You are a very considerate, caring, and protective husband,....GOOD FOR YOU!
Whoever said Mrs. Fun4U2 was overweight must have drank a few thermometers as a kid.

You're a lucky dude, T.
TY....I have seen your LADY you are pretty damn lucky yourself.
Funforu2 your wife is hot hto to bad you wasnt closer mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Don't put any more stress in your life from an idiot like him. We received an email from him today asking when we could hook up and fuck and that he didn't "mind" my wife's lopsided tits. What a moron, they aren't lopsided, she's lifting one arm higher than the other. I just deleted and blocked him, so the shit has been flushed out.

Mr. CPL
Alaskan, your wife is adorable in every sense of the word.
What you've encountered is a troll... or possibly even a kid.
He writes shit like that for no other reason than to elicit your response.
He gets off on causing trouble and the supposed anonymity of the internet
gives him a set of oversized (and probably under-used) balls.

Don't let him get to you... just brush his dumb ass aside and carry on!

Mike
Well after reading fuckheridid's policy comments, why would anyone want to "get with them"? Definately immaturity and lack of consideration obvious by what is written.. Can also tell that whoever it is, is just trying to irritate on purpose.
Just ignore the scum like that, best advice - and there are always a few on every site we've been on. Mike's right; don't bother, they're not worth your time.

And Ally's right, you *are* all hot!!

Trouble is, you're all in Utah (or somewhere equally far away...)

...well, all except PLAYSOON, that is (hint, hint) *lol*

(Just sayin') :)
What an asshole .. both of them ..

First of all they have been a member since July 26 2006...TODAY
Second they are a "trial Member"
Third ....... and most important the I will fuck her until her pussy bleeds statement .....

That should give you an idea of what this prick is all about ...

um lets see what they are working with .. no pics?? that is a clue .... OHHH that pisses me off and We did not even get an e-mail from them ...

AG you both are sexy, sweet and funny as hell .. consider the source....

R&M
LMAO at riderz - good one!

:)
WOW what a crock of shit.the nerve of some people on some sites.This a community of friends and lovers ..................not assholes and dicks they dewell down below.
P.S. alaskan grown a beautiful cple I have meet them both personally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! at one of our first meet and greets at good spirits.:h
This is the female half of Love4groupe... where do I begin????? "FUCKHERIDID"'s parents need to monitor his computer usage a bit more, maybe use some parental blocks so that he (being the 12 year old boy that he is) cant get access to this sight. There is no way that a grown ass man who is in the lifstyle (for real) would send an email like that. Block him, ignore him, then when you find him kick his ass. Enough said!!
Hey S/T...some people are just ass's...we love you guys.

oh and thanks for giving us a heads up....already blocked...

C&T
After reading the string of responses and observing that this forum pretty much addresses most of the valid points on this and/or any other subject that is put before it, I couldn't help but think we were missing something.

The impression I got from reading all the interaction between everyone and this idiot. We didn't all come to the same conclusion that we aren't talking/writing to a mature individual.

It wouldn't surprize me if this was a teenage person that wandered onto the site and is passing himself off as an adult. think about it . . . just the name itself reeks of adolesence! and the comment being made is in the same vein . . .

I trust the SYSOP will be doing whatever they need to to curtail this activity

Just my two cents worth . . .

R-n-C
acually riders is right on. this prick is single ugly and angry. his only way to connect with anyone on this site is through provacation. please hope that moderator will ban such ignorance from this stellar site.love to all b.d.
whenever anyone gets a degrading, insulting,or harassing email, they need to report the member to admin so they can be aware of the problem. it seems that a few members received nasty emails from these idiots. when you click on their profile, the menu to the left has a "report this member" click on it and report the problem.
we got a very rude e-mail from the same person. this guy is a real prick glad i deleted it before my wife saw it. it would have hurt her pretty bad.
HEY, NO NEED TO WORRIE ABOUT THIS LOW LIFE, I FOUND HE'S PROFILE, AND HE'S ONLY BEEN A MEMBER AS TODAY. AND HE'S ONLY A TRIAL MEMBER, IM THINKING HE'S JUST TRYING TO BE HIMSELF-A - TOTAL ASS, JUST TRYING TO GET RECONIZED... I BLOCKED HIM AND REPORTED HIM...DO THE SAME AND LET'S GET HIM KICKED OFF THIS SITE A.S.A.P!!!!! A-H
I just wanted to say that after reading all this about that person, I had to go check their profile out. Found that they are currently online.(probably sending more bull out) I also Blocked them,(probably wouldn't of had to but you never know?) and I also reported him just to put another vote in to help get rid of him. I was thinking about sending him a message but I figured why should I stoop to his level!Sorry to hear about all the trouble he is causing everyone, I think all the women on this site are very sexy and beautiful!
sorry...Male here...

