Swingers Forum - Gangbang

We decided that my wife needs to be the center of a 4-8 man (not counting me) gangbang. After almost a year and joining 2 sites and trying to meet up with men to get this set up we still have not had her gangbang. We can not find single men who are willing and available on the same day to make it happen. Never would have believed it.
So now we are trying to find a group of men (at least 4) who have maybe done it before together or someone who has some friends they could bring with them. That way I can set the date, time, and location and all we have to do is show up ready to party.
If anyone 8s in such a group or knows some one who is drop us a line.
Would like for the group to be interacial but not required. At least 4 to however many you can bring.

I'm free and ready when ever however I do not have 4 other males that would joing in

Slowhand is correct. You will have to invite a lot of men (at least double). Also, would recommend vetting and voice verification. If they won’t talk or can’t talk on the phone chances are they aren’t showing up. Another option is to do premeeting and see who shows up. They will most likely show up for the real deal. And lastly, be careful with that many men, things can get out of control.

Vegascouple469 is 100% spot on. Good luck in finding what you are seeking!

SLCBEACHBUM wrote:

go to the Stansbury Island naked beach on a weekend you could have your pick of men. I've seen this there before.

Yes, it's a bit of a drive from Tennessee...and the biting gnats will chew up your naughty bits but, hey, why not?

I will come help you and her out with this.

SLOWHAND311 wrote:

Ah the monumental task of setting up a Gang bang.. If you want 4-8 you better have RSVPs from 8-15 since many may sign up but most won't show, unless you find a bachelor party, or hand out open invitations at a strip club, it's not an east situation to set up, even with days or weeks to organize it. Luckily one I set up that only one guy out of 7 showed up, had some good folks (four couples),here that filled in, and ended up a great night, and the woman got her gang bang, and the rest had lots of fun too.
So I wish you success, it's almost as difficult as finding the perfect unicorn, but it can be done, just be patient and screen the men well, and invite several more than you need.

Funny reading posts like these I 100% agree with you, and at the same time, 100% disagree. About a year or so ago we thought about doing this and found a guy on another forum that set them up. During that year he has talked to my wife about doing one for her. So this Friday everything aligned that we could attend. He set it up for my wife and one other girl. he had 8-10 coming possibly 12. We said we would stop by, which we did, and the 8-12 equaled 1 and for him wife said "not in a million years" so we ended up having a fun mff with her and went home.

BUT, from our personal experience we have done a total of 5 of these parties and they have not only been successful, we have always had more guys than we planned. The first was not planned, we were in Germany and the wife was drunk texting 4 potential playmates and gave them all the hotel address and time. Thinking of the normal Utah flake rate (as posted above by many) we expected 1 or maybe another arriving later. Well in Germany they show up! and when you say sorry she is playing, they don't care and just want to join or have others join. So we had a fun night of my wife taking 4 different cocks, having to shower twice from cumshots (she says getting a dual facial is an unforgettable feeling) and she has loved multiple guys since.

Since that night we have done 4 other successful ones here in Utah, through this Forum. I could write a novel on the do's and don'ts but I won't. First write down exactly what you want, and when you advertise for it, use what you wrote down. I mean think about it, posting up "I want a bunch of guys to come gangbang my wife" is going to net you an inbox full of undesirables, cheaters, fake couple profiles with a "hall pass" - basically a bunch of dudes that came here to try to get laid. They failed vanilla, stopped here for a go with swingers, and next is stop is Fet life. Is this who you want taking turns with your wife?

With all the disappointing stories above, I see a trend of likely bad advertising and poor planning. It's no knock on anyone, swinger parties (drinking and grabbing ass till 2:00 a.m.), play parties/orgies (where you answer the "how many other couples are coming" question 200 times the night of)are completely different than a gangbang. You make a simple post with no rules or structure then wade through an inbox FULL or crap and red flags. What you don't see is your post also is full of red flags for the people you actually want. These guys have done this before, and find performing for your wife and everyone watching exhilarating and are always looking for the next amazing rush. But they see your post, like your wife on the profile, but then they think - am I going to make all the preparations, drive there, show up on time to a room full of undesirables, wait for my turn to give said performance, and while trying to put on a show, having clothed people showing up late, drunk dudes talking because - wife said no way, or they can't get it up?

Why would guys like this, the ones you want, show up to this? They likely have 5 hot wives they could play with on a Friday night. They want a true gangbang with a non talkative group of their peers, having rules, and trying to WIN the best performance of the night. The kind the other ladies in the room see and say "me next! Please!" What happens is they look over your post, look who is posting in it and kindly pass. Maybe sometimes they contact you and ask questions first, to find out if it is going to be worth it, and kindly pass as it seems like a numbers "quantity" game.

Sorry, just my 0.02. Maybe part of the problem is not the guys, but the planner and the original post.

I'm close and ready