Whoever said something about your wife being grown in alaska...I would like to have one grown...Can you tell me which garden? COme on...Do not be greedy with the info...We could use one...I would have taken it as a compliment....but I like whales and think your wife is a fox...

As to the to old to fat comment...A lot of people are "fantasy swingers" and as soon as they have some sort of real contact, they have to quickly find an excuse to turn you off...and what woman, no matter how big she is, would NOT be turned off by that comment?

So to all your swinging people...I have a motto I live by...and I will share oit with you...

FUCK THEM ALL BUT ONE...NEED SOMEONE TO LIGHT THE FIRE...AND I HOPE THAT ASSHOLE LIGHTS HIS SHIRT ON FIRE DOING IT!!!!

Not that everyone is an asshole, but a lot are, and thusly the fuck them all attitude...BUt then again..I am an asshole to...I just hide it better than some others ;)
Looks like Fuckheridid is still at it!!! What an ass hole!! My wife got a message from him last night saying she looked like Mr. ED what the hell??


From: FUCKHERIDID

Subject: he can eat my asshole!!!!!!!!

Date: July 26, 2006 (2:53 PM)

No Photo
(no message)
Above is the email that i received my wife deleted the one that she received. But she was upset all night asking what about her made her look like Mr. Ed
Again...Male here..

SHE DOES NOT LOOK LIKE MR ED...Quite cute as a matter of fact...
Look at it this way, its no different than being on the messenger, which ever you use, and getting IMed with the standard

13 inch cock here

Or whatever they think is cool at the moment.

Dont give it a second thought, Assholes are just that ASSHOLES... they can be found everywhere, In public office.(like i really had to mention that, lol), At the corner store, EVERYWHERE...

Like I tell my wife and our kids... Just because you encounter an asshole, doesnt mean you have to deal with thier BULLSHIT.. because thats what assholes are..

Personally, we have gotten some strange emails, and IMs over the years, on here and other sites.. If you took any of them to heart, you would be buying into thier world of BS

Look at it like this, Ya know when you are driving, and someone gives you the finger, for whatever reason they decided to let it fly...

If you smile and wave they get all the more bent out of shape than they were trying to make you.. Joke em if they can take a FUCK...
Isnt it a shame that these poor ignorant, perverted, juvenilles cant find anything better to do than exhibit their total lack of intelligence and manners. I would be interested in seeing just how they act in their own social circles. Wouldnt it be fun to find their profile on MYSPACE and send these little heathens some disturbing messages ?

That said in sarcasm,... but it is a shame that people could find any pleasure with that kind of comment to another person. Has anyone considered that maybe this is just a sick terrorist trying to upset the balance of lifestyle minded people? By insulting us and causing us to feel bad, we may go back into the privacy of our dark rooms and retreat from society making it much easier for them to disrupt our government.

Wish there was some way to send a spike or virus back to their computer that would crash their system. But, in the meantime, we all know the best solution is ignore it till it goes away. The more attention shown, the more it will continue, after all, thats all they are looking for. On the positive side of this, it is so GREAT to see so many people come to the defense and comfort of others who have been insulted and upset by this act. Its so nice to know there are many many caring and wonderful people who truely care about each other and arent afraid to show compassion. No wonder we love you all.

Cyndi and HIM... (who ever he is)
From: FUCKHERIDID

Subject: wanna fuck some time?????

Date: July 26, 2006 (3:07 PM)
No Photo

(no message)


here is the message that we got from him. I hope he gets all the attention he wants...and then hangs by his balls.
Admin needs to remove this idiot. They seem slow to respond to this kind of abuse. This guy is probably a 60 year old virgin & is slow upstairs not to mention one ugly sucker.
Here is the best solution I can think of. Lets all get together and have him meet us for the party and we can see who gets fucked and by whom!

Mogar96
Do guys like this really think it will work for them and if it does what kind of woman or couple would respond to such crass behavior? No wonder it's so difficult for us single males when asses like that lower the bar when they really need the boom lowered on them. I know I wished I could get my hands on guys like this. Sounds like he's trying the shotgun approach. send a rude email to every profile in Utah hoping for someone to say "sure we'ld love to play with rude prick like you". And having met Alaska I know that such comments are totaly uncalled for. Alaska, I hope that's as close to the low side of single males you have to endure.
PS. looks like the best this guy will ever do is the blow up women he picks up at the adult novelty store. I don't think even the prostitutes would go for him no mater how much he has to spend.
Slowhand.. why are you picking on the rubber blow up ladies? They have higher standards than that moron... his only date is his right hand.. maybe, and that could be questionable too.
Yeppers some good info to have on that couple and we banned him too woohoo who's next..
Better not be us SECRET!